Social Aspects Of Swinging

[Stew]

A condor moment

 

[Colin]

Cant beat a Hamlet

 

[Stew]

Cant beat a Hamlet

Looking good Colin !

 

[Colin]

Thanks @Stew but need a hair cut tho lol

 

[Deleted member 10361]

Yes love the social side, I think it helps to break the ice and calm the nerves a bit. We are very lucky to have a couple of clubs just down the road, the atmosphere is always good and the hot tubs are fabulous, and sometimes that’s as far as we’ve got.
We are not everyone’s cuppa T but we enjoy talking to people we wouldn’t normally meet in our day to day lives, I struggle with what to wear when we go as I’m a jeans/T-shirt kinda girl. So love getting ideas of the girls, I mean it’s not like I can talk to my girl friends about it

 

[LizandChris]

It's strange for us, I used to be a quite shy, private person, I have to work hard to be social, Liz is naturally very social so its really odd that I'm leading this, deciding on clubs and looking for people to meet. One of the things we both would love from this is to find a few people who we really get on with so we have a real friendship outside of the sexual shenanigans but also go on holiday with and spend the nights 4 or 6 in a bed

 

[Big daz2]

I love the social side of swinging, it’s not always easy being a single male but I get excited to
Meet new people not for the sex alone but to learn new things about people. I’ve been to a few clubs but accompanied new friends but neither wanted me to play with others so this gave me the chance to do more social. I would actually prefer to go to a club for social a few times before playing but never had the chance to try this. I’d like to find the right club to do this. Any recommendations?

 

[Tiger]

I love the social side of swinging, it’s not always easy being a single male but I get excited to
Meet new people not for the sex alone but to learn new things about people. I’ve been to a few clubs but accompanied new friends but neither wanted me to play with others so this gave me the chance to do more social. I would actually prefer to go to a club for social a few times before playing but never had the chance to try this. I’d like to find the right club to do this. Any recommendations?

Welcome to social swinging, if you’re interested in meeting other members take a look at the First Saturday Social thread https://tiny.cc/SaturdaySocials it’s a monthly social to bring like-minded people together

 

[Big daz2]

I’m definitely up for that and not to far for me either. Thanks tiger

 

[SteveandDebs]

You see so many posts from guys, not so much on this site, bemoaning the fact that they never get to play in clubs yet when you suggest going to a social first they seem to think "what's the point if there's no play". It's really refreshing to see someone that sees the benefit of organised socials Even talking to people you are never going to play with helps with networking and that is so important when you get to a club. You may not get to play with Clarissa and Clarence but what about that hot, single lady they introduce you to?

 

[Tiger]

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You see so many posts from guys, not so much on this site, bemoaning the fact that they never get to play in clubs yet when you suggest going to a social first they seem to think "what's the point if there's no play". It's really refreshing to see someone that sees the benefit of organised socials Even talking to people you are never going to play with helps with networking and that is so important when you get to a club. You may not get to play with Clarissa and Clarence but what about that hot, single lady they introduce you to?

I wholeheartedly agree with you on that, I have seen it so many times! Single men saying those exact words "what's the point if there's no play" it’s no wonder us single gents get a bad reputation in the lifestyle!

Tiger xx

 

[SteveandDebs]

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I wholeheartedly agree with you on that, I have seen it so many times! Single men saying those exact words "what's the point if there's no play" it’s no wonder us single gents get a bad reputation in the lifestyle!

