Approach

[Tigress]

Hi duck..
Of course there are real men around. It's just they don't fit what I want.
I have a few nice trusted regulars.. But again I know that they use this scene to sneak around from other hidden commitments.. That information comes out gradually for reasons I fully understand..
In clubs etc again no one really knows the truth...we choose to believe, we choose to trust.. It does not not mean that we know the real person.. Everyone wears a mask... Puts on a different face..
I choose to accept that this is the case and go on instinct and it saves bucket loads of bullshit..
Social.. Drinks.. Then hotel room or taxi..
Simple and I don't have to look at their snotty kids pics, listen to the breakup shite or browse the wedding album..
Then we see each other again until one of us gets bored.. Usually me due to the fact that I discovered the Bull they are hiding..
I have my own shite to deal with..
I don't need others baggage.
This is escapism.. It's not real.. So I keep it that way..
Having sex with man you think he is usually is better than having sex with the man you know and all his issues..
I am Not a councillor nor am I looking for a friend with emotional attachment.
I see my men socially too.. We text we laugh.. They are part of my life but it's gradual..
Bibabitch and I don't care.
Xx

Sorry, but I disagree. I am always honest with people and have found that they are honest back. And actually, once I really know how a man ticks and what's going on in his life it makes the connection even more special.

 

[Tigress]

Hi duck..
Of course there are real men around. It's just they don't fit what I want.
I have a few nice trusted regulars.. But again I know that they use this scene to sneak around from other hidden commitments.. That information comes out gradually for reasons I fully understand..
In clubs etc again no one really knows the truth...we choose to believe, we choose to trust.. It does not not mean that we know the real person.. Everyone wears a mask... Puts on a different face..
I choose to accept that this is the case and go on instinct and it saves bucket loads of bullshit..
Social.. Drinks.. Then hotel room or taxi..
Simple and I don't have to look at their snotty kids pics, listen to the breakup shite or browse the wedding album..
Then we see each other again until one of us gets bored.. Usually me due to the fact that I discovered the Bull they are hiding..
I have my own shite to deal with..
I don't need others baggage.
This is escapism.. It's not real.. So I keep it that way..
Having sex with man you think he is usually is better than having sex with the man you know and all his issues..
I am Not a councillor nor am I looking for a friend with emotional attachment.
I see my men socially too.. We text we laugh.. They are part of my life but it's gradual..
Bibabitch and I don't care.
Xx

Further to my earlier reply. I do believe that the best sex comes with both a connection of the physical and of the soul.

 

[Deleted member 3657]

I can imagine depending on experiences may determine how we all approach this lifestyle. What works for one doesn't for another. This fence isn't comfy. No splinters yet.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I can imagine depending on experiences may determine how we all approach this lifestyle. What works for one doesn't for another. This fence isn't comfy. No splinters yet.

I agree with you for once

Yeah depends on the person. Their expriences, and their mindset. Guess we all look for different things.
For me i would never dream of jumping into the sac with them.
Unless i had either spoken with them at length.
Or met them socially previously.
But thats just me..
I can see how people can have an instant attraction.. and jump straight in.
Biba is good fun.. shes actually a pretty nice person
The difference being she comes here for sex not freindship.
Whereas you sexy tiger come here for sex but as do 98% percent of the site.. you also come for the social aspect.

Xxx

 

[Deleted member 3657]

I agree with you for once

Yeah depends on the person. Their expriences, and their mindset. Guess we all look for different things.
For me i would never dream of jumping into the sac with them.
Unless i had either spoken with them at length.
Or met them socially previously.
But thats just me..
I can see how people can have an instant attraction.. and jump straight in.
Biba is good fun.. shes actually a pretty nice person
The difference being she comes here for sex not freindship.
Whereas you sexy tiger come here for sex but as do 98% percent of the site.. you also come for the social aspect.

Xxx

There's a first

 

[meet_the_fockers]

There's a first

Give it time baby.

 

[The_Bibas]

Further to my earlier reply. I do believe that the best sex comes with both a connection of the physical and of the soul.

If only a soul was a real thing. But I agree with where you are coming from which is exactly what I said above.. Relationships evolve not before the event but after..
I thought i wrote it clearly enough but I am sorry if I didn't

 

[The-Gent]

:devil::anger: Seems she means business !!!!!

 

[The-Gent]

Why when we swing are we looking in depth of our playmate surly if u have a connection that's what kicks us off anything after that is only further knowledge that we either bother again or give it a miss ?

 

[The_Bibas]

Why when we swing are we looking in depth of our playmate surly if u have a connection that's what kicks us off anything after that is only further knowledge that we either bother again or give it a miss ?

Exfecingactly..

 

[The_Bibas]

Explains it perfectly
XxxBibaxxX

 

[Pearls]

What an amazing tutorial