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Discussion in 'All About Swinging' started by Lips_Pearls, 4 July 2018.

  1. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    This is mostly for the couples; but for some swingles this may well apply if you have an FB/FWB..

    Ever been in a situation where you can't help yourself but contact someone, without your OH's consent and gone a bit further than what you should have?
    What did your OH say? Was he/she cool with it or blow their lid as it's outside of the boundaries you'd maybe set?

    What would YOU do if you caught your OH messaging someone on the quiet without your explicit consent and/or knowledge? x
     
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  2. Antogs

    Antogs PV Sprtr

    Is there something you feel you need to tell us? :rofl::rofl::rofl:

    Antogs xx
     
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  3. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    LOL nah. :D I'm very open... :noidy: o_O :rofl:



    Just trying to spur peeps on rather than people just sitting here looking for something. Know what I mean. (y)
     
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  4. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    I would never and if I found out him he was messaging without me knowing then he’d probably be facing another broken knee to match em up. :D
     
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  5. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    :whistle: :whistle: :eek: :eek: :rofl: :rofl:

    Nuff said ^^^ :D xx
     
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  6. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Need to get anything of your chest dear :hmm:xx
     
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  7. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    Have only ever been on the other side of it... back in my accountancy days, a friend’s wife contacted me to ask some advice about taxes (she was going self-employed). After we’d got that out of the way, we carried on chatting, until the conversation went in a direction that was, or could have been, inappropriate. We stppped the chat at that point before she’d embarassed herself.

    At the weekend, she called and said she’d developed an enormous crush... obv he didn’t know... we left it at inappropriate phone chats and texts only, but we briefly entertained ‘what if...?’
     
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  8. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    No darling :censored: :rofl: xx

    Hmm perhaps something could have been there I think! :whistle:
     
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  9. fincon

    fincon PV Sprtr

    Oh, I think it was definitely there, had we both wanted it, but a) her fella was a friend, and b) at the time, the chats were fun without... danger? If that makes sense.
     
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  10. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Yes, dangerous waters there my friend. Not fair on all of you either. Best it ended the way it did I think.
     
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  11. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Zipped lip smilie :cautious:
     
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  12. Arb

    Arb PV

    I fell into this, it sucks I made a mistake chatting to another women, nothing sexual in it at all, just chat, inane banter I thought nothing of it, until my fwb found out at which point it went epic.
    I feel bad for the hurt I caused and lost a friend over it.
    I’m learning all the time, truly honesty is the best policy no matter how trivial you may think it be.
     
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  13. nope never had this problem as we leave our phones and laptops open so we both know every message thats sent
     
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  14. Vanezza

    Vanezza PV Sprtr

    Never happens our phones are an open book we can read each others messages at any time and pm on here too it's how we work honesty all the way

    Vxxx
     
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  15. We are the same. We also try to set up group chats. I probably chat more than Lew but I always make it clear from the outset that my messages are free to be read. I think it just sets the boundaries from the outset xx
     
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  16. Carpediem2008

    Carpediem2008 PV Sprtr

    love reading wifey's naughty chat with the ladies but again total transparency is always the best option after all it's only chat our cardinal rule is we are open honest and we only meet as a couple...but some of the chats.....oh my great reading hehe.x
     
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  17. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Ommm we've very recently been informed of someone who landed themselves in right hoot water for doing this. Silly person.. Oops.
    Easily done? Or simply letting themselves get carried away?
     
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  18. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    Forgeting their place ;)
     
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  19. No, it would go against everything in our relationship, besides we get turned on by the other being flirty with other people, and I'm crap at keeping secrets
     
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  20. Pearls

    Pearls #PearlsTechSupport

    I wonder how many have been caught though :eek:
     
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