Tiger xx

We both truly believe that the arseholes make the decent singles look better. And on this site the arseholes would stick out like a sore thumb

 

[Deleted member 16044]

First thing is that I would like to say on this subject is that with anything in life if you expect things to happen they will not always happen to us so I tread thinly and do not make any kind of assumption or guarantee that I even will get on with people. Like me or loathe I am not bothered by it but do not mess around with people no need to be two faced or shitty just be honest. We are all different shapes and sizes and I accept people for who they are and respect people at the same time. Some people think swinging is just purely one fuck after the other after the other it can be if that is the way you want to live your lifestyle as a swinger. I have been swinging for about 5 years now and have met some people who I am friends with or not friends with. Until someone has met you in real life they cannot speak down at you or judge you or be jealous of you as a swinger is neither of these things. One thing is we have all got beauty and all have great bodies and bodies are art and we should enjoy them a lot more than we do, I have been trying out swinging sites, I get a bit peeved when no one chats. Or the chats feel like one hit wonders of top of the swingers pop. Life would be so much better if we all got along with each other but that is not going to happen in my life time.
Swinging was meant to be for wife swapping but it has evolved since then, threesomes, couples and going to clubs but I have to admit I am sadly not one that thinks sleeping with different people as one offs is what my swinging is about. Only way to improve your swinging life is to get a wife ...NO! but it has been known that swingers meet and do fall in love and get married and have the kids! Life is about taking risks and chances and we only have one life and it is meant to be sexual and to enjoy sex explore it and embrace it and well
go get it if it is there for the taking and mutual. I do not dress to impress anyone, I am my own person and if I want to be frumpy I will and if I want to be naughty I will.
Swingers go and enjoy sex and sexual encounters there is good and bad in everyone but we learn to live and learn to give freely!

 

[Pearls]

First thing is that I would like to say on this subject is that with anything in life if you expect things to happen they will not always happen to us so I tread thinly and do not make any kind of assumption or guarantee that I even will get on with people. Like me or loathe I am not bothered by it but do not mess around with people no need to be two faced or shitty just be honest. We are all different shapes and sizes and I accept people for who they are and respect people at the same time. Some people think swinging is just purely one fuck after the other after the other it can be if that is the way you want to live your lifestyle as a swinger. I have been swinging for about 5 years now and have met some people who I am friends with or not friends with. Until someone has met you in real life they cannot speak down at you or judge you or be jealous of you as a swinger is neither of these things. One thing is we have all got beauty and all have great bodies and bodies are art and we should enjoy them a lot more than we do, I have been trying out swinging sites, I get a bit peeved when no one chats. Or the chats feel like one hit wonders of top of the swingers pop. Life would be so much better if we all got along with each other but that is not going to happen in my life time.
Swinging was meant to be for wife swapping but it has evolved since then, threesomes, couples and going to clubs but I have to admit I am sadly not one that thinks sleeping with different people as one offs is what my swinging is about. Only way to improve your swinging life is to get a wife ...NO! but it has been known that swingers meet and do fall in love and get married and have the kids! Life is about taking risks and chances and we only have one life and it is meant to be sexual and to enjoy sex explore it and embrace it and well
go get it if it is there for the taking and mutual. I do not dress to impress anyone, I am my own person and if I want to be frumpy I will and if I want to be naughty I will.
Swingers go and enjoy sex and sexual encounters there is good and bad in everyone but we learn to live and learn to give freely!

You are so spot on with this post and raised very key points, people do judge yet claim online that size and everything else doesn’t matter, the most two faced people we have met are swingers, if you are a newbie in this scene and haven’t got the model looks and figure then no one bothers. Like I said nowt worse than preaching two faced swingers. Great post hun and lovely to see you settling in here. X

 

[Pearls]

May I add, people on line here have all said that they enjoy the social side of swinging, on here or at events, I don’t see that. Sorry folks, I see new members who try to fit in but get nothing in return, I see guys and I mean really nice guys make an effort to interact and get ignored.
Regardless of meeting for fun, it’s very contradictory when people say they love the social side. I mean the name is up there, we did this because we love socialising. Doesn’t mean we want to get into bed with you.
Remember folks. You have all said you love the social side. Or is that only with regular members?
Or is that with someone you think you are in there?
Something to think about.

