I know what you mean .... but dynamics ? Might not be the word have changed ... look form the “guys if we want you “ side ,this bloke now has a female ... so ?I disagree. He wasn’t good enough to meet the couple when he was the same guy but single but now he is. It’s the same person doing the same thing. So to speak. Doesn’t self respect come into it?
I see it as the same attitude as “guys if we want you” know what I mean. ? I know what I mean but it’s hard putting it in words ?
So you know what I mean thenI know what you mean .... but dynamics ? Might not be the word have changed ... look form the “guys if we want you “ side ,this bloke now has a female ... so ?
before Mr Bloke says no to Bloke but now he has something for him ? Changes every thing .... it might be a bit mercenary but theres an exchange so to speak ... I might be taking drivel but to me the whole scenario has changed ... or is that shallow ? Sure I’ll be told
I peek x I chat x I take part xTo be honest i have never felt an outcast on here i have had good banter in messages and in forums with single females and with couples. The only thing that pi$$es me off is the new couples who never reply or acknowledge your welcome comments when they see them thats why i have stopped welcoming them now and again but yet 99% single ladies always reply and some even peek at your profile... Anyway its not put me off this site as a single guy i feel 100% welcome thanks to all members on here
That’s another question on how guys feel.To be honest i have never felt an outcast on here i have had good banter in messages and in forums with single females and with couples. The only thing that pi$$es me off is the new couples who never reply or acknowledge your welcome comments when they see them thats why i have stopped welcoming them now and again but yet 99% single ladies always reply and some even peek at your profile... Anyway its not put me off this site as a single guy i feel 100% welcome thanks to all members on here
Even if you don’t meet guys. Surely an acknowledgement is ok. Or is it fine to dismiss because you’re a bloke ?That’s another question on how guys feel.
So you comment on a profile post, say good morning.
You don’t even get a like let alone a comment back
Yet a couple or lady say the same thing and different story.
If you’ve made the effort to say hello or good morning then surely an acknowledgement isn’t too much to ask.
How do you guys feel?
and for me not an outcast I am a castaway ...met the producer of that film years ago I did ask him if he had a model part for me but no gave it to tom hanks xTo be honest i have never felt an outcast on here i have had good banter in messages and in forums with single females and with couples. The only thing that pi$$es me off is the new couples who never reply or acknowledge your welcome comments when they see them thats why i have stopped welcoming them now and again but yet 99% single ladies always reply and some even peek at your profile... Anyway its not put me off this site as a single guy i feel 100% welcome thanks to all members on here
Sort of ... yesSo you know what I mean then
Nooooo. Carry onSort of ... yes
I was waiting for the???to start raining in so I best leave the thread .... it’s amazing how things get twisted ..... best not say anymore .. you know my feelings on the matter xx
I actually do vote for men but then you do not chat to me anymore, you ignore meHonestly sometimes it feels like being a second class citizen .... but there are those that are always good and welcoming ...
Clubs ,been down this road many times ....single blokes are the “cash cows “ entice them in have their pants down ..... also excluded on weekends? As if we don’t have a life that means Fridays are a non starter ...
Sites this is the one and only one that really welcomes us and again single blokes paying makes revenue... it’s simple economics from what I can see ...
Socials ... well as I have organised the next one we will see how that pans out ,
but the main draw in this lifestyle will always be single women... be that couples or men a large proportion will be chasing the same thing ...
have to say not everyone does it I recently received messages from a couple whose preferences are not single men but they we good enough to chat to me..,
Blokes get bad press in this lifestyle yes some are complete cocks ... but others of us just want no different to couples and single ladies a fun time ,not endless grief just because we happen to be Male ...
There are people in this lifestyle that accept and welcome us because it’s what they are searching for ... to them I can only say thank you ...
The ladies will always get the comments... if you look here that proves that point .. looks at the gallery where are the comments ,the votes for MOTM it’s the ladies ,I’d probably guess 99% are blokes commenting... ladies tend not to I guess they are all shy ☺
If I think of anything else I’ll come back
Waits for incoming ???
No .... had enough now ... ?Nooooo. Carry on
That’s true with welcoming newbies,I use to think my messaging wasn’t working,only the minority of a minority don’t acknowledge as I did mention earlier in this thread?To be honest i have never felt an outcast on here i have had good banter in messages and in forums with single females and with couples. The only thing that pi$$es me off is the new couples who never reply or acknowledge your welcome comments when they see them thats why i have stopped welcoming them now and again but yet 99% single ladies always reply and some even peek at your profile... Anyway its not put me off this site as a single guy i feel 100% welcome thanks to all members on here
Manners or politeness is a major factor in life! ?That’s another question on how guys feel.
So you comment on a profile post, say good morning.
You don’t even get a like let alone a comment back
Yet a couple or lady say the same thing and different story.
If you’ve made the effort to say hello or good morning then surely an acknowledgement isn’t too much to ask.
How do you guys feel?
Swinging includedManners or politeness is a major factor in life! ?
Lightweight!?????No .... had enough now ... ?
I rest my case about single blokes being second class citizens ......Lightweight!?????
Pmsl “pass the buck” springs to mind? ???I rest my case about single blokes being second class citizens ......a thread about single blokes turns into single women ....?
Oi. I haven’tI rest my case about single blokes being second class citizens ......a thread about single blokes turns into single women ....?
Come ere #Bigboy give us a hug ?I'm going to come at this from a slightly different point of view.
I am the Male half of a couple and tbh I don't bother with adding my own media anymore. Because it has tended in the past to go un-noticed, if I put a status update it's the same faces responding with a like or the odd comment However, when the Wife adds media or puts a status up, the notifications go through the roof. I'd humbly suggest that it is not just single guys who are ignored but Males in general. Now I understand that it is par for the course in this lifestyle but does that make it right or truly inclusive? Like women, Men can and do suffer from confidence issues, body image issues etc and when we take our time to consider a picture, then breath deeply as we hit the send button for ................. maybe one or two comments!! But a woman puts a pic of a nipple or her cleavage up and the whole site goes mental. It's a mentality thing really and one I'm not sure will change sadly But that's my two pennies worth.
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