Priviledge

[Ahabs]

I recently saw the word "priviledge" used on a recent thread, and, off the back of an external interaction (******, of all places) with a certain lady, it got me thinking what the meaning of the word really is, especially in a swinging context.

In summary, here's how I see it, based on her world view. Priviledge is:

1. Knowing you can say you don't accomodate, and guys should be okay with it, but if they don't you choose to question why?
2. That hotels for meets are of "a certain standard" (cause Premier Inn is not "Premier" enough).
3. That you don't look outside a 15 min commute for meets, anyone outside that has to come to you, ie, book a hotel nearby
4. That anyone willing to travel an hour or more must be desperate.
5. For you to get to a club outside your commute radius, the guy should book you an Uber to pick you up, and get you home, if he's not doing the driving that is.
6. Ofcourse he;s picking up the tab - he's the one interested in getting in your knickers.
7. You are not expected to be questioned on any of the above. If you don't like it, move on.

 

[Looby&Lew]

Wowsers that's one to give a wide berth to even if she's beautiful on the outside
.....it clearly doesn't follow through to the inside x

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Wow, some lady. That’s all I have to say. Good job we are not all the same xx M

 

[Stew]

Wow, some lady. That’s all I have to say. Good job we are not all the same xx M

No some are real ladies xx

 

[Therapon]

I recently saw the word "priviledge" used on a recent thread, and, off the back of an external interaction (*****, of all places) with a certain lady, it got me thinking what the meaning of the word really is, especially in a swinging context.

In summary, here's how I see it, based on her world view. Priviledge is:

1. Knowing you can say you don't accomodate, and guys should be okay with it, but if they don't you choose to question why?
2. That hotels for meets are of "a certain standard" (cause Premier Inn is not "Premier" enough).
3. That you don't look outside a 15 min commute for meets, anyone outside that has to come to you, ie, book a hotel nearby
4. That anyone willing to travel an hour or more must be desperate.
5. For you to get to a club outside your commute radius, the guy should book you an Uber to pick you up, and get you home, if he's not doing the driving that is.
6. Ofcourse he;s picking up the tab - he's the one interested in getting in your knickers.
7. You are not expected to be questioned on any of the above. If you don't like it, move on.

I take it a quick fuck in the car park is out of the question then
I will retain my privilege of not knowing her

 

[Deleted member 11094]

So this is what she thinks?

This is what she expects?

Privilege can mean different things in different areas.
If she believes these are how things should be, it is warped and divisive, plus hypocritical.

 

[Deleted member 6485]

I recently saw the word "priviledge" used on a recent thread, and, off the back of an external interaction (*****, of all places) with a certain lady, it got me thinking what the meaning of the word really is, especially in a swinging context.

In summary, here's how I see it, based on her world view. Priviledge is:

1. Knowing you can say you don't accomodate, and guys should be okay with it, but if they don't you choose to question why?
2. That hotels for meets are of "a certain standard" (cause Premier Inn is not "Premier" enough).
3. That you don't look outside a 15 min commute for meets, anyone outside that has to come to you, ie, book a hotel nearby
4. That anyone willing to travel an hour or more must be desperate.
5. For you to get to a club outside your commute radius, the guy should book you an Uber to pick you up, and get you home, if he's not doing the driving that is.
6. Ofcourse he;s picking up the tab - he's the one interested in getting in your knickers.
7. You are not expected to be questioned on any of the above. If you don't like it, move on.

 

[Ahabs]

Lets just say my answer to her was two-fold:

1. I said "Lucky you that you have options within a 15-minute circle, but I'm not interested in people just caue they are close, I'm interested cause there is more to it. Besides, for quality, I WILL travel."

2. As my pops used to to tell me: "The kid who never left home, thinks his father's farm is the biggest". In short, travel: expand your horizons, gain an education.

Lets just say we are no longer talking.

 

[Leonidas480]

Wow, that opening post (list of privileges) left me a bit disgusted. I'm so glad this site has such a different ethos. If I met someone like that in RL, I couldn't run far enough!

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I'm so glad this site has such a different ethos.

Which has been instilled from day one.
Which in turn makes me wonder why anyone in their right mind, still frequents such other sites.
Know what I mean?

