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Pearls

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After a brief chat this morning this got me thinking how many people can’t orgasm through oral.
Guys can you climax with a blowjob and if not please be honest to give reasons :blowjob:

Ladies, do you have the same issue? Can you orgasm just by clit stimulation or do you need something more like a finger or two for internal stimulation at the same time? :lick:


I can cum in a flash, just by Hubby giving a touch of his tongue, some times after chats it can take a few seconds, I used to think it was a problem, I know now it’s not and I embrace it. He just says I’m an easy woman :D

I can also make him cum with a good BJ. Depending again on build up, it can be a few mins to an hour with teasing in between, massage his balls at the same time and happy days. I don’t like failure :rofl::sneaky:

Over to you sexy peeps. :bj1::licking:
 
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As per our discussion, its very rare for me to climax from a BJ, just don't seem to get enough of the right stimulation to get me over the finish line.
But I've never seen it as a problem, mainly because I'm more of a giver, I start feeling guilty if I'm being the sole focus of attention - but I have had a few women get upset by it, as they see it as they haven't turned me on.

Muse cums so easily it ridiculous, but I think its great especially with playdates as they go away feeling good that they've made her cum so many times - we never have the heart to tell them that its just her normal state.
 

Stew

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Foreskin back and lollipop the end as you wank me and I’m all ready to go in minutes, deeper and I struggle a little, deep throat needs to be a filthy face fuck.

I actually get a stack of pleasure from giving oral, fingers playing probing exploring as my lips push the hood back and I suck and tongue the clit, waiting for the opportune moment to push fingers in deep and massage the g-spot or if I’m in the mood waiting for the quivering to start before I back off and issue the order to STOP
 

Pearls

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Interesting replies gents. So hit and miss then?
What about the ladies?
Oh and I love it Stew. :D
I’ll just add giving a bj wasn’t easy for me as you worry as a woman if your doing it right, hitting the right spot. It’s taken time to get to enjoyment of feeling comfortable and confident and I know Mr A enjoys. He’s very vocal :sneaky::D
 

Pearls

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No different from full sex in that sometimes I can climax quickly and at other tines it takes longer. All in the mind I guess :)
You got it, we’ve had times where we rip each other’s clothes off and it’s over in less than a min, other times it can be hours, all about mind and mood at that given time, we find if we plan something it usually goes tits up, :D so much more fun if it’s unexpected x
 

Ahabs

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At the risk of sounding like I'm laying down a challenge (and honestly, I'm not), I've never come from receiving oral. I don't for one minute think it has anything to do with who I was with at the time, the setting, my energy levels or state if mind. I just think I'm one of those weird guys who isn't wired that way: same as I don't get anything from watching 2 girls playing together.

As for giving on the other hand, completely different story (I was even given "Cunning-Linguist" tee shirt!). So, step into my office :)
 

Lace

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After a brief chat this morning this got me thinking how many people can’t orgasm through oral.
Guys can you climax with a blowjob and if not please be honest to give reasons :blowjob:

Ladies, do you have the same issue? Can you orgasm just by clit stimulation or do you need something more like a finger or two for internal stimulation at the same time? :lick:


I can cum in a flash, just by Hubby giving a touch of his tongue, some times after chats it can take a few seconds, I used to think it was a problem, I know now it’s not and I embrace it. He just says I’m an easy woman :D

I can also make him cum with a good BJ. Depending again on build up, it can be a few mins to an hour with teasing in between, massage his balls at the same time and happy days. I don’t like failure :rofl::sneaky:

Over to you sexy peeps. :bj1::licking:
Yes tongue on just clit works for me. ;)
 
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