Ok So You’ve

Stew · 24 May 2019

liked a couple of posts, you start to get interested in the person behind the posts !
You click on the name and open the profile, perhaps wander around their media, what then stops you messaging the person ?

Is it age related
Too far away
Looks aren’t to your liking
Shyness
Or something else entirely

We are probably the best swinging community on the net and I may be wrong but there’s a hell of a lot of community stuff happening but not a large amount of swinging !!
By and large all of the people on this site are well known and trustworthy so what’s the blockers ?
As with all things you only get out what you put in xx

StokeChoke · 24 May 2019

For me there isn’t a lot stopping me

If I see someone/couple I’m interested in I will message them and see how it goes from there.

This isn’t a dig site the site in any way but I think because it’s such a friendly social site a lot of members get comfortable chatting, socialising and having a laugh and forget what we are all here for

Stew · 24 May 2019

StokeChoke said:
This isn’t a dig site the site in any way but I think because it’s such a friendly social site a lot of members get comfortable chatting, socialising and having a laugh and forget what we are all here for

I agree totally hence the community comment !
We are all here for the same thing ! If not why are we here lol

StokeChoke · 24 May 2019

We are all here for the same thing ! If not why are we here lol[/QUOTE]

Well said sir

Pearls · 24 May 2019

Too many people get comfy sadly Stew and cliques form, people then forget why they are here but we are here for the same reasons as you and are meeting. Either we get a message or we message them and go from there. As stoke said, you only get out what you put in and it works. For us anyway.

Pearls · 24 May 2019

StokeChoke said:
We are all here for the same thing ! If not why are we here lol

Well said sir [/QUOTE]
Looking for love

Pearls · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
Too many people get comfy sadly Stew and cliques form, people then forget why they are here but we are here for the same reasons as you and are meeting. Either we get a message or we message them and go from there. As stoke said, you only get out what you put in and it works. For us anyway.

Also laziness Stew. Viewing people in threads but not liking or commenting is a problem as they won’t get alerts so think there isn’t interest. Remember, coffee shop and market place?

StokeChoke · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
Also laziness Stew. Viewing people in threads but not liking or commenting is a problem as they won’t get alerts so think there isn’t interest. Remember, coffee shop and market place?

Mmmmm coffee

Pearls · 24 May 2019

StokeChoke said:
Mmmmm coffee

Ok go on then.

Stew · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
Remember, coffee shop and market place?

We have the bums on seats, they are perusing the menu, just not ordering !!

Pearls · 24 May 2019

Stew said:
We have the bums on seats, they are perusing the menu, just not ordering !!

We are and eating

Deleted member 11852 · 24 May 2019

StokeChoke said:
Mmmmm coffee

Two sweeteners in mine please xx M

Stew · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
We are and eating

I can’t even get a starter lol

StokeChoke · 24 May 2019

I’ve been having 3 courses lately with seconds

Pearls · 24 May 2019

Stew said:
I can’t even get a starter lol

You let your charm

Pearls · 24 May 2019

StokeChoke said:
I’ve been having 3 courses lately with seconds

Us too

Stew · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
You let your charm

??????

StokeChoke · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
Us too

As said before....... get out what you put in

Pearls · 24 May 2019

Stew said:
??????

Lost

Pearls · 24 May 2019

StokeChoke said:
As said before....... get out what you put in

Putting in

Stew · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
Lost

Still got the magic lamp just no one rubbing it !!!

Carpediem2008 · 24 May 2019

For us distance is very much a factor... we both work full time so kids usually take up the weekends for us .... (if only we knew a swinging couple who lived near us hehe life would be so much easier ) xxx

StokeChoke · 24 May 2019

Pearls said:
Putting in

No fun if you’re not putting it in

mrclouse · 24 May 2019

Usually shyness plus maybe abit of paranoia but distance can be a factor though only when it seems like the other does not want to deal with someone comming frif far away

The-Gent · 24 May 2019

Malnutrition is my problem at mo

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