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19 March 2015
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So what is your absolute most personal enjoyment of a meet?
Whether you're having fun with another couple, or a single gent/lady.. what is actually your most personal enjoyment of a meet?

I.E - do you enjoy knowing your wife/husband/partner is enjoying themselves and letting themselves go? Do you enjoy knowing they're being pleasured sexually and pleasuring someone else?
Is it the sex afterwards? Let's face it, the days that follow are pretty damned intense..

What actually does it for you, as a couple, or swingle, that really hits the spot. I mean really for you as an individual. What kick/enjoyment do you get from it? x
 
11 April 2018
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Blaydon
I think with me it's the whole build up. From either organising a meet or preparing to attend an event/club. The exchanges, the getting ready and making sure you're looking spot on. Then once there the flirting and seduction. The fondling and groping over and under the clothes and then eventually being able to discover their body whilst undressing each other. Damn I'm going to have to cool down now.
 
4 July 2017
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I particularly enjoy the encounters that are unlikely, that push the boat out, the ones where I get to drop into someone's life and spin it around. The ones that make me laugh the hardest. Every now and then you find a really good one :)

What can I say? I'm a social person, I like fucking new people
 
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Deerheart

What actually does it for you, as a couple, or swingle, that really hits the spot. I mean really for you as an individual. What kick/enjoyment do you get from it?

This really hit the spot.........I've called it........


Desert Dream


Many years ago I was driving a pick up truck across the Mohave Desert. It was hot and the air conditioner had stopped working. I had all the windows open trying to get as much cool air as possible. The truck was purring along at a constant 55mph. The road seemed to be going on forever as did the sweat tricking down my back.

And then I noticed the sign! I just caught it in peripheral vision. There was something about it that made me stop. I got out and walked to the sign, it was pointing down an old dirt track. I still couldn’t read it, it was covered in dust, so I rubbed it clean and read “Dancing Bears Grave”. I looked around. There was no one to be seen, no cars, no houses, just the occasional Hummingbird and Rattle Snake. I was literally in the middle of no where with dead Dancing Bear. Who was he? Why was he here? I assumed he was Native American but what Tribe? With these thoughts running and jumping through my head I sat on a rock and pulled out my tobacco.

I was about to light my roll-up when I heard a noise, looking up I saw a woman walking towards me from out of the desert. She was definitely Native American, wearing a white buckskin dress with fringes and feathers in her hair and silver beads that sparkled in the sunlight.. Was I dreaming? Her image seemed to shimmer as she came closer. Then something seemed to snap and standing in front of me was a beautiful young woman wearing jeans and a t-shirt. “Hi…. How nice to see you here by my grandfathers grave. I’m Shadow. Who are you and what brings you here?” I told her and she laughed. “That’s Grandpa for ya…. Would you like some tea, I’m just making some” she said walking away. I followed thinking, “anything to get out of this heat.”

As we walked over the hill I could see a beautiful rainbow coloured tipi below me. It had it’s sides rolled up letting the air through. A fire in the centre was heating a kettle. We sat on buffalo hides and talked as she made me sage tea. Then suddenly out of the blue she said… “Do you like Orgasms? “ It was so incongruous and surreal, it almost took my breath away. There was that feeling again that I was not quite in my body anymore. I thought I’d just imagined that she said that. Then she said it again. “Yes” I replied…. “Of course I like Orgasms” “Then take your clothes off and lie down….I’ll give you the best Orgasm you’ll ever have”. I did as I was told.

She put a scarf over my eyes so I couldn’t see and started to stroke my body with an owl feather. It was so soft I could hardly feel it at first. Then the most sensual sensations started running through my body as the feather seemed be dancing all over my skin. Then she started to stroke my cock with it. I could feel it moving up and down it’s length then focusing on it’s head.

I can’t remember ever having such an intense erection. She laughed and pulled off the scarf… She was kneeling at my head and her wet pussy was just inches above my face. I could smell her sweet juices as she lowered herself onto my mouth and I slid my tongue between the lips of her very wet pussy. Her taste and smell were bewilderingly erotic. As I licked and sucked her clitoris, I could feel it swelling in my mouth and she bent down and started to lick my hard cock. I thought I was about to explode and cum in her mouth. She must have known, because she pulled back and kept me on the verge of orgasm for ages. It was a journey into bliss that I’d never experienced before. She turned around and slowly sat on my hard throbbing cock. I was so deep inside her I totally lost all sense of Self. I was inside her and she was inside me. We had merged into one another. We had become one and waves of pulsating orgasms were racing through both of our bodies. Then we hit the peak of ecstasy as I started to pump all of myself into her receptive body…… We both screamed with delight and pleasure.

