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Lovernotfighter

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As one year ends and a new begins we tend to make resolutions, which frankly are poo as we keep them for about two days so.

Anyway to the point any one got any aims for 2018 and does anyone want to share what they are?
 
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Mine would be to simply get better. Thats as high as im aiming for this year but it will be the best thing ever. Xxx
 
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Lovernotfighter said:
As one year ends and a new begins we tend to make resolutions, which frankly are poo as we keep them for about two days so.

Anyway to the point any one got any aims for 2018 and does anyone want to share what they are?
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Hello stranger, Merry Christmas to you....

I aim to try to be more patient and take every opportunity I can.... Continue grabbing life with both hands and make as many fun memories as I have in 2017 xx
 
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MP386

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My aim is the same as it’s been to finish the love of my life .... my old Mk2 Escort still isn’t finished .... need a colour to paint the old lady ....
More Trackdays missed Hooning around at silly speeds scaring the bejesus out of myself ....
and as ever to meet one or two or more being greedy lovely lady’s from here ....
2017 has been a good one ... with some special memories to those who have made those memories thank you ...xx
 
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MP386 said:
My aim is the same as it’s been to finish the love of my life .... my old Mk2 Escort still isn’t finished .... need a colour to paint the old lady ....
More Trackdays missed Hooning around at silly speeds scaring the bejesus out of myself ....
and as ever to meet one or two or more being greedy lovely lady’s from here ....
2017 has been a good one ... with some special memories to those who have made those memories thank you ...xx
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Aww :love::love: xx
 
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I haven’t made any New Year’s resolutions. Not because any of that “it’s only another day” nonsense; I notice that those who come up with that never say the same about their birthday and cards...

But I did come up with the following a while back when someone asked me for my wishes for the new year for A Thing.

I extend the same wishes to all of you.

  1. May you do something you’re proud of. Whether it’s something you do in your personal life, your professional life, your creative endeavours, or even something in your family life. Something that when you look in the mirror (to shave, put make-up on, etc), you can think about and not wince.
  2. May you know that some people like you, some people care about you, some people love you… and may you accept that knowledge without it freaking you out.
  3. May your friends know that you like them, you care about them, you love them… and may they accept that knowledge without it freaking them out.
  4. May you learn to take compliments gracefully, and even if you don’t believe them for a heartbeat… may you learn to reply in such a way that doesn’t make the other person feel worthless.
  5. May you understand that sometimes, just sometimes, you’re allowed to upset friends, knowing they’ll forgive you.
  6. May you quickly and honestly forgive your friends who upset you.
  7. May you know that when I say “sometimes, just sometimes“, that’s supposed to be an indication that it’s a rare, limited allowance; you’re not supposed to do it daily.
  8. May you remember that being inexperienced, being ignorant and being naive are three different things; may your response to each be different, and appropriate.
  9. May you be inappropriate; everyone needs to be sometimes.
  10. May you be able to make decisions quickly, and not second guess the hell out of every decision you make, and may you be able to deal with the consequences of those decisions.
  11. May you embrace the unexpected, enjoy the unanticipated, and live a year of wonder and dreams unimagined.
  12. May you have a wonderful 2018.
 
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fincon said:
I haven’t made any New Year’s resolutions. Not because any of that “it’s only another day” nonsense; I notice that those who come up with that never say the same about their birthday and cards...

But I did come up with the following a while back when someone asked me for my wishes for the new year for A Thing.

I extend the same wishes to all of you.

  1. May you do something you’re proud of. Whether it’s something you do in your personal life, your professional life, your creative endeavours, or even something in your family life. Something that when you look in the mirror (to shave, put make-up on, etc), you can think about and not wince.
  2. May you know that some people like you, some people care about you, some people love you… and may you accept that knowledge without it freaking you out.
  3. May your friends know that you like them, you care about them, you love them… and may they accept that knowledge without it freaking them out.
  4. May you learn to take compliments gracefully, and even if you don’t believe them for a heartbeat… may you learn to reply in such a way that doesn’t make the other person feel worthless.
  5. May you understand that sometimes, just sometimes, you’re allowed to upset friends, knowing they’ll forgive you.
  6. May you quickly and honestly forgive your friends who upset you.
  7. May you know that when I say “sometimes, just sometimes“, that’s supposed to be an indication that it’s a rare, limited allowance; you’re not supposed to do it daily.
  8. May you remember that being inexperienced, being ignorant and being naive are three different things; may your response to each be different, and appropriate.
  9. May you be inappropriate; everyone needs to be sometimes.
  10. May you be able to make decisions quickly, and not second guess the hell out of every decision you make, and may you be able to deal with the consequences of those decisions.
  11. May you embrace the unexpected, enjoy the unanticipated, and live a year of wonder and dreams unimagined.
  12. May you have a wonderful 2018.
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.... and the same to you sir :tiphat:
 
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fincon said:
I haven’t made any New Year’s resolutions. Not because any of that “it’s only another day” nonsense; I notice that those who come up with that never say the same about their birthday and cards...

