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Baldrick

Baldrick

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emyr said:
i was born with a heart murmur and suffer from blackouts but i never knew i had it as my lovely mother never decided to tell me i have only known about it since 4yrs ago but i still keep plodding on
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So sorry to hear that. Suffering from blackouts must be horrible. You keep plodding on and keep smiling x.
 
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louise1970

Brumcouple2013 said:
Mr Brum here

My first marriage lasted 14 yrs and during that time I was a victim of domestic violence. Finally found the courage to leave after my 7yr daughter at the time stepped in between us one night and said stop hitting daddy. Took two years of counselling to get over it.
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Well a applaud you sir I suffered in silence like you for 23 yrs but at least like me your got out or you wouldn't be with the lovely Mrs brum xx
 
Baldrick

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louise1970 said:
Hi to you both may I say to share such a personal issues of bipolar takes alot of courage and strength and you have shown this in the thread you have wrote big ((((((hugs)))))) and it goes to show how much B loves you regardless a beautiful blessed couple :love:

I don't tend to share my personal life as I found over time you can love and trust someone with all that you are and get crushed I have too suffered with severe depression anxiety n ocd but when it takes hold its how you deal with it determines your strength to keep surging forward. I am a speaker for survivors of Domestic Abuse course if i can help change one person's life and the cycle they are going through that's makes me happy :love::love:
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Hi Louise thank you for your kind words. Yes you are right he is my rock, there were a few years there where I don't know how Balders put up with me. I'm so lucky he's stayed with me cos I honestly dragged him through hell. We're both thankful that I'm more settled now.

Wow you are obviously a strong woman to go through mental health issues & domestic abuse. It's amazing that you now use your time to help others. Well done.

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louise1970

Baldricknkaz said:
Hi Louise thank you for your kind words. Yes you are right he is my rock, there were a few years there where I don't know how Balders put up with me. I'm so lucky he's stayed with me cos I honestly dragged him through hell. We're both thankful that I'm more settled now.

Wow you are obviously a strong woman to go through mental health issues & domestic abuse. It's amazing that you now use your time to help others. Well done.

K
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Thankyou hunnie but to be with someone that understands whatental health can do to person will do there up most to be there at the crucial times.it's not easy I personally do go through periods of shutting out those I love and that mean the world to me not because I want to but because of feeling a burden x
 
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Brumcouple2013

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louise1970 said:
Well a applaud you sir I suffered in silence like you for 23 yrs but at least like me your got out or you wouldn't be with the lovely Mrs brum xx
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Thank you @louise1970. Leaving wasn't easy, having to leave two young daughters behind. Didn't tell them the truth till they were in their late teens. Which meant they didn't like me for a few years. Still get nervous around women if they get aggressive towards me. Strange I know but in all the years I have never laid a hand on a woman.
 
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emyr said:
yeah they can b scary as dont get any warning but yes i do keep smiling and getting on with daily life
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You need to see your consultant hun.. you really dont need to suffer blackouts... these days, due to heart conditions. Xxx
 
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louise1970

Brumcouple2013 said:
Thank you @louise1970. Leaving wasn't easy, having to leave two young daughters behind. Didn't tell them the truth till they were in their late teens. Which meant they didn't like me for a few years. Still get nervous around women if they get aggressive towards me. Strange I know but in all the years I have never laid a hand on a woman.
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We are very both similar but we are the better ppl for not letting it burden the future yet to have.when kids are involved you are dammed if you do dammed if you don't my three did the same but they know i would give anything to change the past but you can't and it's the here n now that matters and your daughter's will come in round in time just be there xx
 
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louise1970 said:
We are very both similar but we are the better ppl for not letting it burden the future yet to have.when kids are involved you are dammed if you do dammed if you don't my three did the same but they know i would give anything to change the past but you can't and it's the here n now that matters and your daughter's will come in round in time just be there xx
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They have both grown up now and do know the truth. It didn't go down too well at the time but worth the upset as I love them both to bits.
 
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Baldrick

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Tigress said:
Wow. Amazing sharing here and very powerful. I too suffer from depression.

Any other secrets? Loads.
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We agree very powerful stuff being said. Who would've guessed so many members would secretly suffer in silence from depression. I think it's a reflection of the pressures of modern society.
B x
 
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