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Lips_Pearls

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This is mostly for the couples; but for some swingles this may well apply if you have an FB/FWB..

Ever been in a situation where you can't help yourself but contact someone, without your OH's consent and gone a bit further than what you should have?
What did your OH say? Was he/she cool with it or blow their lid as it's outside of the boundaries you'd maybe set?

What would YOU do if you caught your OH messaging someone on the quiet without your explicit consent and/or knowledge? x
 

Antogs

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This is mostly for the couples; but for some swingles this may well apply if you have an FB/FWB..

Ever been in a situation where you can't help yourself but contact someone, without your OH's consent and gone a bit further than what you should have?
What did your OH say? Was he/she cool with it or blow their lid as it's outside of the boundaries you'd maybe set?

What would YOU do if you caught your OH messaging someone on the quiet without your explicit consent and/or knowledge? x
Is there something you feel you need to tell us? :rofl::rofl::rofl:

Antogs xx
 

Pearls

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I would never and if I found out him he was messaging without me knowing then he’d probably be facing another broken knee to match em up. :D
 

fincon

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Ever been in a situation where you can't help yourself but contact someone, without your OH's consent and gone a bit further than what you should have?
Have only ever been on the other side of it... back in my accountancy days, a friend’s wife contacted me to ask some advice about taxes (she was going self-employed). After we’d got that out of the way, we carried on chatting, until the conversation went in a direction that was, or could have been, inappropriate. We stppped the chat at that point before she’d embarassed herself.

At the weekend, she called and said she’d developed an enormous crush... obv he didn’t know... we left it at inappropriate phone chats and texts only, but we briefly entertained ‘what if...?’
 

Lips_Pearls

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Need to get anything of your chest dear :hmm:xx
No darling :censored: :rofl: xx

Have only ever been on the other side of it... back in my accountancy days, a friend’s wife contacted me to ask some advice about taxes (she was going self-employed). After we’d got that out of the way, we carried on chatting, until the conversation went in a direction that was, or could have been, inappropriate. We stppped the chat at that point before she’d embarassed herself.

At the weekend, she called and said she’d developed an enormous crush... obv he didn’t know... we left it at inappropriate phone chats and texts only, but we briefly entertained ‘what if...?’
Hmm perhaps something could have been there I think! :whistle:
 

Arb

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I fell into this, it sucks I made a mistake chatting to another women, nothing sexual in it at all, just chat, inane banter I thought nothing of it, until my fwb found out at which point it went epic.
I feel bad for the hurt I caused and lost a friend over it.
I’m learning all the time, truly honesty is the best policy no matter how trivial you may think it be.
 

Looby&Lew

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We are the same. We also try to set up group chats. I probably chat more than Lew but I always make it clear from the outset that my messages are free to be read. I think it just sets the boundaries from the outset xx
 
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love reading wifey's naughty chat with the ladies but again total transparency is always the best option after all it's only chat our cardinal rule is we are open honest and we only meet as a couple...but some of the chats.....oh my great reading hehe.x
 
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