As the energy subsided and we just held each other I noticed how wet we were. I could still feel her body shuddering in my arms and my cock was still hard and throbbing inside her. We lied there, she had her bottom in my lap and I had her firm breasts in my hands. My nose was in her black hair, she smelt of sage and sweetgrass. Again I felt as if we were floating above the buffalo furs we were lying on.

Then I found myself standing by Dancing Bears grave…….. Did that happen? I have no memory of getting dressed, leaving the tipi, leaving Shadow and coming back to this grave. I thought about going over the hill to see if she was still there in the tipi. But I didn’t…… Didn’t want to break the magic. I never went back there. But 7 years later, I quit my job and became an apprentice to a Native American Medicine Man for 8 years. Did it all happen? Or was it just a desert dream.
 
4 July 2017
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Glastonbury
What actually does it for you, as a couple, or swingle, that really hits the spot. I mean really for you as an individual. What kick/enjoyment do you get from it?

This really hit the spot.........I've called it........


Desert Dream


Many years ago I was driving a pick up truck across the Mohave Desert. It was hot and the air conditioner had stopped working. I had all the windows open trying to get as much cool air as possible. The truck was purring along at a constant 55mph. The road seemed to be going on forever as did the sweat tricking down my back.

And then I noticed the sign! I just caught it in peripheral vision. There was something about it that made me stop. I got out and walked to the sign, it was pointing down an old dirt track. I still couldn’t read it, it was covered in dust, so I rubbed it clean and read “Dancing Bears Grave”. I looked around. There was no one to be seen, no cars, no houses, just the occasional Hummingbird and Rattle Snake. I was literally in the middle of no where with dead Dancing Bear. Who was he? Why was he here? I assumed he was Native American but what Tribe? With these thoughts running and jumping through my head I sat on a rock and pulled out my tobacco.

I was about to light my roll-up when I heard a noise, looking up I saw a woman walking towards me from out of the desert. She was definitely Native American, wearing a white buckskin dress with fringes and feathers in her hair and silver beads that sparkled in the sunlight.. Was I dreaming? Her image seemed to shimmer as she came closer. Then something seemed to snap and standing in front of me was a beautiful young woman wearing jeans and a t-shirt. “Hi…. How nice to see you here by my grandfathers grave. I’m Shadow. Who are you and what brings you here?” I told her and she laughed. “That’s Grandpa for ya…. Would you like some tea, I’m just making some” she said walking away. I followed thinking, “anything to get out of this heat.”

As we walked over the hill I could see a beautiful rainbow coloured tipi below me. It had it’s sides rolled up letting the air through. A fire in the centre was heating a kettle. We sat on buffalo hides and talked as she made me sage tea. Then suddenly out of the blue she said… “Do you like Orgasms? “ It was so incongruous and surreal, it almost took my breath away. There was that feeling again that I was not quite in my body anymore. I thought I’d just imagined that she said that. Then she said it again. “Yes” I replied…. “Of course I like Orgasms” “Then take your clothes off and lie down….I’ll give you the best Orgasm you’ll ever have”. I did as I was told.

She put a scarf over my eyes so I couldn’t see and started to stroke my body with an owl feather. It was so soft I could hardly feel it at first. Then the most sensual sensations started running through my body as the feather seemed be dancing all over my skin. Then she started to stroke my cock with it. I could feel it moving up and down it’s length then focusing on it’s head.

I can’t remember ever having such an intense erection. She laughed and pulled off the scarf… She was kneeling at my head and her wet pussy was just inches above my face. I could smell her sweet juices as she lowered herself onto my mouth and I slid my tongue between the lips of her very wet pussy. Her taste and smell were bewilderingly erotic. As I licked and sucked her clitoris, I could feel it swelling in my mouth and she bent down and started to lick my hard cock. I thought I was about to explode and cum in her mouth. She must have known, because she pulled back and kept me on the verge of orgasm for ages. It was a journey into bliss that I’d never experienced before. She turned around and slowly sat on my hard throbbing cock. I was so deep inside her I totally lost all sense of Self. I was inside her and she was inside me. We had merged into one another. We had become one and waves of pulsating orgasms were racing through both of our bodies. Then we hit the peak of ecstasy as I started to pump all of myself into her receptive body…… We both screamed with delight and pleasure.

