Hello Kinky Kids,
A few years ago when I was an active member of the BDSM scene I got quite good at the basic level of Shibari (Japenese rope tying)
I didn't progress to the more complex suspension knots as I kind of fell out with the scene to an extent (hence I ended up here where I feel far happier
).
I think that the main reason I stopped with the Shibari was I simply couldn't find a rope bunny that I found suitable.
I need to feel both a physical attraction (sorry if that's not PC but at least it's the truth and not the Bullshit that a lot of Doms/Riggers/men in general, come out with) and a more difficult to define "connection" with my bunny to feel that it's worth investing the sort of time needed to become even competent at the higher levels.
Don't get me wrong. If I tie you up you will definitely NOT be getting out of it.
Anyway, today as I was reading and watching videos etc. to fuel my thirst for knowledge (NOBODY knows it all and I want to be the best Sensual Dom that I can be
) I came across a short tutorial in rope tying and its role in bondage.
Well, it kind of stirred up some familiar feelings regarding using rope (and particularly the effect it can have on females) so I looked in my "box" and found a 30ft length of horrible dayglo nylon rope that's been in there for years (it was actually a prize given to me at an event I'd attended).
It's never been used so I thought I'd have a go at tying a Double Column Tie just to see if I still had the knack.
I, obviously, couldn't tie my hands together so I went for my ankles instead (I've never tied my own ankles together before
)
Well. the technique came back to me as if it was yesterday.
So, here's the first effort I've made in Shibari for over 5 years
I was quite surprised and pleased
So, what did I do?
I went and ordered 30ft of gorgeous red bondage rope of course.
It's arriving tomorrow and I'm thinking it was a mistake to order it.
I've not got the inclination to dedicate the time to become an expert at it and, more importantly, I'm not prepared to spend another goodness knows how many years searching for a suitable rope bunny.
I suppose it'll end up like the other rope, stuck at the bottom of my box, forgotten by me unless I get a request to tie someone up.
One more thing that's a curious coincidence is that literally a week or two ago I decided to retake the BDSM test as I was curious as to whether my focus had altered in the last 5 years or so.
Well, the result quite surprised me.
Here are the top 3 "interests" I have according to the test (which has to be taken with a pinch of salt of course.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Rigger
87% Exhibitionist
86% Voyeur
I must be honest I absolutely adore my leather restraints and stainless steel chains etc and wouldn't go back to using rope only but I admit there is something sexy and exciting about the occasional use of rope to bind a female.
:devil:
My apologies for the long post and congratulations to anyone that's managed to read through the whole lot.:mwah:
I'm going back to work on my oil painting of a beautiful woman's fabulous backside now :grin:
much love
Antogs xx
A few years ago when I was an active member of the BDSM scene I got quite good at the basic level of Shibari (Japenese rope tying)
I didn't progress to the more complex suspension knots as I kind of fell out with the scene to an extent (hence I ended up here where I feel far happier
).I think that the main reason I stopped with the Shibari was I simply couldn't find a rope bunny that I found suitable.
I need to feel both a physical attraction (sorry if that's not PC but at least it's the truth and not the Bullshit that a lot of Doms/Riggers/men in general, come out with) and a more difficult to define "connection" with my bunny to feel that it's worth investing the sort of time needed to become even competent at the higher levels.
Don't get me wrong. If I tie you up you will definitely NOT be getting out of it.
Anyway, today as I was reading and watching videos etc. to fuel my thirst for knowledge (NOBODY knows it all and I want to be the best Sensual Dom that I can be
) I came across a short tutorial in rope tying and its role in bondage. Well, it kind of stirred up some familiar feelings regarding using rope (and particularly the effect it can have on females) so I looked in my "box" and found a 30ft length of horrible dayglo nylon rope that's been in there for years (it was actually a prize given to me at an event I'd attended
).It's never been used so I thought I'd have a go at tying a Double Column Tie just to see if I still had the knack.
I, obviously, couldn't tie my hands together so I went for my ankles instead (I've never tied my own ankles together before
) Well. the technique came back to me as if it was yesterday.
So, here's the first effort I've made in Shibari for over 5 years
I was quite surprised and pleased
So, what did I do?
I went and ordered 30ft of gorgeous red bondage rope of course.
It's arriving tomorrow and I'm thinking it was a mistake to order it.
I've not got the inclination to dedicate the time to become an expert at it and, more importantly, I'm not prepared to spend another goodness knows how many years searching for a suitable rope bunny.
I suppose it'll end up like the other rope, stuck at the bottom of my box, forgotten by me unless I get a request to tie someone up.
One more thing that's a curious coincidence is that literally a week or two ago I decided to retake the BDSM test as I was curious as to whether my focus had altered in the last 5 years or so.
Well, the result quite surprised me.
Here are the top 3 "interests" I have according to the test (which has to be taken with a pinch of salt of course.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Rigger
87% Exhibitionist
86% Voyeur
I must be honest I absolutely adore my leather restraints and stainless steel chains etc and wouldn't go back to using rope only but I admit there is something sexy and exciting about the occasional use of rope to bind a female.
:devil:My apologies for the long post and congratulations to anyone that's managed to read through the whole lot.:mwah:
I'm going back to work on my oil painting of a beautiful woman's fabulous backside now :grin:
much love
Antogs xx
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