Single Male Swinging

[Mcgu]

Hey everyone, I'm mcgu.

So I'm new to the swinging areas and have joined the v.a.
How many of the people here have been to this or a club like it?. Being so new I'm unsure what to expect lol. How should I approach this being a single shy male. I'm hoping to make new friends here as well as having fun.
Any heads up is welcome

Mcgu

 

[Terryg]

You've made a good start by jumping into the forums!

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

The Vanilla Alternative read these reviews hunni also there are lots of us who have attended the va xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Its a most excellent place.. x

 

[DiamondJoe]

Hey everyone, I'm mcgu.

So I'm new to the swinging areas and have joined the v.a.
How many of the people here have been to this or a club like it?. Being so new I'm unsure what to expect lol. How should I approach this being a single shy male. I'm hoping to make new friends here as well as having fun.
Any heads up is welcome

Mcgu

Being a single male can be difficult.

Cultivate friends and influence people

 

[mrclouse]

Being a single male can be difficult.

Cultivate friends and influence people

Expect to get reject and just look to make freinds

 

[The_Bibas]

Expect to get reject and just look to make freinds

Ahhhhhh bless

XxxBibaxxX

 

[Sammy]

The Vanilla Alternative read these reviews hunni also there are lots of us who have attended the va xx

@Jamboreene

 

[Nigel&Julie]

Was there sat night, been going there 3+ years,... tip... speak to couples at the bar, maybe offer to buy the lady a drink (goes down better with us) rather than just expect a shag or quick grope in the hot tub, just because you paid a entrance fee.

 

[The_Bibas]

Was there sat night, been going there 3+ years,... tip... speak to couples at the bar, maybe offer to buy the lady a drink (goes down better with us) rather than just expect a shag or quick grope in the hot tub, just because you paid a entrance fee.

Eeeeewww...
Na... Not selling it for me..
Soz
XxxBibaxxX

 

[Scott&Lexi]

I have visited VA a few times now as a single woman and always been very welcomed and looked after!

chat to everyone, just be friendly and explore your surroundings.... I had no intentions of playing on my first time and I'm pleased I braved it up and spent time introducing myself!

It's a very good choice club and I have had many good afternoons and evenings there xx

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Been to a few socials at VA and Chams, tried chatting to others outside of the social members and basically ignored. Very different for a single lady and seriously tough going for most single guys. It really isn't as easy as some make it out to be. This is why this site a great way to start. Need to play the long game, much longer than some it seems.

 

[DiamondJoe]

I've been to a number of saunas (piece o' piss on a Fri/Sat night in London and the muscle marys tumble out of the pubs) although the first time I went was nerve-wracking for me.

Learned that it's much easier with a wing-man.

Went to my first mixed club this year, and was taken by a friend and her husband. It was an odd experience and I'd managed to lose some clothing by the end of the evening

Lesson - go with someone

 

[Bobbie]

In the past have been lucky enough to have a female playmate with me when visiting clubs but did find myself as a solo male in a club and enjoyed it, firmly with the mindset that I was not going to play and only enjoy watching, which I did.