I’m still tentatively moving into the bdsm Arena! so I haven’t had enough time, to have a go to piece of equipment, having said that, using my leather belt has been quite fun
Tiger xx
My leather belt got me into trouble. As a Dominant by nature, I used it and had to find and found, my own boundaries. I was sweating like something else and found my own actual psychological limit within our marriage.
You see, D/s is not a game, when you find boundaries that are not familiar, you have to think on the spot and either go with the flow or act instinctively.
I did the latter and backed off.
It would have been intolerable, even though she wanted more with the belt. I have written about this before and it's an amazing insight into how we act as human beings but how we can constrain our own desires too.
That's the difference, IMHO, between Doms and wannabes.