One For You Ss How Do We Keep The Swinging N Social Life Style Fresh New

SteveandDebs

SteveandDebs

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We dip in and out of swinging and BDSM as well. What is constant is looking at each other and thinking "I really want to shag her/him". Ok we've probably (have) slowed down a bit from the 2-3 times a day when we first got together but that was 15 years ago and we are getting on a bit now ;)
 
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Communication. We found being able to discuss openly what is interesting us keeps us keen. Ok we've only been together a short while but I could see our initial interest cool after the first excitement, but that's good. Seeing someone new and asking what do you think without minding if it's sorry no or mmm yes please, that keeps us fresh.
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Absolutely @SteLinda, we've always worked on the principal that it better to regret the things you have done than regret the things that you didn't do.

If we try something new we then talk about it, if we both enjoyed it then we do it again, if one of us didn't we forget it.
 
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SteveandDebs said:
Absolutely @SteLinda, we've always worked on the principal that it better to regret the things you have done than regret the things that you didn't do.

If we try something new we then talk about it, if we both enjoyed it then we do it again, if one of us didn't we forget it.
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...although we've both never even tried BDSM, bondage, DOMsub... as we are happy with hot fun.
 
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@SteveandDebs . Oh! Agreed. For some wearing a latex mask while hancuffed is a huge turn on, I'd just feel silly. Not saying it IS silly just dies nothing for us.
 
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Louise1970 said:
Been new to the scene the social side you meet an array of pple like yourself and it's about what makes you wanting to try new sexual pleasures and fantasies :rolleyes:
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Fantasies, talking/comms... and being open.

Now the fluffy stuff is done;
Being tied up and flogged. Whipped. Restrained. Limited with some things if not being well behaved and some more...
Oh and fucking great sex both before, during and after. We can have a 2-3 day high afterwards and even then the comedown is rampant! Bring it on!

If only Carlsberg did swingers' auto replies... :D



I'm kidding. All true. :sneaky: :whistle: x
 
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