Single guys.

[Dangerous690]

Come ere #Bigboy give us a hug ?

BroMance! ???

 

[Deleted member 16044]

I'm going to come at this from a slightly different point of view.
I am the Male half of a couple and tbh I don't bother with adding my own media anymore. Because it has tended in the past to go un-noticed, if I put a status update it's the same faces responding with a like or the odd comment However, when the Wife adds media or puts a status up, the notifications go through the roof. I'd humbly suggest that it is not just single guys who are ignored but Males in general. Now I understand that it is par for the course in this lifestyle but does that make it right or truly inclusive? Like women, Men can and do suffer from confidence issues, body image issues etc and when we take our time to consider a picture, then breath deeply as we hit the send button for ................. maybe one or two comments!! But a woman puts a pic of a nipple or her cleavage up and the whole site goes mental. It's a mentality thing really and one I'm not sure will change sadly But that's my two pennies worth.

totally agree with you here
like wolves to the slaughter

 

[Dangerous690]

BroMance! ???

Change your username to “LotteryWinner”might be more popular????

 

[Deleted member 16044]

totally agree with you here
like wolves to the slaughter

my boobs photos got a few hits straight away and a few symbols but the rest of me
I agree men do not get a look at and it is not just single guys it is all guys ive been observing

 

[Deleted member 16044]

my boobs photos got a few hits straight away and a few symbols but the rest of me
I agree men do not get a look at and it is not just single guys it is all guys ive been observing

all the women photos gets comments
I like to see more male art cause I do love the male physique

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Single guys equals competition given most profiles are male dominated. Yes some are idiots as are some ladies and couples, some SG's simply self inflict damage. Simply put SG's are no better or worse than anyone else but as always the few tar the brush for the rest. I'll leave it there ...... for now.

well said
single guys pounce
single guys try to get into knickers if I do not curtail to a single guy I am then ignored and if I do not like their lack of Respect they ignore and that is for a few on here

 

[Deleted member 16044]

I would also add, guys won’t speak up for fear of getting the meet. Have to keep folk happy now

they fear us women what the heck is that all about
trying it on with us single ladies there is a way and knack and sadly a few here lack the knack
does not give them rights to ignore because things do not go their way or to their favour of a woman dropping her knickers at a hello in message box now does it
but then again we all live and learn
yes I message men and we have good rapport most are single guys that I have spoken to

hey pearls, if they met me they would know there is nothing to fear
promise I will not upset anyone
ive said sorry and do not know what for now

 

[Pearls]

they fear us women what the heck is that all about
trying it on with us single ladies there is a way and knack and sadly a few here lack the knack
does not give them rights to ignore because things do not go their way or to their favour of a woman dropping her knickers at a hello in message box now does it
but then again we all live and learn
yes I message men and we have good rapport most are single guys that I have spoken to

hey pearls, if they met me they would know there is nothing to fear
promise I will not upset anyone
ive said sorry and do not know what for now

I’ve seen the apology. It’s back there somewhere <<<<<< ??

 

[Deleted member 16044]

I’ve seen the apology. It’s back there somewhere <<<<<< ??

it is okay
I will not turn up at the social simple do not feel welcome and cant be doing with single guys who think they are right all the time am out of here Pearls

 

[Deleted member 11852]

we always welcome newbies whether it be sg,s,,, females or couples and it’s very rare to get a response..I don’t do it because we want to jump in to bed with them..more out of politeness..I do agree with p from horny Essex pair his comments have hit the nail on the head..just because your a couple doesn’t mean everyone wants to meet you..most of the time it is the female half getting all the attention..don’t get me wrong I’m not having a pop at anyone it’s just the reality of this lifestyle..W..

 

[Dangerous690]

I’ve seen the apology. It’s back there somewhere <<<<<< ??

?????

 

[Deleted member 16044]

I spoke to someone here recently about how he had been treated at an event, I had suggested a thread that I’d been thinking about for some time which he had said for me to do, so here goes.

I mentioned somewhere else that I had only apart from one guy had only issues with guys from couples, we’ve been to many events and tbh the single guys have been amazing.

So what is it?
Why do guys get such bad press and why are all guys tarred with the same brush across the scene.

Why do guys get ignored for being polite even if they know you don’t want to meet but just being polite!

Not all comments and posts are bad, yes some deserve to be ignored or reported but not all so why do nice guys with nice comments get ignored but the couples and single ladies always get a reaction?

Is it a case of “another one” for you?

To our gents here.
How do you feel when it comes down to it about how you are treated, that could be regarding
Clubs
Sites
Socials
Etc.

Over to you and please be honest, you’re amongst friends after all.

actually before I leave women get treated just as bad as guys do
I do not tar with a brush
men do with women
we are all as bad as each other at times and with some people

understanding
respect
love
3 little words that mean you should practice these a lot more

again women and men do not want to get to know one another it has to be straight in for the kill
take time to get to know someone before you barge in
in your face and I am gone

be good and naughty everyone and enjoy the social single guys and everyone else
I will enjoy Knebworth regardless so you can breathe now Mr organiser
would not want to ruin your night
still I was the first to say sorry and it was not even really my doing

 

[Deleted member 16044]

and for me not an outcast I am a castaway ...met the producer of that film years ago I did ask him if he had a model part for me but no gave it to tom hanks x

I am gone
was nice talking to you wish the site well

 

[Jaymanc]

I’ve had this across all aspects of this lifestyle,and tbh I think it’s doing to the fact that you are single!like there’s something wrong or wierd about you that means no one will have you,there must be a reason he’s single etc etc etc
Personally I’ve had a couple of bad relationships through no fault of my own and nowadays prefer just to have fun and no complications or commitments to anyone
A lot of people find this hard to grasp for whatever reason though ?

