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I'm a bit paranoid about my belly. Any sign of a spare tyre and I'm reaching for the latest diet Bible... Does it matter? I think I know the answer, but still need to ask...

No it does not matter, well not to me anyway. Just means there is more of you to fancy ;)
 
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Nope, usually, the one person it seems to matter to the most is... you! No one else is bothered, there will still be those that want to shag the stuffing out of you, and those who wouldn't give you a second look.
Jayne was a little body-conscious when we first started swinging, but she wore sexy lingerie etc, and soon stopped worrying about it when she realised that it doesn't matter, we found that making friends, and just being ourselves meant that we had fun.
 
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No size doesnt matter ,4 kid's and nearly 50 years old I have a jelly belly ,yes I get paranoid sometimes but its how you feel inside that defines you . I go out with my daughters and they feel more paranoid than me if I get chatted up these days
 
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I'm a bit paranoid about my belly. Any sign of a spare tyre and I'm reaching for the latest diet Bible... Does it matter? I think I know the answer, but still need to ask...

I've just done some initial research on your pictures...it took longer than it should, but that's for another discussion... and I am happy to officially report you're a sexy liitle lady with a great looking figure. Nothing to worry about. ;)
 
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I've just done some initial research on your pictures...it took longer than it should, but that's for another discussion... and I am happy to officially report you're a sexy liitle lady with a great looking figure. Nothing to worry about. ;)
Thank you. I guess everyone has their moments of self doubt...xxx
 
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Thank you. I guess everyone has their moments of self doubt...xxx
Which is totally normal. Not many people have 'gym perfect' bodies and even then we pretty much all have some hang up and doubts. Men and women. We all think the same when it comes to "will he/she fancy me?"

You can tell more from a kiss than a dress size. Their loss if they don't get that far! (y)
 
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meet_the_fockers

I have a mummy tummy which really used to bother me but now less so x
Ai me too... but my tummy.. is part of me im afraid.. its also a gentle reminder of those delightful.. little kevin and perrys, i brought into this world.. so i tend to be a little more forgiving.. id rather have them than a flat tummy.. but i am always looking for high waisted underwear etc.. must admit.. but i am hoping it is me that, people see not my tummy..
We all have imperfections.. everyone of us.. xxx
 
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Ai me too... but my tummy.. is part of me im afraid.. its also a gentle reminder of those delightful.. little kevin and perrys, i brought into this world.. so i tend to be a little more forgiving.. id rather have them than a flat tummy.. but i am always looking for high waisted underwear etc.. must admit.. but i am hoping it is me that, people see not my tummy..
We all have imperfections.. everyone of us.. xxx
High waisted ?? Granny pants :rofl::rofl:;);):love::love: your gorgeous too ..... @Nigel&Julie can call me a creep arse again :p
 
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Hate this paranoia that the modern media has piled onto woman about this supposed ideal figure, I like a full curvaceous figure, I like slim slender figures, I like the in between. As for extra 'tyres'
No such thing, just a beautiful woman.x
 
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Hate this paranoia that the modern media has piled onto woman about this supposed ideal figure, I like a full curvaceous figure, I like slim slender figures, I like the in between. As for extra 'tyres'
No such thing, just a beautiful woman.x
Xx
 
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Nothing wrong with a mummy tummy or what ever you want to call it. Would never put us of going with a woman.
Mrs Brum as a mummy tummy and does worry about it at times when we go to a club. But she is getting better and putting her worries behind her, and in fairness always her fair share of attention
 
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If we all worried about our imperfections there would be no-one on this site. The simple answer to your question is No it doesnt matter.
 
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We're both overweight, but have lost some pounds since Hogmanay and intend to keep it off! Being naturists for years before we started swinging, we soon realised most people didn't have 'model' or 'porn star' bodies and became confident about our nude bodies. That helped when we started to go swinger-clubbing, getting nude for sex with other people around wasn't a problem, especially when we saw most of them were perfectly normal too. Yes, there are always a few beautiful people around but the important thing is being happy with who you are.
 
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It's good to read everyone opinion on such a conman issue.
Let's be honest whether it male or female, we all have imperfections or what we think are imperfections, that others don't see. It's not until you get into a scene as this do you start to realize that others don't see them or don't care about them. If people do judge or take a dislike to what is nature doing what it does best, then they are not worth getting to know let alone swing with.
 
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