When Looking For Liaisons (meets)

Send a discreet message giving a hint. I’m shy.

Lips_Pearls said:

Really.... xx

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Ok maybe a little then

Lips_Pearls said:

As you may know, universally they're used but I cannot stand the terms 'meet' and 'play'. So I always try to use liaison instead. With friend(s).

Anyway, so... you are looking for a liaison. There's usually two ways to do it;
1, Post a thread
2, Take the plunge and directly PM others.

Which do you do & why?
Don't be shy... x

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Were I to ever initiate, the latter.

As a guy, (usually) get stumped either way:

1) Post a meet: tumbleweed. Usually no matter how far in advance or what notice I give (I typically allow weeks/months) as most people happen to be busy on said date.
2) Send a PM/Email: except by the time the prospective contact sees the message, their inbox is usually full of messages from other people who, if they're anything like me, see what I see (or similar).

So, I tend to wait and see if anyone throws up a batsignal that I can respond to... by the time I can tear myself away from real life and bring myself up to speed

Lips_Pearls said:

As you may know, universally they're used but I cannot stand the terms 'meet' and 'play'. So I always try to use liaison instead. With friend(s).

Anyway, so... you are looking for a liaison. There's usually two ways to do it;
1, Post a thread
2, Take the plunge and directly PM others.

Which do you do & why?
Don't be shy... x

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I do PMs. Only because I like to show interest privately at first and then I openly love flirting on profile posts. The women and couples I am interested know me by the flirtatious messages I post on their pics.

Lips_Pearls said:

Anyway, so... you are looking for a liaison. There's usually two ways to do it;
1, Post a thread
2, Take the plunge and directly PM others x

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Wow you mean that’s a real life thing you can do on here !!! Who knew