Where The Hell Are You All Hiding?

[Purple Mamba Club]

Lies, all lies! I'm an arrogant sod really
As for the physique, try not to look too close, you might see the signs of the sack cloth I sleep in, lol.

but in all seriousness, I don't think being a perfectly reasonable gent (best foot forward) is that hard. I however worry if that's what ladies (iun general terms of swinging) do want as I sometimes is usually far from enough.

As one lady said "You'd make the perfect guy I bring home to meet my mother, but for me you just haven't got the raaaghr factor", to which I replied "Oh well, is your mother still available then?"

(arrogant people don't gift biscuits!) xxx

 

[Ahabs]

(arrogant people don't gift biscuits!) xxx

That's merely bait

 

[Antogs]

Well, I blame all the married/partnered men on here for all the problems !!

It's obviously them stopping their lovely women from PM'ing me to arrange a shagging session

Antogs xx

 

[Ahabs]

Well, I blame all the married/partnered men on here for all the problems !!

It's obviously them stopping their lovely women from PM'ing me to arrange a shagging session

Antogs xx

... backs away slowly ...

 

[Deleted member 3411]

Ok I took time to think so that I say exactly what I want to. I (Ste) have always been active on here though not necessarily as active sometimes as others. Personally I love all the banter the fun and information and informative posts that are put up.
I come here to form friendships and hopefully play Friends for L and I. It is true as I'm sure many of you have noticed that Linda does not spend much time on here anymore, it's not because we have fallen out of love with the idea of swinging or that she is no longer interested in you all or the concept, in fact it's something else.
She's told me that although it is good fun here she's more interested then the fun to be had elsewhere be that club or bedroom, quite frankly she's fed up of talking about it and wants to get on with it. Personally I have recently wondered just how many who post are hear for the chat but have no interest in meeting? That is not a direct accusation and I will not be picking out particular names it is just that from this side of the tablet screen there is a lot of talk but not a lot of action. It is a huge disappointment that meetings are getting cancelled because of people not attending, in the past we put ourselves down for some of these meetings but did not attend all of them and realising that is unhelpful we now only put ourselves down for anything we know 100% that we can attend.
It has not been a very good year for us with personal health and personal circumstances getting in the way but trust us we are getting itchy feet and given the chance we'll be coming along to meet up with as many people as possible. Linda and I are currently discussing the future. These recent events in our lives have shown as how precious having the possibility of meeting up with friendly people having a friendly time and f****** each other senseless is. I'm 60 very soon and trust me people you do not want to miss out on the chance of having fun now and regret it later.....
So I'm with @Sammy this site needs to be more positive and keep the fun going. I for one am very grateful that such a site came my way.

 

[Ahabs]

Ok I took time to think so that I say exactly what I want to. I (Ste) have always been active on here though not necessarily as active sometimes as others. Personally I love all the banter the fun and information and informative posts that are put up.
I come here to form friendships and hopefully play Friends for L and I. It is true as I'm sure many of you have noticed that Linda does not spend much time on here anymore, it's not because we have fallen out of love with the idea of swinging or that she is no longer interested in you all or the concept, in fact it's something else.
She's told me that although it is good fun here she's more interested then the fun to be had elsewhere be that club or bedroom, quite frankly she's fed up of talking about it and wants to get on with it. Personally I have recently wondered just how many who post are hear for the chat but have no interest in meeting? That is not a direct accusation and I will not be picking out particular names it is just that from this side of the tablet screen there is a lot of talk but not a lot of action. It is a huge disappointment that meetings are getting cancelled because of people not attending, in the past we put ourselves down for some of these meetings but did not attend all of them and realising that is unhelpful we now only put ourselves down for anything we know 100% that we can attend.
It has not been a very good year for us with personal health and personal circumstances getting in the way but trust us we are getting itchy feet and given the chance we'll be coming along to meet up with as many people as possible. Linda and I are currently discussing the future. These recent events in our lives have shown as how precious having the possibility of meeting up with friendly people having a friendly time and f****** each other senseless is. I'm 60 very soon and trust me people you do not want to miss out on the chance of having fun now and regret it later.....
So I'm with @Sammy this site needs to be more positive and keep the fun going. I for one am very grateful that such a site came my way.

Here here Ste. I didn't want to be the one to say it, but I would imagine we do all want to "get on with it".
Some would say "it's not all about sex, there's the social side" to which I say "Yes, but it's not all about social, there's the swinging side".
I like to joke on other sites about how I'm a patient person as there are meets that I've waited as much as 6 years for (ie, known the person but took that long for us to get together), but I certainly don't feel that should be the norm as I certainly don't expect any lady to wait 6 years for me.
End of the day, we all just want it have fun, so with that said: my inbox is open #FancyAShag?

 

[Looby&Lew]

I haven't been on here overly much in the last three months. Home life has been extremely busy with doing up a house, organising a short notice wedding and a granddaughter to be spoiled. Hopefully after the end of this month these things will quieten down and we can be about more than we have been. We have arranged meets with people from here and whilst there is not necessarily an increase in veris that is because we do repeat meets. We are also doing some reassessment of what direction we want to move forward with. Our outlook has changed over time and we have pushed boundaries that we never envisaged pushing.

