It is tough for single ladies to take the plunge and get involved …I’m going to give an example from a site/online point of view.
It’s tough for ladies online, if they are genuine and make the jump to join a site then for example this one, on joining they’ve received an email and welcome link saying hello and how the site works.
It’s not a huge message but a brief summary on how to get going.
Now before they’ve even began to look around, check the email, figure out where their profile is and get started, they’ve got Everyman and his dog all over her, jumping on her profile, in messages. She hasn’t even figured out what alerts are. For some and it has happened, they’re asking to be deleted. Guys have to stop thinking with what’s between their legs and think, stop and realise for one second and take a breath.
As every gent knows, we fully support guys but it’s tough when they behave so stupid. Just think to yourself, if you spotted a woman at a bar would you
1 go up to her and say hi, what you up to?
2 drop your trousers and flash your dick at her?
Is it ok to flash it online?
I will say that to women also.
Women behave just as bad but only because they can.
All the guys need to do is remember one thing. Human beings we all are.
as you know I’ve always left welcome messages,just something quite generic welcoming them to the site bigging up “the best swinging site around “ …. That’s all I do ,if I get a reply I do try to engage them in conversation and try to help if they have any problems..
There have been occasions I’ve chatted with a single women who think having joined because their box hasn’t been instantly filled, that there is no one active on the site and they disappear….
so I guess there is a tightrope to walk as to the best approach…
Other than don’t flop the cock out it not big it’s not clever… be a gentleman