Your favourite...

[Lips_Pearls]

What's your favourite, go-to, bondage piece?
For me, has to be a flogger. Don't want synthetics, I like leather. So a leather flogger for me is my main piece of equipment.
What about you? x

 

[Deleted member 11852]

We don't really use anything.. Not really into bdsm.. We have got some toys for light stuff but very rarely use them.. If anything it's usually the crop or flogger.. Nothing hardcore though.. W...

 

[Lips_Pearls]

crop or flogger.

Nuff said. Dirty buggers ? ? x ?

 

[Tiger]

I’m still tentatively moving into the bdsm Arena! so I haven’t had enough time, to have a go to piece of equipment, having said that, using my leather belt has been quite fun

Tiger xx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I’m still tentatively moving into the bdsm Arena! so I haven’t had enough time, to have a go to piece of equipment, having said that, using my leather belt has been quite fun

Tiger xx

My leather belt got me into trouble. As a Dominant by nature, I used it and had to find and found, my own boundaries. I was sweating like something else and found my own actual psychological limit within our marriage.
You see, D/s is not a game, when you find boundaries that are not familiar, you have to think on the spot and either go with the flow or act instinctively.
I did the latter and backed off.
It would have been intolerable, even though she wanted more with the belt. I have written about this before and it's an amazing insight into how we act as human beings but how we can constrain our own desires too.
That's the difference, IMHO, between Doms and wannabes.

 

[TherLegs]

I'd have to say it's the restraints. We do have a few bits of kit that we may use but the restraints are always used.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I'd have to say it's the restraints. We do have a few bits of kit that we may use but the restraints are always used.

We have got under bed restraints.. We use them quite regular.. With the blindfold there great fun together.. W.. XX????

 

[TherLegs]

We have got under bed restraints.. We use them quite regular.. With the blindfold there great fun together.. W.. XX????

They do work well together, unable to move or see really heightens the sense, kinky but great fun.

 

[AutumnH]

Ooh decisions, decisions!

Hands.
Restraints are nice, but hands that hold my wrists down or give me a good beating on my backside *swoon*

 

[SteveandDebs]

Ooh decisions, decisions!

Hands.
Restraints are nice, but hands that hold my wrists down or give me a good beating on my backside *swoon*

Holding wrists is a great first test with a new 'vanilla' partner. If that gets them going it is definitely time for a talk

 

[Pearls]

Good old fashioned belt

 

[SteveandDebs]

The beauty of a belt is that it is usually with you so no hunting around for a decent implement when a sub needs an instant attitude correction