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    Discussion in 'Public Forums' started by Admin, 22 March 2015.

    1. Admin

      Admin Site Owner Admin

      To most people, the idea of BDSM seems like a twisted way to love. Some have a perception that it is an activity meant for people who like to take advantage of others, or people who love being taken for granted.

      However, this is not true. You couldn’t be further from the truth with this kind of ideology. Members who practice BDSM cannot get enough it!


      There are people who are in the fetish for a lifetime, while others just want to get in, hit, and run. Either way, the benefits of BDSM are numerous, explaining why some people will find it hard to quit.

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      What are the joys of BDSM?


      If there was one satisfactory answer, then it would be “many”. Life is short. Life is boring, too, especially if you do not go the extra mile to enjoy that which you have. Most people quit very successful relationships due to boredom. Why not spice up your relationship. In fact, boring relationships are the number one reason why people tend to run away from them in the first place.


      Everybody or most people are affected sexually by something else other than attraction to the genital parts of the body. It might be sexy red lingerie that does it for you or a clever dirty talk from your partner. If these two examples are what turn you on, then you are part and parcel of BDSM.
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      People with apparent penile dysfunction have been surprised when it turned out that it was just in their mind! If you think this is not real, try some form of BDSM when you least want to have sex. Results are guaranteed. This is a mind blowing phenomenon. One that you definitely don’t want to miss out on.


      It is groundless to imply that people highly interested in BDSM were mistreated as kids. This is misleading. There is no doubt that a very high percentage of BDSM relationships thrive. Most of these relationships are guaranteed of emotional health for the partners.



      Jealousy is the mother of all evil. If you want to have a very short lived relationship with your partner, then try to be red eyed jealous. Though at first it seems like a very normal thing, sometimes making your partner flattered, this is a time bomb that never fails to explode. As a person who believes in, and practices BDSM, you are sure that jealousy will be eroded. For the young in love, try this, and see how effective it is!
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      BDSM encourages people to role-play. As a human being of a particular gender, several things are expected of you. For instance, as a man, you are expected to be in control, to be in power. You are not allowed to give up that power or control, even for a second.


      Some women want a man to take control in and out of the bedroom. This is encouraged in BDSM and with your sexual partner, you will feel free. You will feel empowered.

      You will be a successful explorer in the exciting world of sexual fantasy.


      There is no doubt that most people have a fetish idea cross their mind when they are having sex with their partners.

      BDSM believers are those people who do not fear.


      It is for those people who are not willing to let anything stand in their way to sexual freedom and total satisfaction. BDSM is not simply a vague fetish sexual ideology; rather, it is a mind growing, satisfying experience for its believers.

      Enjoy to the fullest what you are entitled to as a human being!

      Get going, meet your Dom/Sub today!

      Share your thoughts and points of view! Here:)
       
    2. Lace

      Lace PV

      More should enjoy this and It is a very interesting sexual experience xxx
       
    3. Admin

      Admin Site Owner Admin

      Indeed, role play I think is probably one of the most commonplace.. that seems to be the general consensus :Ohyessir:
       
    4. Vex

      Vex PV P

      I've been into BDSM for years, at least 25. Never practiced any of it until I got with my g/f (except for self bondage lol).
       
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      • Pearls

        Pearls Site Owner Admin

        This is a very interesting topic and more should enjoy this experience xxx
         
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        • Lips_Pearls

          Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr

          We both enjoy exploring our boundaries but admittedly Lips has a bit more of a stronger kink in him. He likes pain.. not severe, but does enjoy pain. Pearls enjoys feathers and teasing, along with light bondage.. Lips does prefer the harder style of it.
          We BOTH love stockings, boots, suspenders, sexy clothes role play xx
           
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          • Lips_Pearls

            Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr

            What's your knowledge of ropework @Vex :D
             
          • Love BDSM i have had to explain to people the highs that i get from it are simply the best thing i have ever experienced. i do enjoy pain but its really the sense of being controlled and manipulated, just used for their sadistic pleasure ..... think i need a cold shower lol
             
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            • Somehow, I am not surprised...... Make sure you dont enjoy the Cold Shower.....o_O
               
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              • Admin

                Admin Site Owner Admin

                I agree... :eek:
                Swinging site, or not.. Owner or not.. I enjoy the scene too and love the play that comes into it.
                As some will know already here, my personal thing is pegging, spikes, rope and being utterly restrained.
                Yet I am also what some may consider as Dom by nature... Hmm :whistle:
                 
              • Interesting.... IMHO, @Admin shows definite Switch tenancies. Perhaps @Mrs Admin can confirm this...? ;)

                For us, Lady L is about 80 % Domme vs 20% Sub, whereas as I (I..!!) am maybe 70% Sub, vs 30% Dom. I enjoy being restrained, then generally teased, or flogged - or even both... :)

                If we were an Ice Cream, we would certainly not be Very Vanilla....! More like one of the improbable, but yummy concoctions from Ben & Jerry's....... :D

                PS. Boots, Stockings, Suspenders, Corsets...... :love::love::love:
                 
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                • Admin

                  Admin Site Owner Admin

                  Yes I could Switch I think, although more a Dom by nature I can Switch, but would have to be completely in the right company and presence..

                  Ooh I see, so a natural sub then? And Lady L more Domme.. Interesting roles ;)
                  Yes, boots, stockings, suspenders, corsets... hmm nom nom :p ;)
                   
                • Lady L is a Fluffy Domme.....! And I am (mostly) a Bratty Sub......! :sneaky:
                  I am definitely not a typical Sub.....:rolleyes:
                   
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                  • hey don't knock subs or i will report you to the union the NUSS&PTDASTAT and aren't all Dommes fluffy and lovely :rolleyes:
                     
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                    • Lols... :)
                      Definitely not knocking Subs.. Because I am one..!!

                      Ok so translate that Union for us... Please...!!!

                      I from I&L xx
                       
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                      • National Union of subs, slaves & people that do as they are told :censored:
                         
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                        • Admin

                          Admin Site Owner Admin



                          ha! Fluffy Domme and Bratty Subs.. but fluffy Domme's
                          Brilliant :D
                           
                        • TownhouseTwosome

                          TownhouseTwosome VIP Member PV

                          A classic example of Domme baiting there riccarda and you should know better!! Were you hoping that I wouldn't find this sneaky bit of sub stupidity?? Careful or I may NOT beat you anymore...even worse, I may not need you anymore!!
                          Lady C
                           
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                          • Sorry Sorry Sorry Mistress please i won't post anything silly again Sorry Mistress:cry::cry::cry::cry:
                             
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                            • Lady C - Is this what is referred to as 'Rattling The Chains...?' With a side order of Bratty-ness.....? ;)
                               
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                              • TownhouseTwosome

                                TownhouseTwosome VIP Member PV

                                The brat never wins as it's usually beaten out of her...the rattling of chains will be around her pretty little neck! :Ohyessir:
                                 
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                                • Lips_Pearls

                                  Lips_Pearls PV P Sprtr

                                  Brats will face correct punishment.
                                   
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                                  • i really am sorry Mistress and promise i won't do it again Mistress :notworthy:
                                     
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                                    • Do we believe @riccarda ...? Hmm.... :unsure:
                                       
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