 

[Deleted member 16044]

I love that response and thoughts to ponder on
I have to go out in da hood ...
can I add to that please Pearls
not all texts have to contain sexual content
If someone says NO take that as NO please and likewise just be open and honest we are not kids
I am sadly very chatty which some people might find offensive sadly that is the way I am loathe me or loathe me not
I also not here to chat to folk and then kind of think well that was nice but now it has gone dead as a donkey
socialising is all kind of manners of communication
it is free to talk and be open and say well I like you and fancy you and swap numbers unless you are cheating on someone I will not be a part of that despite the fact we all have needs. If we do not like a physique either no need to say unkind words either as it is not nice and can hurt peoples feelings as I am a human behind this screen not some robot. All for now I will add more later x
happy SS

 

[Pearls]

I love that response and thoughts to ponder on
I have to go out in da hood ...
can I add to that please Pearls
not all texts have to contain sexual content
If someone says NO take that as NO please and likewise just be open and honest we are not kids
I am sadly very chatty which some people might find offensive sadly that is the way I am loathe me or loathe me not
I also not here to chat to folk and then kind of think well that was nice but now it has gone dead as a donkey
socialising is all kind of manners of communication
it is free to talk and be open and say well I like you and fancy you and swap numbers unless you are cheating on someone I will not be a part of that despite the fact we all have needs. If we do not like a physique either no need to say unkind words either as it is not nice and can hurt peoples feelings as I am a human behind this screen not some robot. All for now I will add more later x
happy SS

You are spot on and being chatty is what it’s all about online isn’t it?
If people didn’t then what would be social about this site?
There are a lot of people who won’t say anything, not even acknowledge someone talking to them, I for one would have ten chatty people over a hundred people who just sit and watch but say nothing but then I think that’s just bad manners and I was brought up to acknowledge folk that speak to me.
It’s great to have you with us ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Some great posts here..we are normally very chatty with people..we are always very welcoming to new members..it is hard for us to chat as we do permanent nights..we haven’t been on here as much these last few days as real life is giving us a right kicking at the moment..what I am personally noticing is a lot of new members join ,,message you then upload pics but after a couple of days when nobody has arranged a meet straight away with them they have deleted their accounts..as I said we have no problem meeting up with new members and chatting with people is great it’s just at the moment we are struggling to meet anyone...it’s just a really bad start to the year.I think the birthday bash is the next social we will be attending..we look forward to meeting all the new members that are attending and hopefully some fun and friendship in the future with them.W..

 

[Deleted member 16044]

you must have been reading my mind. chatting to someone in less than a day and come back this afternoon to find that he is now an unknown member.

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Some great posts here..we are normally very chatty with people..we are always very welcoming to new members..it is hard for us to chat as we do permanent nights..we haven’t been on here as much these last few days as real life is giving us a right kicking at the moment..what I am personally noticing is a lot of new members join ,,message you then upload pics but after a couple of days when nobody has arranged a meet straight away with them they have deleted their accounts..as I said we have no problem meeting up with new members and chatting with people is great it’s just at the moment we are struggling to meet anyone...it’s just a really bad start to the year.I think the birthday bash is the next social we will be attending..we look forward to meeting all the new members that are attending and hopefully some fun and friendship in the future with them.W..

and I am still new and still finding my feet so to speak and trying to be active on here. I am off to the social in februray x

 

[Deleted member 11852]

It happens quite regular..I have said on other threads people come here from other swinging sites but this site is totally unique as people do like to chat and get to know you..they expect to send one or two messages then jump into bed with you..I’m sure it can happen elsewhere but I don’t think that’s for us..like I said we have met new members had lots of naughty fun and become really good friends too..people just need to chat more and be a bit more patient..it will happen as we have found out..W..

 

[Deleted member 16044]

you will find with me I like to chat and get to know people that is what socialable people do isn't it?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

and I am still new and still finding my feet so to speak and trying to be active on here. I am off to the social in februray x

We can’t make February..just too many bad things happening this month but we will definitely be at the birthday bash in March..look forward to seeing you there..W..

 

[Deleted member 16044]

I got to be anti social now and do another round of shopping, the last round was like a social outing now for more social outing in going to Aldi for milk incase I get stuck in

 

[Deleted member 16044]

will let you know what you missed all in good faith mind x