So my wife and I are in a very stable, loving and passionate relationship. We have a lot of trust and understanding between us which allowed me to tell her that I fantasize about wifesharing and swinging very often. It was a bit shocking moment for her but at the end she herd my story and kind of accepted it the way it is. We talked about it many times without any pushing or forcing in any way. She clearly showed me and told me she is not into those things and I assured her that I understand and it is not a problem at all. Some times passed and as I am bringing the subject now and then she, agreed at some point for a mmf threesome, which was very surprising to me. I was thrilled but in some further conversation it came clear to me that she wants to do it only because she knows I want it so bad, so I canceled the whole thing. So now I don't really know what to do and what should be my next step. Should I wait and be patient, should I try to talk to her again to see what she thinks or should I forget about it once and for all?
