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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Hehe. What a line opener yes?
“What u into what u looking for”

Read the profile. Ambiguous? Hell yeah. Maybe. But try chatting innit.
See the way I see things is, if you’re a forumite you can figure peeps out (if you can see past the pics ??) on your own, by their postings. Okay only slightly.

But then you have this wonderful area where you can fill in profile info.
To start a PM with someone - what you into, basically you need a slap around the face with a cod.
Booyah


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So maybe be a little bit more imaginative. Creative. Think about whether you’d say that to someone in a bar eh? Eh? Well, would you?
Okay some of you probably would. ?

Must be more to life with WUU2? NMHBU?
Ai ai ai ??‍♂️? x
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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I’ve been thinking about this :eek: And it must be difficult for some to send that dreaded initial message but it doesn’t have to be a daunting thought.
Ive been watching a few replies on another thread and how disappointing it is to get ignored after sending out messages.
I’ve always maintained that the more you put in then the more you get out of this lifestyle and joining a site, sending out messages of “what you into” or “hi” isn’t going to attract when you are a stranger to stranger.

I love the forums and will interact with anyone unless they’re ignorant fuckers who ignore my posts and then I won’t bother looking at you.

So being in threads you really get to know a person and in my opinion the best place to see how people tick. Here’s the difference with that opening message of “hi”
A stranger just joined won’t get a look in but as an example if I had a message off @MP386 saying Hi then I already know him through the forums, know his personality and would go from there.
My reply would be fuck right off out of my inbox:D but that’s the way we are. Seriously though if I were interested then getting to know him in the forums would have broken the ice.

People are quick to message but we are now in a different world of restrictions so get involved in threads, make ones yourself, tag people, say hello to them, don’t ignore a person for saying a polite good morning.

Remembering we are in a pandemic, there are people out there on their own with only a screen. Interaction is key for many of us.
So when you do get a polite good morning off a stranger, even if you have no intention of meeting just remember, they could be alone and just want some contact.

Profile posts and threads can open up so many opportunities for everyone but only if you want it and that initial “ hi” in a message could be the start of some fun.
 
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Guru G

Guru G

17 September 2020
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Pearls said:
I’ve been thinking about this :eek: And it must be difficult for some to send that dreaded initial message but it doesn’t have to be a daunting thought.
Ive been watching a few replies on another thread and how disappointing it is to get ignored after sending out messages.
I’ve always maintained that the more you put in then the more you get out of this lifestyle and joining a site, sending out messages of “what you into” or “hi” isn’t going to attract when you are a stranger to stranger.

I love the forums and will interact with anyone unless they’re ignorant fuckers who ignore my posts and then I won’t bother looking at you.

So being in threads you really get to know a person and in my opinion the best place to see how people tick. Here’s the difference with that opening message of “hi”
A stranger just joined won’t get a look in but as an example if I had a message off @MP386 saying Hi then I already know him through the forums, know his personality and would go from there.
My reply would be fuck right off out of my inbox:D but that’s the way we are. Seriously though if I were interested then getting to know him in the forums would have broken the ice.

People are quick to message but we are now in a different world of restrictions so get involved in threads, make ones yourself, tag people, say hello to them, don’t ignore a person for saying a polite good morning.

Remembering we are in a pandemic, there are people out there on their own with only a screen. Interaction is key for many of us.
So when you do get a polite good morning off a stranger, even if you have no intention of meeting just remember, they could be alone and just want some contact.

Profile posts and threads can open up so many opportunities for everyone but only if you want it and that initial “ hi” in a message could be the start of some fun.
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So you're saying the reason I never get mails is because people see my personality in threads and think no thank you? Wow thought you was different :notworthy::rofl:
 
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From my personal point of view I always welcome new members or try to but it does get annoying when you receive these one word messages or the ones saying nice tits when can we meet.. They don't even get a response.. I know it's daunting sending messages but surely at least 1 sentence is manageable.. We reply to most messages we receive.. Except the shit one's we receive.. When we first joined this lifestyle we did send messages to people.. Most of them were the same thing.. EG.. :tiphat: Good morning or afternoon we are new to the site and lifestyle and looking to chat and make friends.. Not looking for meets yet but friends to chat and gain some opinions and experiences.. Thanks for reading this... Now messages like that we would always reply to.. W..
 
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CocoDD

CocoDD

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Lips_Pearls said:
Hehe. What a line opener yes?
“What u into what u looking for”

Read the profile. Ambiguous? Hell yeah. Maybe. But try chatting innit.
See the way I see things is, if you’re a forumite you can figure peeps out (if you can see past the pics ??) on your own, by their postings. Okay only slightly.

But then you have this wonderful area where you can fill in profile info.
To start a PM with someone - what you into, basically you need a slap around the face with a cod.
Booyah


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So maybe be a little bit more imaginative. Creative. Think about whether you’d say that to someone in a bar eh? Eh? Well, would you?
Okay some of you probably would. ?

Must be more to life with WUU2? NMHBU?
Ai ai ai ??‍♂️? x
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I tend to get all those, I must attract them. Most guys want me to get on apps just to swap pics which doesn’t interest me. A good laugh and some good English would be nice. I’m friendly with all messages even if they are rough but sending such messages and photos of your dick just isn’t a good approach.
 
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CocoDD said:
I tend to get all those, I must attract them. Most guys want me to get on apps just to swap pics which doesn’t interest me. A good laugh and some good English would be nice. I’m friendly with all messages even if they are rough but sending such messages and photos of your dick just isn’t a good approach.
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It’s annoying When they ask for pics I just tell them to look at our media as that's the whole point of putting pics up.. We could send pics to them but it's pointless as most of ours are recent pics.. W.. :)
 
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MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Pearls said:
What the hell is nmhbu? :noidy:
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I’ll google it :rofl:
Pearls said:
I’ve been thinking about this :eek: And it must be difficult for some to send that dreaded initial message but it doesn’t have to be a daunting thought.
Ive been watching a few replies on another thread and how disappointing it is to get ignored after sending out messages.
I’ve always maintained that the more you put in then the more you get out of this lifestyle and joining a site, sending out messages of “what you into” or “hi” isn’t going to attract when you are a stranger to stranger.

I love the forums and will interact with anyone unless they’re ignorant fuckers who ignore my posts and then I won’t bother looking at you.

So being in threads you really get to know a person and in my opinion the best place to see how people tick. Here’s the difference with that opening message of “hi”
A stranger just joined won’t get a look in but as an example if I had a message off @MP386 saying Hi then I already know him through the forums, know his personality and would go from there.
My reply would be fuck right off out of my inbox:D but that’s the way we are. Seriously though if I were interested then getting to know him in the forums would have broken the ice.

People are quick to message but we are now in a different world of restrictions so get involved in threads, make ones yourself, tag people, say hello to them, don’t ignore a person for saying a polite good morning.

Remembering we are in a pandemic, there are people out there on their own with only a screen. Interaction is key for many of us.
So when you do get a polite good morning off a stranger, even if you have no intention of meeting just remember, they could be alone and just want some contact.

Profile posts and threads can open up so many opportunities for everyone but only if you want it and that initial “ hi” in a message could be the start of some fun.
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You tell me to what :eek::eek:??
 
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