The forums are fun and a great way to interact and get a feel for whether someone is on your wave length. However changing a letter and word association have limited usefulness in doing that x

 

[Deleted member 3411]

I haven't been on here overly much in the last three months. Home life has been extremely busy with doing up a house, organising a short notice wedding and a granddaughter to be spoiled. Hopefully after the end of this month these things will quieten down and we can be about more than we have been. We have arranged meets with people from here and whilst there is not necessarily an increase in veris that is because we do repeat meets. We are also doing some reassessment of what direction we want to move forward with. Our outlook has changed over time and we have pushed boundaries that we never envisaged pushing.

The forums are fun and a great way to interact and get a feel for whether someone is on your wave length. However changing a letter and word association have limited usefulness in doing that x

Intreagued as to what new avenues swinging opened up? But seen that a few times here, folk who had set interests only to find something cropped up that lit a spark.

 

[Ahabs]

That's it. I will break my own rule.
Rather than wait to be invited, I'll be sending out emails to state my over the next few weeks (in no certain order).
Feel free to accept, reject, or postpone accordingly.
You have been warned

 

[Looby&Lew]

Intreagued as to what new avenues swinging opened up? But seen that a few times here, folk who had set interests only to find something cropped up that

Intreagued as to what new avenues swinging opened up? But seen that a few times here, folk who had set interests only to find something cropped up that lit a spark.

I suppose as newbies to the scene three years ago we had an idea of what we were looking for i.e. couples swap. However over time we have found that it is not as straight forward as you would imagine it would be. Trying to get a four way attraction is difficult and so we ventured into MMF which evolved into something more voyeuristic for Lew and then in to solo play occasionally and now back to couples...

One thing I have learned is to be open minded and never say never. We have had experiences we never expected too and enjoyed things we never expected to. I suppose for us it is a case of deciding what next....x

 

[Deleted member 8095]

We've been crazy busy since July and sadly real life has taken a mad spiral that we weren't expecting this side of Christmas, this coupled with the Mrs breaking her foot and getting a dvt has sadly meant swinging and all things sexy have had to take a back seat, we're slowly getting back to some form of normality now and hopefully will be back on top form very soon !!
We made a conscious choice to limit our time on the site as we didn't want any negativity to creep into our posts and I think we've succeeded there, hopefully lol
As they say, onwards and upwards.

 

[Deleted member 3411]

I suppose as newbies to the scene three years ago we had an idea of what we were looking for i.e. couples swap. However over time we have found that it is not as straight forward as you would imagine it would be. Trying to get a four way attraction is difficult and so we ventured into MMF which evolved into something more voyeuristic for Lew and then in to solo play occasionally and now back to couples...

One thing I have learned is to be open minded and never say never. We have had experiences we never expected too and enjoyed things we never expected to. I suppose for us it is a case of deciding what next....x

We get that totally, in recent times we've wondered if we are looking for something we won't find. MMFF is still an aim, but I also really love just sitting back and watching Linda enjoy. After the last week we are wondering what direction we want to take? With a grandson about for what might be some months we may not attempt anything, but we aim to talk it through and see what we think.

 

[MP386]

I haven’t been hiding bet you all wish I was

 

[Antogs]

As a single guy, I have to cope with different issues to those of you who are part of a couple.
I have no idea of the percentage of couples where the guy actively enjoys seeing his partner enjoy herself with another man (and I'd love to know ) but I can be pretty certain it's an awful lot lower than the guys who are only willing to either condone their partner playing with another female or re happy to see their partner with another guy as long as he is part of a couple and he can have fun with the female constituent of that partnership.
No blame here, I can fully understand that point of view.
I actually met a couple recently and the guy was telling me he absolutely loves watching his wife getting fucked by other men and had on occasion sought out men for his wife. That's by no means unique in my experience but if I see a sexy couple I certainly don't assume I'd be welcome as a single guy.

I met a lovely woman a few months back and we got on well and had some great fun and I thought it would be great for us to attend clubs, parties etc together thus increasing our options when swinging. Sadly that idea was never broached and we've both moved on but it is an arrangement I'd still like to explore.
I really do think it would improve my options greatly.

I see a lot of couples on here where I'm attracted to the female but upon checking their profile it soon becomes obvious to me that any attention from me would be unwelcome. Again, I must stress this is in no way a complaint as I fully understand and respect peoples choices.

Having said all that, i have had fun with both single ladies and ladies as part of a couple.
So, I for one am positive (just extremely disappointed with the lack of interest shown towards organised events)
I will remain active and I will try, one more time, to organise a party at my place where I will make it clear that it is intended to be a fun party for broadminded, sexy people who enjoy getting their clothes off. If I fail to attract people then I shall probably give up on the idea and stick to going to clubs where, in my opinion, people really do want to play

Antogs xx

 

[TherLegs]

We pop in sometimes to add a little mayhem to the threads, we advertised a meet and we try to get involved. We use the idea, get yourself known and see what happens.