When i was married i was asked to swing by myself as my then wife could not deal with my sex drive as hers had diminished she knew that it was only physical and no emotional relationship was involved. We only had the one rule discretion and I was honest, this was never broken.Now fast forward a few years a lady I used swing with her and her then husband bumped into my ex asked about me then after she had explained about the divorce and things this lady asked for her number to be passed on. This is without my knowledge last time I saw her it was as a goodbye as I felt she had wanted more than I was willing to give as our dalliances were sanctioned her husband all parties were happy at the time including my ex who knew who I was with. My ex is flipping and is going on about I broke the rules. I keep saying I haven't and have said this was wondering if she has a legitimate reason to be shouting at me