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Discussion in 'BDSM & Fetish Forums' started by Pearls, 9 August 2019.

  1. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport Sprtr

    34495A12-604A-421B-8794-9C06CAE5CE3B.jpeg I’ve been reading a lot on this subject recently and how modern day slavery is on the increase in this country.
    What I have discovered is that normal every day things that we would not take a second glance at could possibly be something more.
    Now because of this, is it having an effect on the Bdsm scene?
    Slavery is part of it for some but with guide lines and boundaries in place which is fine.
    Safety has to be a factor in all scenarios of course.
    Have you ever considered being a slave or Master?
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  2. TherLegs

    TherLegs PV Sprtr

    I can't say I have ever come across this in the BDSM scene but I'm fairly sure it will have some influence as it does within prostitution. Whilst the genuine slave/Master/Mistress roles would usually have strict boundaries in place I guess the concern here is with those new to BDSM who may not be as willing to "stick to the rules", we see this all the time now in BDSM porn.
    My main concern here is safety, so anyone wanting to become involved in BDSM should make some effort to find out what it is all about before committing to anything. Go to your local munch and talk to real people who have experience and who are usually quite happy to chat, help and support newbies. As with anything online be aware that that potential Slave/Master/Mistress may not be who or what they claim to be it's very easy for newbies to be taken in by false claims.
    Ok that's the safety mini rant over, so have I ever considered being a slave/Master, well yes, whilst we do not label ourselves like that we do have a definite sub/dom relationship but only in the bedroom. Whilst it's not for everyone it is our "kink", something we enjoy.
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  3. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport Sprtr

    I do think there isn’t enough advice out there in this scenario. There are vulnerable people out there who need protecting. X
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  4. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport Sprtr

    Can I just add.
    If you notice someone doing the same things at the same time every day for example
    Trimming the garden
    Cleaning windows
    Doing dishes
    Hanging washing (even if it’s raining)
    Male or female it doesn’t matter, this could be a slave situation, it could be consensual but keep an eye out for little things, how the person looks, hair, hands, are they clean?
    It could be innocent but it may not and if you have a concern then share it or speak to a professional and ask for advice. X
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