There is one literally 10 minutes away ...Sorry I think some of the point I was trying to get across was not just Saturday's at random clubs ... they aren't SS socials whether official or unofficial...if I want a random club I would find one ..
As regards to this it's probably a case of waiting for someone to organise a Social at a club that allows single guys on a Saturday or find a club that fits the criteria & organise one yourselfSorry I think some of the point I was trying to get across was not just Saturday's at random clubs ... they aren't SS socials whether official or unofficial...if I want a random club I would find one ..
Thank you for taking the time to reply, I am sure the information is appreciated.
Seems a solution already to some of the issues raised.
Got them.. thank you, will get in touch and discuss advertising and listing events etc. and what we can do reciprocally for each other, if anything.
I understand that, however the point I'm making there - is not just for you specifically.. (sorry if you thought that), there's a bigger picture for single gents with events here.Sorry I think some of the point I was trying to get across was not just Saturday's at random clubs ... they aren't SS socials whether official or unofficial...if I want a random club I would find one ..
We've held events in before. @meet_the_fockers for one has held events at Cupids,@Bump-n-Grind at Chams and @LeeWidnes TH as another example, where singe guys have been welcome.Cupids, Townhouse, The Attic, Amour. All popular club's that allow single gents in on a Saturday
Exactly.. Events organised, sadly, won't accommodate everyone. There will always be someone who can't make one for various reasons. But, and as mentioned before, there is nothing stopping anyone from organising an event..This really is a tough situation as regards to accommodating everyone on social & events as people can only do the best with resources available to them.
The club we have a good enough relationship with to host a night is Chameleons & we struggle to get babysitters on Fridays so that leaves a Saturday as the only day we can do anything, which is couples night.
Albeit on the occasion we did have a Friday night free we did organise a Social at Chams.
As regards to this it's probably a case of waiting for someone to organise a Social at a club that allows single guys on a Saturday or find a club that fits the criteria & organise one yourself
I understand that, however the point I'm making there - is not just for you specifically.. (sorry if you thought that), there's a bigger picture for single gents with events here.
In the broader picture my point is this. Clubs such as mentioned here by @Bump-n-Grind
We've held events in before. @meet_the_fockers for one has held events at Cupids and @LeeWidnes TH as another example, where singe guys are welcome.
So in essence there is a possible solution already, as we've already had events at some of these clubs.. Who is to say that no one else won't organise one in the future, where gents would be allowed in on a Saturday night?
That's the point I raised.
Exactly.. Events organised, sadly, won't accommodate everyone. There will always be someone who can't make one for various reasons. But, and as mentioned before, there is nothing stopping anyone from organising an event..
Welcome back Mrs F, it's been tooooo longAh the old single guys get a raw deal debate.
Ok yes they do, in general.. but not on here..
I have always stuck up for the SG.
I will say, sometimes SG's in general are a lot quieter, in general, they seem to be almost 'scared of a knock back'
Believe it or not couples also get a no, as do ladies... i go out of my way to natter to single gents..
I also know a few single gents who are very active/successful on the scene, but a lot of the time it is about the attitude, we all get a no thanks... take it on chin, and move on.
Re clubs.. I do try and organise socials on Saturdays, i do talk to the owners, re single guys entry, and have in the past, bickered, begged pleaded, for them to allow, a larger number of SG's into their club on a Saturday.
They are usually un-swayable, but when the have relaxed, their rules for the evening, i will say when i have a list of attendees, for a social and hand it over, to the club owners, it is quite often myself that ends up, with egg on my face.. single gents are usually the first, that don't attend.
I did arrange a social for SS at cupids.. some single gents failed to attend.
As the bumps will tell you, its not a walk in the park.. arranging a social..
I do intend arranging another at some point.. and of course i have no doubt, will lock horns again with the owners re the SG rules.... not for my benefit thats for sure...
But as anyone be it couple Single Gent or lady...
Attitude, plays an enourmous part in the success on the swinging scene.
Xxx
Hello darlin.. missed me.. and thankies.. mwahhhWelcome back Mrs F, it's been tooooo long
Welcome back Jazzy baby, I held em off for as long as I could there's just too many of em.Ah the old single guys get a raw deal debate.
Ok yes they do, in general.. but not on here..
I have always stuck up for the SG.
I will say, sometimes SG's in general are a lot quieter, in general, they seem to be almost 'scared of a knock back'
Believe it or not couples also get a no, as do ladies... i go out of my way to natter to single gents..
I also know a few single gents who are very active/successful on the scene, but a lot of the time it is about the attitude, we all get a no thanks... take it on chin, and move on.
Re clubs.. I do try and organise socials on Saturdays, i do talk to the owners, re single guys entry, and have in the past, bickered, begged pleaded, for them to allow, a larger number of SG's into their club on a Saturday.
They are usually un-swayable, but when the have relaxed, their rules for the evening, i will say when i have a list of attendees, for a social and hand it over, to the club owners, it is quite often myself that ends up, with egg on my face.. single gents are usually the first, that don't attend.
I did arrange a social for SS at cupids.. some single gents failed to attend.
As the bumps will tell you, its not a walk in the park.. arranging a social..
I do intend arranging another at some point.. and of course i have no doubt, will lock horns again with the owners re the SG rules.... not for my benefit thats for sure...
But as anyone be it couple Single Gent or lady...
Attitude, plays an enourmous part in the success on the swinging scene.
Xxx
Hello beaut.. good to see my trollope..Welcome back Jazzy baby, I held em off for as long as I could there's just too many of em.Welcome back mdarlin.
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