Ok all I have a small dilemma here, I have had regular playmate in the past who I class as a friend and we keep in touch, we haven't seen each other for about two years now, she married and had children and so on and I got together with my partner so real life has got in the way as it does.
We have arranged to meet up this weekend with our partners consent and she is coming to mine for the evening.
Here is the dilemma, I haven't seen this lady in a few years and even though we have the green light IF anything was to happen then we can but will that spark be there after so much time has passed.
I would hate to be in a situation where we could lose a good friendship by letting sex get in the way.
I have thought about calling it as I don't want to ruin what we have but when we were together years ago we had an amazing time. It has been some time since I have had a play meet so unsure if it is the right move or should I just go with the flow and see what happens. X
We have arranged to meet up this weekend with our partners consent and she is coming to mine for the evening.
Here is the dilemma, I haven't seen this lady in a few years and even though we have the green light IF anything was to happen then we can but will that spark be there after so much time has passed.
I would hate to be in a situation where we could lose a good friendship by letting sex get in the way.
I have thought about calling it as I don't want to ruin what we have but when we were together years ago we had an amazing time. It has been some time since I have had a play meet so unsure if it is the right move or should I just go with the flow and see what happens. X