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Why do single men get a bad reputation?

10 August 2021
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Why do single men get a bad reputation?
I guess first I should ask do single men have a bad reputation? If yes why is this?
(What can we do to improve this)
Feel free to rant I am assured by the council of men and all things manly that I can promise full amnesty.
 
19 March 2015
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For lots and lots of reasons.
Dick pics in profiles, avatars etc.
Media full of dick pics.
Lack of creativity.
Non stop bombardment to ladies and couples, seemingly never taking the hint.
Expectant attitudes. Here so therefore they’re entitled.
Fancy a fuck messages.
So many others.

Not all we agree with of course, but these are just a few examples of why some single guys let others down.
 
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? Looks at my avatar....*gulp*...
? Looks at media....*gulp*...
etc etc

Mistakes were made xd
 

MOTM

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Yes is the simple answer some think it’s acceptable to do things on line that you wouldn’t do in real life …
Skippy01 will wade in soon to tell you all you need to know …
 

mrclouse

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hasnt happen here to me atleas but its even to see even as a single man, you can get spammed by other single men with cock pics or asked to suck yours, don't take no for an answer, generally spamming pushy messages.

Also add that to the fact that there are 100 men to every female/couple
 
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I haven't experienced that as of yet at least. Have been browsing them on the media section though so guilty of going looking for them ?
 
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Skippy01

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Because gents are the only gender,in which it seems socially acceptable to publicly bash.If women and couples were called out for their behaviour, as much as men,then their reputation wouldn't be that far behind
Examples:

Men uses a cock pic/wrong!!
Women plasters her vag everywhere/ embracing sexuality
Men uses a pic attached to a woman/ does she know you used her pic
Women uses a pic sucking cock/ wow you look like you're enjoying that
Couple uses a group photo/ You're so lucky.Bet that was fun

Man stands women up for a meet/ his loss,what a prick.He could have atleast let you know.
Woman stands man up/maybe she just wasn't feeling it.It's her right if she doesn't feel comfortable.She doesn't owe him an explanation,if he's done something to put her off.
Couple stands up a meet./commitments came up,they have a life maybe they don't have time to give you a reason.It's wrong to think their life should revolve around you.

Men messages a women to meet for sex in first message/ wrong!!
Women messages men for meet in first message/ she's horny and honest about what she wants.
Couple messages saturday night at 11.30pm "free now?"/ Standard,because life commitments mean they don't have time to plan
Men tells woman she's a fat slag for not replying/ c#$t
Woman calls another woman a bitch for not replying/ why didn't you reply with a no thankyou?
Couple calls you a bitch/ I bet it was the male half.It wasn't.

Man wants a woman who looks after herself/ narcissistic arsehole
Women wants a hunky man/ preferences
Couple want in shape people/ preferences

Man has profile just saying "so and so yr old man looking for anything" / boring and probably a timewaster/player
Woman has "so and so yr old women looking to meet likeminded people"/ doesn't matter what she writes in a profile. She maybe Doesn't want to attract messages.She can explain in messages what she wants.She doesn't have to share with everyone.
Couple has " Just looking to broaden our fun" as profile text/ Taking their time to discover what they want so they can fill in as they go.

These are all scenarios that have been spoken about,over other social sites and are variations of real answers ,given by people and alot of people had the same sort of answers.
But anyway yes some men do shitty things, and get themselves a bad reputation ?
What could be helped in stopping it, is not saying "we".There are people who are entitled pricks,people who are just nasty people.And by calling them all out,and evening the playing field, would make for a better experience for everyone.
But on here you wouldn't find that sort of worst behaviour that some people get that rep for.I'm the nosiest bugger ever ,and I haven't spotted any people who are c##ts.They're back out again as quick as they can say hi ? x
I have a pet hate of group men bashing btw ? x
 

MOTM

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I’m going to give an example from a site/online point of view.

It’s tough for ladies online, if they are genuine and make the jump to join a site then for example this one, on joining they’ve received an email and welcome link saying hello and how the site works.
It’s not a huge message but a brief summary on how to get going.

Now before they’ve even began to look around, check the email, figure out where their profile is and get started, they’ve got Everyman and his dog all over her, jumping on her profile, in messages. She hasn’t even figured out what alerts are. For some and it has happened, they’re asking to be deleted. Guys have to stop thinking with what’s between their legs and think, stop and realise for one second and take a breath.

As every gent knows, we fully support guys but it’s tough when they behave so stupid. Just think to yourself, if you spotted a woman at a bar would you
1 go up to her and say hi, what you up to?
2 drop your trousers and flash your dick at her?
Is it ok to flash it online?

I will say that to women also.
Women behave just as bad but only because they can.
All the guys need to do is remember one thing. Human beings we all are.
 
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I agree too….

But!
The same applies to CPL/SL accounts who have only genitalia as an avatar and in media.

You’re right in what you’re saying but there are caveats (gaps) in this too.
The reason many complaints won’t be made towards ladies or couple accounts with the same attributes - is because men on the whole with sex, are shallow.
Look at recent media for example and the reactions.
There’s nothing wrong with it. But how many men complained? None I tell ya none.
Women? None.

What if a bloke updated a status with his shlong? There’d be no interaction but comments passed on the QT.

So who are the ones doing the complaining really?
It’s not men is it….

Also, would anyone then meet with an account which was only a dick pic and had only dick pics on media?
women? No. No they wouldn’t.

Would anyone meet with an account that was only a pair of boobs and media with only boobs?
Men? Yes. They’d do their best to get in there whether virtual or physical.

It’s the nature of the beast.

Single gent bashing is a no no full stop. They’re cash cows elsewhere. But never here. Used and abused and always dragged over hot coals. Not good enough. X
 
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True. X
 
10 August 2021
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Is there a 3rd option on the bar scenario? I wouldn't even say hi ....xD I'd just exist in silence until a woman/man noticed me xD

Very well summarized though well said
 
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I can only speak for the single gents we have met from here.. They have all been well mannered and polite and very respectful.. We do the odd message from some gents which usually get ignored.. But they are a minority.. As for single females when they join the site it's always the same culprits who are all over their profile.. You see the same people posting comments as soon as they put a pic up.. Think it's something that's probably never going to change.. W.. ?
 
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