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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Good evening Sexy Peeps!
Do you find that you sometimes want to be exclusive with someone/another couple?
Are you already exclusive and enjoy what you have?
Is it something you'd like to find but have been unable to do so..
If you are exclusive do you genuinely remain so - truthfully?

For those who are unsure, being exclusive to someone or another couple, means you as a couple or swingle, will remain with the others and not meet/play with anyone else. So you are dedicating yourselves to that person(s) and those only.

:) x
 
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We can't see this happening we do have one couple we meet regularly but one of the reasons we enjoy meeting them so much is the fact that with them we can tell them everything we have been doing with others it's fantastic discussing our fun with each other
 
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Terryg

So you get chatting to someone, you find yourself discussing everything under the sun, your life histories are very similar. You eventually meet and the chemistry is electric, you bounce off each other. You talk about where things can go in the future, things you want to try and discover, things that need real trust between two persons, something your not going to get from a casual meet. So yes maybe exclusive is needed for some at a certain point. But you never know where that dynamic goes in the future, you may want to stretch those boundaries further to include others. Never say Never.
Hope that makes sense. Tx
 
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Therapon

Therapon

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How to answer this ....

As many of you already know I joined the site as a SG and attended a few socials and other meets but really just to get to know others and for them to get to know me. I then started to chat to MSL when she joined and then met her at the first social. We got on well, which surprised most people, and we carried on meeting regularly and we eventually decided to join the site as a couple with a separate account from our mod roles. We spent a lot of time playing exclusively, getting to really know each other, our likes and dislikes and from there it evolved into a dom/sub relationship which we both enjoy.

So I suppose the answer to the question is yes we were exclusive whilst getting to know each other but also no because we have played with others and are hoping to meet others in the future so if anyone is interested let us know, she doesn't bite, ok well maybe a bit

And one final point. If we, or anyone else, were totally exclusive then there would be no point being on the site.
 
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Sammy

Very interesting post

EXclusivity will mean one thing to some and one thing to another

For example I have chatted to couples on site that

Play exclusively with one Gent but swing with couples

Swing exclusively with a couple but will invite on occasion will add a single female or gent for a three some

I have chatted to single guy that play exclusively with a single female .. As singles and wouldn't entertain another single but are happy to explore couples with together or separatedly

Common denominator amongst all was they said the ability to explore and the connection and commonalities only enchanced the experience compared to a single random meet

Each to their own
Different strokes for different folks
Sx
 
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Therapon

Therapon

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Sammy said:
Very interesting post

EXclusivity will mean one thing to some and one thing to another

For example I have chatted to couples on site that

Play exclusively with one Gent but swing with couples

Swing exclusively with a couple but will invite on occasion will add a single female or gent for a three some

I have chatted to single guy that play exclusively with a single female .. As singles and wouldn't entertain another single but are happy to explore couples with together or separatedly

Common denominator amongst all was they said the ability to explore and the connection and commonalities only enchanced the experience compared to a single random meet

Each to their own
Different strokes for different folks
Sx
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Agreed but for this thread exclusivity is defined as ....

Lips_Pearls said:
For those who are unsure, being exclusive to someone or another couple, means you as a couple or swingle, will remain with the others and not meet/play with anyone else. So you are dedicating yourselves to that person(s) and those only.
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which was why I said yes (but only for a short time) and no because we are willing to meet others.
 
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Sammy

Therapon said:
Agreed but for this thread exclusivity is defined as ....



which was why I said yes (but only for a short time) and no because we are willing to meet others.
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Therapon I understood the point that admin was making .... but playing devils advocate as well as questioning the perception of the Word .... as well as always trying to understand the Swinging lifestyle more is why I replied on the way I did

What I will say and with the greatest respect I will say admin asked has anyone been exclusive

"Good evening Sexy Peeps!
Do you find that you sometimes want to be exclusive with someone/another couple?
Are you already exclusive and enjoy what you have?"

Don't you think that saying you don't think there no point being on site is discouraging members to come forward and speak about and share their experiences ..as I said asked with much respect for you as someone who lives the lifestyles you do
Sx
 
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In my honest opinion, i think exclusivity between a single gent and a single female in turn means they're in a relationship.
I've never been exclusive with anyone, but wouldnt rule it out in the future. Totally depends on the dynamics of the situation (if that makes sense) xx
 
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Looby&Lew

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Interesting question for me Lew I think I could be exclusive with another couple whilst it was working for all four involved.
However it would only last for as long as that attraction or novelty lasted I suppose.
For me I enjoy the social company as much as anything it's all about the friendship and fun.
 
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Captain-Smith-and-Lady-Jane

Captain-Smith-and-Lady-Jane

12 January 2016
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To be contentious (and maybe a bit flippant)......
Discussing exclusivity on a swinging site seems rather like asking vegitarians how they like their steak ;)
 
Pearls

MOTM

Pearls

18 July 2015
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I know of a couple here that were exclusive with another couple. It’s down to the individuals and how you feel. Everyone is different. (y)​
 
The-Gent

The-Gent

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Well I guess in a club it wouldnt really exist like an orgy I guess but on meets yes I can see that being a satisfactory situation !
 
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Terryg

Isn't it the fact that we are all different that makes threads like this so interesting? Yes we all need to be honest with ourselves and those we interact with.
I'm sure your getting from my earlier comment that yes I'm exclusive at the moment.. do I feel I should leave? No I don't...SS has opened up so many things to me and will continue to do so.
Tx
 
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