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Discussion in 'BDSM & Fetish Forums' started by The-Gypsy-Tangerina, 24 November 2016.

  1. I've been seeing a lot of images of rope play on twitter. it sends shivers down my spine. (In a good way.)

    I want to learn more about it and how to do it safely. What kind of rope is good? What are good positions for binding?

    I want to make sure I'm safe if and when I try it.
     
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  2. Therapon

    Therapon Admin Admin Sprtr

    Try your local munch or maybe somewhere like Townhouse where they run some rope events for newbies and the experienced.
     
  3. @Lace is pretty clued up re ropework.. maybe she has some ideas/thoughts for you. X
     
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  4. I imagine an awful lot of trust has to be involved in that
     
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  5. Lace

    Lace PV

    Always happy to help, feel free to message me @Orange-on-blue the best advice I can give is start off by practicing knots and how to untie them easily, use the leg of a table or chair with any rope you have or get a basic bondage kit, there is plenty out there and not too expensive either. X
     
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  6. Lace

    Lace PV

    I would stay away from man made fibers, people do use nylon but they can be quicker to burn. X
     
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  7. Lace

    Lace PV

    Hemp is what I would get. X
     
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    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

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  9. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    Yeah I'm not the best but not the worse either, look up shibari (Japanese rope bondage) and take your time and enjoy learning learning. ohhh and always have some safety shears on head the type paramedics carry are ideal. (That reminds me I need some new shears myself)
     
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  10. Thank you @Lace as soon as I've sat down privately I'll message you.
     
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  11. And thank you all. great help.
    I'll try on fetlife too. had some good advice there on sub frenzy.
     
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  12. Lace

    Lace PV

    Mind field there and most are fake. X
     
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  13. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    What isn't a minefield on fetlife.
     
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  14. I've been a rope bunny a couple of times, it's something else. The rope gliding across your skin, being pulled tighter, the gentle touch of the rigger. Sends me so chilled and relaxed.
    The two knotty boys are good, they have books and loads of you tube tutorials x
     
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  15. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    I was chatting with some recently who used being a rope bunny to aid mediation.
     
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  16. good idea, I like meditating and being a rope bunny gets you in a similar space, although it's different from sub space, if you get me?
     
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  17. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    Think so, I have been a rope bottom once or twice (excluding self ties but that's different) never really subbed though.
     
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  18. I have a good mentor on there. she has been practising as a domme for several years. I'm going to ask her and sub for advice as we've started playing together.

    The meditative state is interesting. I often experience a loss of control when being restricted. like I'm not me any more. I've been feeling a big desire to try rope play for a while now.
     
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  19. Lace

    Lace PV

    Sounds as if you have it all tied up. If you want to message then that is fine by me X
     
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  20. meandlis

    meandlis Admin Admin Sprtr

    Oh very good! :tiphat::rofl:
     
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  21. Lace

    Lace PV

    Very apt :lol:
     
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  22. I may have just bought everything on eBay! so many wonderful things. xxx
     
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  23. Try being roped up in a local park and left for say twenty minutes. Perhaps a far away little used setting at first then build up to more public areas. The buzz is fantastic,best if your blindfolded. People are ok mostly and interested in what it's all about and the time goes on for ages . Twenty minutes feels like twenty hours
     
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