relax. get chatting to people, make friends first, then get flirting, and the rest in our experience if all is gelling well normally follows naturally !! enjoy things, don't feel pressured and above all be yourselves and honest at all times !!
Ooh same here, my apologies.. Welcome to the site but most of all welcome to the lifestyle.
Don't know how or why I missed this so I do apologise, but indeed I can understand being apprehensive and with the right guidance, and speaking to & with the right people - you will go far.
A warm welcome again and you joined the right site.