As the energy subsided and we just held each other I noticed how wet we were. I could still feel her body shuddering in my arms and my cock was still hard and throbbing inside her. We lied there, she had her bottom in my lap and I had her firm breasts in my hands. My nose was in her black hair, she smelt of sage and sweetgrass. Again I felt as if we were floating above the buffalo furs we were lying on.

Then I found myself standing by Dancing Bears grave…….. Did that happen? I have no memory of getting dressed, leaving the tipi, leaving Shadow and coming back to this grave. I thought about going over the hill to see if she was still there in the tipi. But I didn’t…… Didn’t want to break the magic. I never went back there. But 7 years later, I quit my job and became an apprentice to a Native American Medicine Man for 8 years. Did it all happen? Or was it just a desert dream.
Have you been to Burning Man, dude?

It's in north Nevada
 
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26 March 2018
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For me (Muse) I like to be in the thick of it all, enjoying all the feelings of being pleasured and pleasuring, and if it’s multiple people involved I’m as happy as a pig in you know what!

For Tog, he often likes to take a backseat and watch me playing he is a very visual person and he says it’s like having a personal live performance from his favourite porn star. It has often been mistaken by (big tar brush) single men as a sign he can’t perform / satisfy me, or we are a cuckold couple - which couldn’t be further from the truth!

Muse xx
 
30 March 2017
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I think with me it's the whole build up. From either organising a meet or preparing to attend an event/club. The exchanges, the getting ready and making sure you're looking spot on. Then once there the flirting and seduction. The fondling and groping over and under the clothes and then eventually being able to discover their body whilst undressing each other. Damn I'm going to have to cool down now.

Have to agree with you, it’s the whole package for me.

The chase, the flirting, building up to arranging the meet. Then the waiting for that date to come around...... the sexual tension building before you have even met.:sneaky:
When that date finally arrives........ meeting for the first time, weather it be at a club, hotel or house even after being on the scene for 10 years I still get butterflies:)

Then the sexual tension escalates as you chat, drink and the fun starts....... the touch, the stroke....... the kiss:whistle:

You get the picture ;):whistle:
 
19 March 2015
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The days even weeks after are the best. The sex is mind blowing :sneaky:
Agreed, this is one of the highlights for us, for me; the after sex. Whoosh! We have always been sexually compatible and know what makes us go, but the after sex from seeing someone else, is just mind blowing.

On the way back from Xtasia for the site's Birthday Bash, we were chatting non-stop in the car and at one point, I pulled into the slow lane and started pleasuring HRH initially through her jeans, then atop her knickers and then beneath. She was like putty in my hands and hit a hard orgasm within minutes. That after sex, is something else. It's connected and deep. IMHO all part of a Mantra/Tantric between people. Fuck me it's intense and we love it ;) :sneaky: x
 
Pearls

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18 July 2015
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Agreed, this is one of the highlights for us, for me; the after sex. Whoosh! We have always been sexually compatible and know what makes us go, but the after sex from seeing someone else, is just mind blowing.

On the way back from Xtasia for the site's Birthday Bash, we were chatting non-stop in the car and at one point, I pulled into the slow lane and started pleasuring HRH initially through her jeans, then atop her knickers and then beneath. She was like putty in my hands and hit a hard orgasm within minutes. That after sex, is something else. It's connected and deep. IMHO all part of a Mantra/Tantric between people. Fuck me it's intense and we love it ;) :sneaky: x
:flick::sneaky:Xx
 
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Definitely the build up to it...all the saucy messages and pics that you swap(y)(y)..all the mental images you have in your head thinking about what you will be doing and how exciting it's gets you letting go and sort of becoming someone else for however long the fun lasts..letting all your inhibitions go and getting lost in the moment seeing your partner enjoy everything so much getting more excited watching you enjoy it...then the re connection with your own partner after the meets...wow sex after a meet is amazing with your partner...W...:D:D(y)