Writing and reading profiles - what's hot and what's not

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4 July 2017
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so I'm thinking of updating the profile

Please tell me what you like to read in a profile

What are you looking for when reading them

What advice would you give to members

What's hot and what's not

Like to read: something positive - say what you want, not what you don't. Keep it short and sweet - writing War&Peace on profile is unnecessary.

And bare in mind: most people just stare at the pretty pics and ignore the words.

:)
 
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Like to read: something positive - say what you want, not what you don't. Keep it short and sweet - writing War&Peace on profile is unnecessary.

And bare in mind: most people just stare at the pretty pics and ignore the words.

:)
If I come across a profile with lots of won't do this, won't do that I can't be bothered to read it let alone make the effort to contact them. It seems to me, and I may be wrong, but unlikely as I'm a woman :whistle:, that they somehow consider themselves better than anyone else. As @DiamondJoe has said say what you're looking for. There is plenty of opportunity to discuss boundaries if you get to the point of playing.
 
Pearls

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The profiles that look like a contract and you feel as if you're in an interview, shouldn't meeting be an equal thing
 
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The profiles that look like a contract and you feel as if you're in an interview, shouldn't meeting be an equal thing
Yeah, the ones that say "I don't do this and I won't do that, I won't meet you if..."

Too much like hard work.
 
Pearls

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Yeah, the ones that say "I don't do this and I won't do that, I won't meet you if..."

Too much like hard work.
Yea and at the bottom you have to quote a particular word in a message to show you've read all of it.. Wtf
 
Pearls

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It was actually a new profile that prodded me to start the post . There also couple who have a list of dos and don't and musts
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Can't be arsed with people who are stuck up their own arse with profiles like this, we wouldn't message them xx
 
Pearls

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Love it
Straight to point exactly
I took one look and thought really ??
There's just no need
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I don't see many here like that but there are a few, I guess they follow the flow from other sites as they think everyone will love them being a couple or single lady no matter what... Stuck up, expectant and think they are somewhat unique.. Nope sorry, on your bike.
Now if you were to argue it and I have many times :whistle: then you will get the same BS, Oh we get inundated by single guys so we have to be straight to the point.... Pass me the violin..
St your filters, block or ignore :D
 
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Yea and at the bottom you have to quote a particular word in a message to show you've read all of it.. Wtf
I replied to one of those :rofl: they still ignored me not even a jog on fat boy :D:D I’m good at this not ....:palm:
 
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Indeed, the uber swinger approach which is War & Peace then you have to add a keyword like; "banana" to make sure you read their info. :rolleyes: :confused:

I like funny info on profiles too, shows you can have humour and a laugh. That's really important too I think. ;)
 
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Indeed, the uber swinger approach which is War & Peace then you have to add a keyword like; "banana" to make sure you read their info. :rolleyes: :confused:

I like funny info on profiles too, shows you can have humour and a laugh. That's really important too I think. ;)
Banana :rofl:
 
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Well, this thread has certainly inspired me to update my profile (y)

I wrote it when I first joined over a year ago so an update is certainly due and thanks to the advice given here I hope it will be an improvement :)


Antogs xx
 
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