 

[Pearls]

we always welcome newbies whether it be sg,s,,, females or couples and it’s very rare to get a response..I don’t do it because we want to jump in to bed with them..more out of politeness..I do agree with p from horny Essex pair his comments have hit the nail on the head..just because your a couple doesn’t mean everyone wants to meet you..most of the time it is the female half getting all the attention..don’t get me wrong I’m not having a pop at anyone it’s just the reality of this lifestyle..W..

That’s something I don’t get and quoting @Horny_Essex_Pair also. If you are meeting a couple then surely you want to perv the male and female? ?

 

[Dangerous690]

Pmsl “pass the buck” springs to mind? ???

We’re doomed! ???

 

[Deleted member 11852]

It’s true though..you look at mrs h,s pics the likes and comments she gets..I’m not complaining,,it’s just the way it is..I suppose we should all be flattered really..imagine how pissed off you would get if you was a couple and nobody liked liked your wife’s pics or wanted to meet up with you..W.. ? ? ?

 

[Therapon]

That’s something I don’t get and quoting @Horny_Essex_Pair also. If you are meeting a couple then surely you want to perv the male and female? ?

I think this is related yo my earlier post. A lot of couples profiles are effectively run by the male so other males are of no interest to them. I see lots of couples comments on other couples media, but mainly on the females photo's and it's pretty obvious which half of that couple are making those comments. It would be a different experience for all if more of the ladies got involved.

 

[Dangerous690]

I think this is related yo my earlier post. A lot of couples profiles are effectively run by the male so other males are of no interest to them. I see lots of couples comments on other couples media, but mainly on the females photo's and it's pretty obvious which half of that couple are making those comments. It would be a different experience for all if more of the ladies got involved.

I didn’t think of it in that way!??

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

Ok this is an observation.
So, single guy joins a site, he’s not shy with media and comments if you know what I mean
He gets a couple of meets but also gets turned down and maybe treated quite badly from some.
Then the single guy meets a woman and they become an item.
Now. The people that turned him down as a single guy wants to meet him now he’s part of a couple! Surely the same act is going to happen?
Why meet the same folk that turned you down before?
I don’t get that and if it was me as the guy, I would have to say sod right off.

I came here as a SF for the first year ,got bombarded by pm,s , being bi and having media which confirms im not just talking the talk ,constantly asked to meet cples for ffm , i then met @Therapon and after a few meets we became a cple on here , now as staff on here we dont really get the wanna meet pm,s but when we do its usually because im bi and to be brutally honest if i as the female half were aware of any cancelled meets for him as a SG ,then even i wouldnt want to meet a cple who snubbed him previously
Recently we edited our single profiles and while i now get pm,s asking about meets again ,he gets very few if none and our cples profile gets hardly any requests to meet

 

[DandDforfun]

I think this is related yo my earlier post. A lot of couples profiles are effectively run by the male so other males are of no interest to them. I see lots of couples comments on other couples media, but mainly on the females photo's and it's pretty obvious which half of that couple are making those comments. It would be a different experience for all if more of the ladies got involved.

I certainly do as Ms D of @D&Dforfun. However you are right Mr D does say I do seem to be in the minority ? not sure if that means it’s a good thing or not ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

we are both very active on our profile and both of us post daily and are on here at some point throughout the day..we discuss every possbile meet together..when we start chatting with people we make sure both of us chat with them..we don’t arrange meets unless both of have been chatting and everyone gets on ok..I have noticed though some couples only have one half doing the posting and organising everything..we believe in doing everything together,,from the organising to the fun..W..

 

[Deleted member 11852]

With regards to the single guys on the site, apart from the two minute wonders who come on and expect a quick shag as they put it, I find that they are lovely and considerate. Every one of the single guys, you know who you are, that we have interacted with by messaging or meets have been amazing. There has been no rudeness, pushiness or expectations from any of them. You single guys are amazing and I thank you all for being so lovely xxxx M

 

[Pearls]

we are both very active on our profile and both of us post daily and are on here at some point throughout the day..we discuss every possbile meet together..when we start chatting with people we make sure both of us chat with them..we don’t arrange meets unless both of have been chatting and everyone gets on ok..I have noticed though some couples only have one half doing the posting and organising everything..we believe in doing everything together,,from the organising to the fun..W..

I think that’s a good thread. How many couples use the account or is it just one. Mostly hubby using them.

 

[Therapon]

I certainly do as Ms D of @D&Dforfun. However you are right Mr D does say I do seem to be in the minority ? not sure if that means it’s a good thing or not ?

I'm not sure what he means

we are both very active on our profile and both of us post daily and are on here at some point throughout the day..we discuss every possbile meet together..when we start chatting with people we make sure both of us chat with them..we don’t arrange meets unless both of have been chatting and everyone gets on ok..I have noticed though some couples only have one half doing the posting and organising everything..we believe in doing everything together,,from the organising to the fun..W..

You are both one of the few couples where it's refreshing to see both partners getting actively involved and do not exclude the single guys

I'd give both a gold star but someone who shall remain nameless keeps them locked in the staff safe.