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Being restrained for me is only sexual with two people. They are also, probably, the only two people who could tie me, without me trying (and succeeding)to escape. What can I say, I'm an escape artist!
It doesn't matter to me what they use, with my two it adds an element of risk and control loss to our play. It definitely makes sexual play sensations heightened. If it has an element of pain as well, it's even better!!
If it's used with impact, it certainly plays on your mind, but I also like it when rope is used to make me pretty, and the restraint part helps me put my submissive hat on! X
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I do have the luxury restraints from Ann Summers. The ones that go under the mattress. The cuffs are velvet as are the ankle ones. They can be pulled tight or kept loose. Add a blindfold and it's one of the most erotic experiences you can imagine.

I like to kiss her body in different places where she has no idea where the next one will be. Then lick her. As she can't move or wrap her legs around you, the sensation is incredible. I'm not into all the pain BDSM but the light stuff I find a massive turn on. I don't mind being tied up and blindfolded in the same way either. And when it comes to the sex, restraints are powerful. The cuffs can be removed easily enough, they Velcro together. Worth a look at and at only £40 and well worth it
 
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I do have the luxury restraints from Ann Summers. The ones that go under the mattress. The cuffs are velvet as are the ankle ones. They can be pulled tight or kept loose. Add a blindfold and it's one of the most erotic experiences you can imagine.

I like to kiss her body in different places where she has no idea where the next one will be. Then lick her. As she can't move or wrap her legs around you, the sensation is incredible. I'm not into all the pain BDSM but the light stuff I find a massive turn on. I don't mind being tied up and blindfolded in the same way either. And when it comes to the sex, restraints are powerful. The cuffs can be removed easily enough, they Velcro together. Worth a look at and at only £40 and well worth it
We have these too. Dang I keep getting tangled in them in the middle of the night, especially when fumbling in the dark, when I get up to visit the bathroom! :eek:
 
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I'm into pain, but honestly get nothing out of being restrained. It isn't an act of submission for me and I like feeling that I have some element of control over what's happening.

That said, there is something very relaxing about being tied in shibari if I'm in the mood :)
Shibari is beautiful.
 
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I actually fancy a set of under-bed restraints as opposed to using my more, unconventional methods. ;)
 
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These aren't bad, however eBay has them just as good for cheaper. You need to be careful with the Velcro. If they are an eel, then can a)get out and b) twist it until it cuts. X
Not the way I fasten them :D

Seriously, not had a problem, but depends on the person. You an eel then? Lol
 
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I'm also double joointed Velcro cuffs don't stand a chance :)
I also trained by buying a set of my own Lmao.
Haha. Double-jointed - yeah, never thought of that. Lol. Need the old fashioned key lock ones then but I bet you could break out of them as well, like a bondage Houdini. :rofl:
 
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