Would You Invite Someone To Stay Over?

[andymitel]

I find this quite a strange one.... You will often find on general swinging forums a note that says 'we NEVER allow anyone to stay over'.

Perhaps it's just my background... but if I welcomed someone or a few people into my home for the evening, and where it was likely that guests may have a drink or two, I would find it rude not to offer the option for them to stay over - esp if they had travelled a distance. Whether is was for a general social, a game of bridge or something more intimate I would find it merely courteous.

Am I alone in this???:hmm:

 

[Deleted member 120]

In a word? Yes. (and no you're not alone in this)
We do, will continue to do so and have done several times.
Of course, it depends on several factors, no mistaking that, but yes from us..

 

[Deleted member 126]

Yes I do it all the time with people I have met a few times, never had an issue. I do have a big dog though. X

 

[andymitel]

Yes I do it all the time with people I have met a few times, never had an issue. I do have a big dog though. X

Hopefully not one of those that unexpectedly licks your bum during intimate moments... ? But perhaps that's a question for another thread... lol

 

[Deleted member 126]

Hopefully not one of those that unexpectedly licks your bum during intimate moments... ? But perhaps that's a question for another thread... lol

Oh he wouldn't dare, he is a very good guard dog, rip your limbs off but not lick your arse. X

 

[Deleted member 126]

In a word? Yes. (and no you're not alone in this)
We do, will continue to do so and have done several times.
Of course, it depends on several factors, no mistaking that, but yes from us..

Do i bring an over night bag then?

 

[Deleted member 120]

Do i bring an over night bag then?

Of course... why change the habit of a lifetime. x

 

[andymitel]

Do i bring an over night bag then?

I used to travel with an overnight bag, but she left me...

 

[Deleted member 126]

Of course... why change the habit of a lifetime. x

 

[Brumcouple2013]

Yes we have and would again.

 

[No longer with us]

Yes, the regular couple we see have stayed for a long weekend

 

[StokeChoke]

Yes I have and would again. I don't see a problem with it. I also would feel rude not offering

 

[Mrandmrsdkswing]

As long as there is not the chance of one of our 5 kids turning up pull up the duvet and snuggle in lol

 

[Mrandmrsdkswing]

Have to add... there is also nothing like listening to the naughtiness that often happens or being involved in it

 

[Sammy]

As long as there is not the chance of one of our 5 kids turning up pull up the duvet and snuggle in lol

Did you really say 5 kids !!
Wow Mrs
Totally a Yummy Mummy !!

 

[Mrandmrsdkswing]

Did you really say 5 kids !!
Wow Mrs
Totally a Yummy Mummy !!

Ah that sweet of you thanks

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Yes, the regular couple we see have stayed for a long weekend

And of course we are returning this hospitality xxxxx

 

[SexyNix]

We often have people staying, but only if we've met them before and reeealy enjoy their company . It also means things may carry on the following morning .

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Of course, it would be rude not too.
Guests here have the option of a spare bed, if things don't pan out.
I couldnt imagine either playing or not playing.. and saying ok all done at say midnight , thanks seeya theres the door .. preposperous, well for me anyway!

 

[Nigel&Julie]

Yes we would invite people to stay over if they wanted too, we live on our own with a spare room (well 2 spare rooms but 1 is full of junk & crap, must put that on the To Do List) so why not, it is also stated on our profile.

 

[Lovernotfighter]

I'd say nope, but that is entirely because of my current living arrangements don't permit me to do so.

 

[Borderstwo4U]

We do and thoroughly enjoy it.

 

[Pearls]

I'd say nope, but that is entirely because of my current living arrangements don't permit me to do so.

You coming to festival of fun with us all x

 

[UKM45]

I have no problem with people staying over at mine . Had many a lady stay over . If somebody has to travel a fair distance then it's only polite to offer. Takes the rush out if the evening so you all can relax and enjoy yourselves.

 

[peakcouple]

We've had new couples stay over and on a couple of occasions have slept swapped in different beds after the first meet (something we do with friends). We always get back together in the main bed for morning tea and games, that's become something of a tradition after sleepovers.