 

[Deleted member 6485]

Which has been instilled from day one.
Which in turn makes me wonder why anyone in their right mind, still frequents such other sites.
Know what I mean?

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Totally agree xx

 

[Deleted member 1030]

Which in turn makes me wonder why anyone in their right mind, still frequents such other sites.
Know what I mean?

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I put it down to..... um, actually, I don't know why anyone would use another site

 

[Deleted member 10361]

Don’t forget the ones that you can buy gifts for, check out their Amazon wish list!!

 

[Ahabs]

Which has been instilled from day one.
Which in turn makes me wonder why anyone in their right mind, still frequents such other sites.
Know what I mean?

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I hold my hand up, I use multiple sites for one reason only: options.

At the moment if I only wanted one play mate, I'd be monogamous and not a swinger. As my appetite is quite high, using multiple sites presents the option of multiple opportunities.

If I used one site only (and this is not a knock on whichever site that may be) my opportunity to play would be limited to that one site ... And for me, once a year will simply not do.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I hold my hand up, I use multiple sites for one reason only: options.

At the moment if I only wanted one play mate, I'd be monogamous and not a swinger. As my appetite is quite high, using multiple sites presents the option of multiple opportunities.

If I used one site only (and this is not a knock on whichever site that may be) my opportunity to play would be limited to that one site ... And for me, once a year will simply not do.

Gosh no @Ahabs, can’t use Maltesers just once a year lol xx M

 

[Ahabs]

Gosh no @Ahabs, can’t use Maltesers just once a year lol xx M

Exactly! Maltesers aren't just for Christmas, they're for all year round

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Exactly! Maltesers aren't just for Christmas, they're for all year round

Yet to find out exactly how they are used lol xx M

 

[Ahabs]

Yet to find out exactly how they are used lol xx M

Looking for ways to word it while keeping it SFW

 

[Lips_Pearls]

If I used one site only (and this is not a knock on whichever site that may be) my opportunity to play would be limited to that one site ... And for me, once a year will simply not do.

If that’s the case, those members need to get their game on.

 

[Deleted member 6485]

If that’s the case, those members need to get their game on.

I amxx

 

[MP386]

Anyone with a list of demands or do’s and don’t ‘s ,I want this that or the other , i just pass by ... I do think it’s a privilege to meet and spend time with the right people...
I don’t mind getting a room for the right person and treating them to dinner ... I don’t stand at the door hand out say where’s your half
, as for options one site can be limiting especially from a single blokes point of view , I would agree with @Ahabs on that .... not that I use any others I don’t ....so all recommendations on a postcard

 

[Ahabs]

If that’s the case, those members need to get their game on.

When I mean my opportunity, I don't mean availability: while I am keen and do have several windows, it always comes down to finding interested volunteers

Without a good dance partner, the tango is merely a solo

 

[Ahabs]

Here's how many a conversation has gone over the years (with folk we've been talking for some time, may have met socially and are interested):

Me: so, how bout next week?
Them: too short notice

Me: week after?
Them: got kids

Me: a month from now?
Them: on holiday

Me: 2-3 months?
Them: upcoming work projects to focus on.

Me: anytime over the next 6 months?
Them: I'll let you know.

... Hence why I have to keep my options open. Yes it may make me look like a slut that just wants to sleep around, but the alternative is doing nothing at all while sat at home on my sofa.

 

[Pearls]

I recently saw the word "priviledge" used on a recent thread, and, off the back of an external interaction (*****, of all places) with a certain lady, it got me thinking what the meaning of the word really is, especially in a swinging context.

In summary, here's how I see it, based on her world view. Priviledge is:

1. Knowing you can say you don't accomodate, and guys should be okay with it, but if they don't you choose to question why?
2. That hotels for meets are of "a certain standard" (cause Premier Inn is not "Premier" enough).
3. That you don't look outside a 15 min commute for meets, anyone outside that has to come to you, ie, book a hotel nearby
4. That anyone willing to travel an hour or more must be desperate.
5. For you to get to a club outside your commute radius, the guy should book you an Uber to pick you up, and get you home, if he's not doing the driving that is.
6. Ofcourse he;s picking up the tab - he's the one interested in getting in your knickers.
7. You are not expected to be questioned on any of the above. If you don't like it, move on.

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