Trusting others.

[Deleted member 120]

Good morning sexy peeps.
Are you overall, generally quite trusting of others in this lifestyle?
If so, why?
If not, why not? X

 

[Deleted member 11852]

As in real life we feel that you should trust people, at least until they give you reasons not to. If you didn’t take things at face value we don’t think you would ever trust anyone. You can’t act on anything without knowing something is wrong. In this lifestyle if you don’t have trust we don’t think you would end up meeting anyone. xx M

 

[The-A-Team]

Good morning sexy peeps.
Are you overall, generally quite trusting of others in this lifestyle?
If so, why?
If not, why not? X

Hmmm, Lips_Pearls you keep asking really difficult questions ? ? To trust or not to trust, that is the question.
With people we have met frequently, and got to know well, for that very reason, we trust them implicitly.... (To be fair you have to)
However, New people are kept at arms length for personal facts, in fact anything else facts wise, that's not needed so as to just make that first awkward meet more bearable, and that's it for us.
If that first, maybe even the 2nd meet does not go to plan, you can walk away with your head held high, and safe in the knowledge, the other parties have no incriminating knowledge, other than you've met up,...
We think its far safer this way ??

 

[Stew]

I’ve trusted people in the past and got my fingers burnt quite badly so now I am definitely more cautious!

 

[Skippy01]

My fbi skills would become rusty if I was so trusting of people ?
I keep a cautious mind about everyone, until they prove they can be trusted x

 

[MP386]

I do have a tendency to trust people easily, which is why I probably get shit on more often than not … with recent events I am now , especially within this lifestyle likely to be more cautious who I trust .
I’ve met some absolutely fantastic people doing this but there are those who aren’t so fantastic ….
But as with most things in life you live and learn the hard way ….

 

[Simon16]

I think my downfall… and in life in general.. is that I just always see the good in people and too trusting. Maybe this is a fault, maybe I’m naive. I’m a street wise guy who knows how the real world can be, but I guess I just trust people to be as nice and open as I am but sadly this isnt always the case

 

[MaleMan]

People are cunts, trust no one. ? (Just throwing some alternative views into the mix)

 

[Kwaka_Rider]

Good morning sexy peeps.
Are you overall, generally quite trusting of others in this lifestyle?
If so, why?
If not, why not? X

I've learnt to not completely trust anyone, my guard is always up and that's due to all my experiences.

 

[NotSoFireproof]

My fbi skills would become rusty if I was so trusting of people ?
I keep a cautious mind about everyone, until they prove they can be trusted x

This sums up how I feel about it now. But I used to be far too trusting and it got me into trouble!

 

[Ymichael14]

Trust no one.
You will live a lot longer.
A woman i had worked with for several years suddenly wanted to date me. Invited me over to her house after work for sex.
She married my supervisor the next day.
Then wondered why i avoided her. She wanted to keep seeing me.
I dont mind being used just for sex, but let me know that is what you are doing.
And giving me a heads up on who you are marrying the next day.
Trust no one.

 

[Skippy01]

Trust no one.
You will live a lot longer.
A woman i had worked with for several years suddenly wanted to date me. Invited me over to her house after work for sex.
She married my supervisor the next day.
Then wondered why i avoided her. She wanted to keep seeing me.
I dont mind being used just for sex, but let me know that is what you are doing.
And giving me a heads up on who you are marrying the next day.
Trust no one.

I'd be well pissed off if I worked with someone for several years, and never got an invite to the wedding.
But yeah that's also shitty doing that to you x

 

[Simon16]

Trust no one.
You will live a lot longer.
A woman i had worked with for several years suddenly wanted to date me. Invited me over to her house after work for sex.
She married my supervisor the next day.
Then wondered why i avoided her. She wanted to keep seeing me.
I dont mind being used just for sex, but let me know that is what you are doing.
And giving me a heads up on who you are marrying the next day.
Trust no one.

Wooooyyy!! Hold your horses here!! You’re truly viewing your whole outlook on life based on one bad experience???
Yes this is a sad and shit situation, but If this one experience in life has changed your whole mantra and outlook on life, then please, rethink… I promise you that this world is full of good people and you will find them. Hang in there Michael and don’t give up x

 

[Ymichael14]

Wooooyyy!! Hold your horses here!! You’re truly viewing your whole outlook on life based on one bad experience???
Yes this is a sad and shit situation, but If this one experience in life has changed your whole mantra and outlook on life, then please, rethink… I promise you that this world is full of good people and you will find them. Hang in there Michael and don’t give up x

Would you like my traumatic relationships alphabetically, or chronologically?

 

[Ymichael14]

I'd be well pissed off if I worked with someone for several years, and never got an invite to the wedding.
But yeah that's also shitty doing that to you x

I probably would have enjoyed sleeping with her, then attending her wedding in the morning.
I could have shook the new husband's hand and congratulated him on the great wife he got. And how loyal she was.

 

[Skippy01]

I probably would have enjoyed sleeping with her, then attending her wedding in the morning.
I could have shook the new husband's hand and congratulated him on the great wife he got. And how loyal she was.

Not too sure where the loyalty was with her tbh MIchael lol. But good to know you would have taken the sweet,mature way out x

 

[Ymichael14]

Not too sure where the loyalty was with her tbh MIchael lol. But good to know you would have taken the sweet,mature way out x

I was being sarcastic.
Besides, the only other thing i could have said to him was, how great she was in bed.

 

[TherLegs]

I trust everybody

 

[tricky-dicky]

I am of the view that trust has to be earned but you have to give others the chance to prove themselves worthy of trust.

 

[Colin]

I trust everybody until they prove likewise

 

[Ymichael14]

I trust everybody

Ok. Send me your bank account number and password.
I need to get some cash out of the US.
I will deposit 1 million US, withdrawal $900,000.00 US. and i will even convert the $100,000.00 to pounds sterling for free.
You trust everyone, right?

 

[TherLegs]

Ok. Send me your bank account number and password.
I need to get some cash out of the US.
I will deposit 1 million US, withdrawal $900,000.00 US. and i will even convert the $100,000.00 to pounds sterling for free.
You trust everyone, right?

Yes I trust everyone to show their true colours, they always do. Some are genuine and can be relied on, others seem ok at first then turn out to be anything but.