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Discussion in 'All About Swinging' started by Pearls, 16 May 2019.

  1. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    After a brief chat this morning this got me thinking how many people can’t orgasm through oral.
    Guys can you climax with a blowjob and if not please be honest to give reasons :blowjob:

    Ladies, do you have the same issue? Can you orgasm just by clit stimulation or do you need something more like a finger or two for internal stimulation at the same time? :lick:


    I can cum in a flash, just by Hubby giving a touch of his tongue, some times after chats it can take a few seconds, I used to think it was a problem, I know now it’s not and I embrace it. He just says I’m an easy woman :D

    I can also make him cum with a good BJ. Depending again on build up, it can be a few mins to an hour with teasing in between, massage his balls at the same time and happy days. I don’t like failure :rofl::sneaky:

    Over to you sexy peeps. :bj1::licking:
     
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  2. debE

    debE PV Sprtr

    Its always nice to have a finger or two, but not always necessary for me. Working that tongue on my clit alone is often all its needs when done properly xx
     
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  3. As per our discussion, its very rare for me to climax from a BJ, just don't seem to get enough of the right stimulation to get me over the finish line.
    But I've never seen it as a problem, mainly because I'm more of a giver, I start feeling guilty if I'm being the sole focus of attention - but I have had a few women get upset by it, as they see it as they haven't turned me on.

    Muse cums so easily it ridiculous, but I think its great especially with playdates as they go away feeling good that they've made her cum so many times - we never have the heart to tell them that its just her normal state.
     
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  4. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    Sometimes but absolutely not always.
     
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  5. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Foreskin back and lollipop the end as you wank me and I’m all ready to go in minutes, deeper and I struggle a little, deep throat needs to be a filthy face fuck.

    I actually get a stack of pleasure from giving oral, fingers playing probing exploring as my lips push the hood back and I suck and tongue the clit, waiting for the opportune moment to push fingers in deep and massage the g-spot or if I’m in the mood waiting for the quivering to start before I back off and issue the order to STOP
     
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  6. StokeChoke

    StokeChoke PV Sprtr

    Sometimes I can sometimes I can’t, it’s nothing to do with the person giving me oral it just has a mind of its own :rofl:

    As for me giving oral....... I like to make sure the receiver cum’s as many times as possible :sneaky:
     
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  7. The-Gent

    The-Gent PV Sprtr

    Interesting! if its a in and out off mouth job difficult to cum, however if its a proper suck and blow job wow blows the top off x
     
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  8. Therapon

    Therapon Admin Sprtr

    Most of the time yes but not always. On those occasions when I can't it's nothing to do with the person giving oral or the way they do it, it for some reason just doesn't do it for me at that time. No idea why and it doesn't worry me it's just one of those things.
     
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  9. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Can I reverse the question a little , what do the girls on here think about sucking a guy off? Duty , pleasure , or a necessity as you adore it ?
     
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  10. The-Gent

    The-Gent PV Sprtr

    Well I can chip in, the girls that do it, love it others have not discovered the enjoyment it brings xx
     
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  11. debE

    debE PV Sprtr

    A pleasure as its something i adore doing:sneaky:x
     
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  12. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    As I love giving bjs I would say it’s an absolute pleasure for me xx M
     
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  13. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Interesting replies gents. So hit and miss then?
    What about the ladies?
    Oh and I love it Stew. :D
     
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  14. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    I’ll just add giving a bj wasn’t easy for me as you worry as a woman if your doing it right, hitting the right spot. It’s taken time to get to enjoyment of feeling comfortable and confident and I know Mr A enjoys. He’s very vocal :sneaky::D
     
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  15. Therapon

    Therapon Admin Sprtr

    No different from full sex in that sometimes I can climax quickly and at other tines it takes longer. All in the mind I guess :)
     
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  16. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    You got it, we’ve had times where we rip each other’s clothes off and it’s over in less than a min, other times it can be hours, all about mind and mood at that given time, we find if we plan something it usually goes tits up, :D so much more fun if it’s unexpected x
     
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  17. Welshcouple59

    Welshcouple59 PV Sprtr

    I think it all depends on what kind of mood I am in. Sometimes I can come right away, other times I can go for ages before getting anywhere near coming. I like that this happens though because it means that the same thing isn’t happening all the time. xx M
     
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  18. Ahabs

    Ahabs PV Sprtr

    At the risk of sounding like I'm laying down a challenge (and honestly, I'm not), I've never come from receiving oral. I don't for one minute think it has anything to do with who I was with at the time, the setting, my energy levels or state if mind. I just think I'm one of those weird guys who isn't wired that way: same as I don't get anything from watching 2 girls playing together.

    As for giving on the other hand, completely different story (I was even given "Cunning-Linguist" tee shirt!). So, step into my office :)
     
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  19. debE

    debE PV Sprtr

    Vocals always a good sign....:sneaky:x
     
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  20. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Hell yes. He’s a screamer :whistle::rofl:
     
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  21. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Diva !!
     
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  22. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    :rofl:
     
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  23. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    :D
     
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  24. Lace

    Lace PV Sprtr

    Yes tongue on just clit works for me. ;)
     
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  25. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Oh does it? What a surprise... :whistle: :D xx
     
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