But I did come up with the following a while back when someone asked me for my wishes for the new year for A Thing.

I extend the same wishes to all of you.

  1. May you do something you’re proud of. Whether it’s something you do in your personal life, your professional life, your creative endeavours, or even something in your family life. Something that when you look in the mirror (to shave, put make-up on, etc), you can think about and not wince.
  2. May you know that some people like you, some people care about you, some people love you… and may you accept that knowledge without it freaking you out.
  3. May your friends know that you like them, you care about them, you love them… and may they accept that knowledge without it freaking them out.
  4. May you learn to take compliments gracefully, and even if you don’t believe them for a heartbeat… may you learn to reply in such a way that doesn’t make the other person feel worthless.
  5. May you understand that sometimes, just sometimes, you’re allowed to upset friends, knowing they’ll forgive you.
  6. May you quickly and honestly forgive your friends who upset you.
  7. May you know that when I say “sometimes, just sometimes“, that’s supposed to be an indication that it’s a rare, limited allowance; you’re not supposed to do it daily.
  8. May you remember that being inexperienced, being ignorant and being naive are three different things; may your response to each be different, and appropriate.
  9. May you be inappropriate; everyone needs to be sometimes.
  10. May you be able to make decisions quickly, and not second guess the hell out of every decision you make, and may you be able to deal with the consequences of those decisions.
  11. May you embrace the unexpected, enjoy the unanticipated, and live a year of wonder and dreams unimagined.
  12. May you have a wonderful 2018.
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Love this xx
 
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Widel0ad1919

Lovernotfighter said:
As one year ends and a new begins we tend to make resolutions, which frankly are poo as we keep them for about two days so.

Anyway to the point any one got any aims for 2018 and does anyone want to share what they are?
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I don't really do resolutions... Just sets me up for failure :( But this year i am looking to spend less time working and create free time to do something other than sleep for a nightshift... Also to stop a 20 year habit and yes very unnoriginal at this time of year, but have been bought a vape to get of cigs and from there hopefully stop at least for a while and get some lung capacity back!
 
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No aims. Too many let downs, disappointments and ruined moments (potential and actual) so not going to set myself up for more.
 
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What? You want goals now?.. Please can I be excused I've a note from me mum and everything :cautious::sneaky:

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Vanezza

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meandlis said:
No, no getsy-outsies! There needs to be a full mission assessment done, every six months :D
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:hmm: Ok So my goal so far is to wake up on Jan 1st sometime with little or no memory of the night before...
The way my hangovers are going these days it will take another 2 days to piece together the facts and find everything I lost on the night.. Then maybe I will start to remember it's 2018 sometime in May :rofl:

N xxx
 
Vanezza

Vanezza

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I can't keep resolutions so I just write one every year and that's don't make any resolutions funny it's the only one I keep :rofl:

Vxxx
 
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Widel0ad1919

Vanezza said:
I can't keep resolutions so I just write one every year and that's don't make any resolutions funny it's the only one I keep :rofl:

Vxxx
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You should really just write down what you want to do general goal wise on paper and pin it up somewhere you can see it! Its the only time i have ever accomplished everything i wanted to years ago... Every goal and they were only small but i wouldn't have otherwise i dont think. it works keeping them in your subconcious x
 
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Widel0ad1919 said:
You should really just write down what you want to do general goal wise on paper and pin it up somewhere you can see it! Its the only time i have ever accomplished everything i wanted to years ago... Every goal and they were only small but i wouldn't have otherwise i dont think. it works keeping them in your subconcious x
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Tried a To Do list like that and it didn't work for me because there's always more adding to it than I ever managed to take away, so by the time I got to the fiftieth thing on my list I had to do I still hadn't managed number eight because I had spent that hour keeping my list up to date

:hmm:
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Widel0ad1919

Vanezza said:
Tried a To Do list like that and it didn't work for me because there's always more adding to it than I ever managed to take away, so by the time I got to the fiftieth thing on my list I had to do I still hadn't managed number eight because I had spent that hour keeping my list up to date

:hmm:
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Oh no dont add just basic 3 to 5 things keep it in sight and keep it general
 
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