Would never happen and we know what the other is thinking, soul matesYou're right of course but something compels us to look further than what we already have? Is it purely fun? What if you were still having fun but Mr Admin stopped or vice versa?
ExactlyI think the clarification point here is the differentiation between commitment and enjoying fun. The monogamous relationship attitude comes from the belief handed down over the last few thousand years that if you are committed to somebody you must also be exclusive to them.
Very good answer and so true xxThere are two different things going on there, first I wouldn't want to spend my life with anyone else apart from Mr @Admin and second when it comes to this lifestyle it's something else, we are one but then having fun is separate to that, it's just fun, end of, if the fun in this life style ended then it would make no difference to our relationshipxx
Again very true sentiments, xxI think a quick sum up of the situation is easy put into two words. If there is attraction between you or Linda and I you can have all the fun with us you like but Linda and I have the emotions you can't have that. Humans find other humans attractive but we only fall in love with one... or one at a time.
For us, We are totally committed emotionally, sexually, body and soul to each other, and for life too, however, sexual fun with others is just that, we have enormous pleasure with others, and learn lots from the experiences we share, but they will never ever replace our committed relationship with each other , and to be honest, We feel, there has to be a totally secure Base, established before the parameters can be stretched to include others, So yes we feel a committed relationship is essential to a great swinging lifestyle xxxDoes anybody believe we should only be with one partner for life. It is only convention this is we should. I suppose some of you wouldn't be on this website if that were true but why do we seek for fulfilment elsewhere? Does it turn you want to see your partner with somebody else or do you want to seek new horizons regardless of your partner?
Too true xxFor us, We are totally committed emotionally, sexually, body and soul to each other, and for life too, however, sexual fun with others is just that, we have enormous pleasure with others, and learn lots from the experiences we share, but they will never ever replace our committed relationship with each other , and to be honest, We feel, there has to be a totally secure Base, established before the parameters can be stretched to include others, So yes we feel a committed relationship is essential to a great swinging lifestyle xxx
But totally correct xxxI make love with Mr F. Well sometimes its not making loveIt can get a little dirty... but i'm in love with him.
I have sex and and fun... with other people. I am not in love with them. Simples really.
Poles apart.
Your agreeing??? Oh this is not good!! What on earths going on??!!But totally correct xxx
I tbink Tbh, It's like a couples addiction to sex, the need to experience new feelings, and explore new sensations, but with the full security of a loving secure relationship in the background.You're right of course but something compels us to look further than what we already have? Is it purely fun? What if you were still having fun but Mr Admin stopped or vice versa?
Pay back lol xxYour agreeing??? Oh this is not good!! What on earths going on??!!
Well dont agree me no like it...Pay back lol xx
Stop been right then lol xxWell dont agree me no like it..... bad man!! no-one ever agrees with me!! OI
Ive always been right, its only now your realisingStop been right then lol xx
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