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The Joys of being the male half

  • Thread starter MrTrilB
  • Start date 13 October 2015
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13 October 2015
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MrTrilB

MrTrilB

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Hi all

So i thought i would make a post just to see the reaction and gage the response.

Me and my partner made separate profiles recently and decided we would play seperatlly. we both spoke about it and made the decision that as long as we dont see it we will be fine with it lol.

Now i have always thought that me being part of her profile dragged us back and wanted to prove this point.

well i have to say this has been the proof in the pudding. Since we have had separate profiles she has had more offers from guys, girls and couples than we had as a couple.

where as i checked my profiles this morning and the last view was 6 hours ago.

goes to show that you have to be something magic or over 30 to get anywhere as a male in the swing community.

anyway what i am getting at is that when you are a single male out to play or even as part of a couple, dont let it get you down because to be honest its a great feeling to know that the woman you are with is desired so much.

we have a couple of rules but the main one is that we go home with each other at the end of the night unless its prior arranged.

this rule helps us maintain something that is ours within our relationship.

yes we play in our bed and yes we have had people stay over but we have always always come home together unless we organised it prior to an event.

Anyway have fun and happy swinging guys and girls.
 
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13 October 2015
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Pearls

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Good luck in your new life style and Im sure you have plenty of fun along the way xx
 
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13 October 2015
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Admin

Admin

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I think in this lifestyle, the female side of the accounts, is what 'pulls the crowds' as it were..
In one way, it's a good thing as you rightly pointed out - and in the other, it's actually quite sexist.. :p
 
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13 October 2015
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MrTrilB

MrTrilB

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Age
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Many are looking for the unicorn that does not stay a unicorn for very long, both swing and fet suffer this.
 
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13 October 2015
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Admin

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Indeed... The elusive unicorn.. :)
Well that's one thing I know, many single female accounts turn up to be a couple account.. Don't they? ;)
 
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13 October 2015
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MrTrilB

MrTrilB

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Liverpool
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Age
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Yep just to get more headway. cleaver moves but detrimental to the community as a whole.

If i could conduct a study of the community i am sure i could find some interesting market research lol.
 
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13 October 2015
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D7andFLC

We all know that swinging sites are saturated with single men, however, I honestly think that quality single men are more difficult to find than single women. So much so, that I actually gave up looking for them. When I say quality, I mean men who are actually single (or playing with permission), know what swinging is about and aren't just there for their own entertainment.
D7
 
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13 October 2015
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Lace

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Good luck both and am sure you will find what you are looking for x
 
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13 October 2015
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D7andFLC said:
When I say quality, I mean men who are actually single (or playing with permission), know what swinging is about and aren't just there for their own entertainment.
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They are probably the true unicorns in swinging!!
 
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13 October 2015
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Admin

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D7andFLC said:
We all know that swinging sites are saturated with single men, however, I honestly think that quality single men are more difficult to find than single women. So much so, that I actually gave up looking for them. When I say quality, I mean men who are actually single (or playing with permission), know what swinging is about and aren't just there for their own entertainment.
D7
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Yes indeed.. I can grasp that, as so many are out for specific needs and wants/requirements.
For example so many bulls appear now, but how many REALLY know what being a Bull entails? ;) x
 
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