Pictures Do No Justice...

[Lips_Pearls]

So here's the scenario; (this is purely example)
You attend a social/play event or even have a meet and realise that the person or couple you're meeting look nothing like their photos in a positive way.
In other words, they look better in real life than their photos depict!

Knowing this do you approach the subject and say - guys your photos don't do you justice, or leave it. Say nothing.

Especially knowing that people DO eat with their eyes first.

 

[Tigress]

Sometimes I haven't really been into someone until I talk to them. It's so much more than how they look.

 

[Lovernotfighter]

Funnily I find this happens a lot to me, I just say something like "you look a lot prettier in the flesh"

 

[Deleted member 3657]

I would say something.

On a personal note I think I look awful in pics and worse in the flesh.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I would say something.

On a personal note I think I look awful in pics and worse in the flesh.

Don't be so hard on yourself. You're a handsome chap who has a lot of charm and hugely respectful.

 

[Tigress]

I would say something.

On a personal note I think I look awful in pics and worse in the flesh.

Nonsense. You do it for me. In the flesh and in your pics too xxx

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Don't be so hard on yourself. You're a handsome chap who has a lot of charm and hugely respectful.

@Kwaka_Rider there's nowt wrong with the way you look.... take a look around you, there's people of all different sizes and age, and they are ALL friendly people.

Nonsense. You do it for me. In the flesh and in your pics too xxx

Oh Wow you lot know how to cheer someone up. Just never rated myself.

And yeah we're all different and all sexy in different ways. Be boring otherwise.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Oh Wow you lot know how to cheer someone up. Just never rated myself.

And yeah we're all different and all sexy in different ways. Be boring otherwise.

You do need to stop being so judgemental on yourself. People like you for you and like you just the way you are. Ourselves included.

Wouldn't it just! What a boring world it would be if we were all the same.

 

[Looby&Lew]

Oh Wow you lot know how to cheer someone up. Just never rated myself.

And yeah we're all different and all sexy in different ways. Be boring otherwise.

Now we've sorted that give us a snog?

 

[Deleted member 2610]

Pictures may look fantastic but it doesn't convey all of that person. Beauty is more than good looks.
We all think our photos are so so and if we worried about them then the gallery would be a bit empty.
My view if you don't like mine I don't particular care..I do xxxx :0))

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Pictures may look fantastic but it doesn't convey all of that person. Beauty is more than good looks.
We all think our photos are so so and if we worried about them then the gallery would be a bit empty.
My view if you don't like mine I don't particular care..I do xxxx :0))

Of course, but the point being here is - if you met someone on the flesh and think their photos do not do them justice and they look better than the photos themselves - would you say something, or not?
Of course, beauty is not necessarily about how someone looks or appears - but this example is literally just that. The people you meet are physically more attractive than what their photos depict so would you tell them.

 

[Deleted member 2610]

Of course, but the point being here is - if you met someone on the flesh and think their photos do not do them justice and they look better than the photos themselves - would you say something, or not?
Of course, beauty is not necessarily about how someone looks or appears - but this example is literally just that. The people you meet are physically more attractive than what their photos depict so would you tell them.

Yes it's a compliment to them :0))

 

[MP386]

I would say something.

On a personal note I think I look awful in pics and worse in the flesh.

I can relate to this as it's something that I do think about myself , the photos I inflict on everyone have had some great comments which always surprise me and are a big ego boost ..I have only met a few people from here and the photos posted have been as they are in real life ...

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Beauty isn't the wrapper it's what's in the box xx

Yes.... but....
Ah never mind.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I would say something.

On a personal note I think I look awful in pics and worse in the flesh.

No you don't x

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I can relate to this as it's something that I do think about myself , the photos I inflict on everyone have had some great comments which always surprise me and are a big ego boost ..I have only met a few people from here and the photos posted have been as they are in real life ...

Your not bad on the eye either... x

 

[MP386]

Your not bad on the eye either... x

Thank you my darling ...

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Thank you my darling ...

You are most welcome.. now no more compliments don't be getting used to it now.. x

 

[Lips_Pearls]

So without a huge mutual appreciation society going on; would you tell someone?

 

[meet_the_fockers]

So without a huge mutual appreciation society going on; would you tell someone?

Yes and i have done.. you know me always brutally honest, I would take it as a compliment, if someone told me i was better in the flesh.. im sure i said this, to someone at the VA damned if, i can remember who!! Bugging me now.. might have been little pixie unsure if im honest..

 

[Looby&Lew]

I can relate to this as it's something that I do think about myself , the photos I inflict on everyone have had some great comments which always surprise me and are a big ego boost ..I have only met a few people from here and the photos posted have been as they are in real life ...

Of a handsome guy

 

[MP386]

Of a handsome guy

Thank you gorgeous
For anyone out there Looby is a stunner !!!

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Yes and i have done.. you know me always brutally honest, I would take it as a compliment, if someone told me i was better in the flesh.. im sure i said this, to someone at the VA damned if, i can remember who!! Bugging me now.. might have been little pixie unsure if im honest..

Oh ai our pearls is better in the flesh must admit.

 

[Looby&Lew]

I would. Pictures never capture that essence that makes the difference between how someone looks and how someone makes you feel when you meet them. As has been said before attraction is more than looks xx

 

[MP386]

Now I understand what this thread is about but I am not going to meet someone and say blimey your not like your pictures... you look rougher than a bears bum ...