HI,
whilst I agree with you entirely regarding the attitude and behaviour of the majority of swingers, who I've always found to be the most genuine and, at most times, sexually cautious and responsible people around, it doesn't apply to all.
As we, as swingers, will not all share the same religious, political or social beliefs then there will be a huge diversity of sexual attitudes.
Within our ranks, I believe the majority will have a broadly similar attitude towards an orgy as you.
However, there will also be a sizeable minority who enjoy the "edgier" side of the scene. ?
There are those, for example, who just love some, or all, aspects of BDSM
There are ladies out there who enjoy a gangbang or the excitement of a Gloryhole.
There are those that live for Dogging (or certain other outdoor activities)
And I'm sure that, out there somewhere, there are those that are thrilled by the idea of being involved in an orgy.
BTW, I never suggested the kind of orgy one might see on a porn site.
My "idea" never got off the ground but my hope was that once people had shown an interest we could spend time getting to know each other and establishing the behaviour, attitude, and boundaries that everyone would have been comfortable with.
I guess the word "orgy" was a little ambitious.
It could probably have been better described as a friendly gathering of like-minded, sexually liberated friends who would enjoy meeting for a glass of wine, some nice food, and getting naked and having sexy fun.
As I mentioned in my original post I know I could visit my local club and have an experience akin to a "porn" orgy but that was never what I wanted.
Anyway, I think that everyone can sleep safely without the fear of being dragged from their beds and forced to indulge in acts of perversion and utter depravity in the midst of an orgy Caligula would be proud of as, despite my belief that in the world of swinging there are those that would jump at the chance of being involved, they don't seem to frequent this site.
I have had one person show interest, but he, like me, is a straight guy and I don't think an orgy consisting of two heterosexual males would be what we're looking for. ?
much love,