It's a question that comes up in any conversation amongst swingers.
Our "journey" started years and years ago.
We met and got involved in a relationship when we were teenagers, and fell madly in love.
We didn't have much money when we moved in together, but found that sex was fun, and free!
After a few years we found that we liked to talk during sex, about how much we enjoyed certain things, about what turned us on...and eventually we talked about, and then tried, various things, fantasies etc.
Eventually, we started fantasising about other people, and this became a big part of sex for us. We found that we didn't get jealous talking about other people, and it got us seriously turned on.
So....the next step...yup, going from talking about it in bed, to talking about it in the cold light of day. We discussed it...…..a lot...…...no, you aint getting it...……..I mean A LOT, months went by, and we chatted about different scenarios, what was hot, and what wasn't... and mostly we talked about us, how we felt about it.
The biggest turn-on was Jayne with another woman, it sent her wild when we talked about it...and I was pretty keen too lol!
Then the day came, when we just said, "lets do it".
We hit the t'interwebby, and eventually found a site, and registered.
We chatted for a while, and then eventually bit the bullet and accepted an invite from a couple to meet.
We booked a hotel, travelled over, and then hit the pub where we were to meet, to say we were nervous is probably the understatement of the decade, but it was an excited kind of nervous.
We knew from camming with them that they were genuine, and we knew what they looked like.
They arrived, and after a couple of drinks, we all seemed to be getting along well. Jayne and I had developed a code to let each other know if we wanted to go further, and it was all systems go.
I asked if they wanted to go to our hotel.
What followed was an entire night of fun of all kinds, we even stopped, got dressed, went for food, came back and got stuck in again lol.
It was a great intro into swinging, and if anything made us want more.... and more!
Since then, (10 years ago) we have tried another 2 sites, and had all sorts of fun, from parties, socials, clubs, events and meets, and have done things that some wait an entire swinging... career(?) to experience. Jayne was a confirmed Bi-bunny from that first kiss she shared with the other lady on our first meet, and is never happier than when she is wrapped around a lady, getting hot and steamy, and me, well, so long as she's happy, I'm happy, we play as a couple, in 3sums, 4sums and moresums, so there's plenty of fun for everyone!
Our "journey" started years and years ago.
We met and got involved in a relationship when we were teenagers, and fell madly in love.
We didn't have much money when we moved in together, but found that sex was fun, and free!
After a few years we found that we liked to talk during sex, about how much we enjoyed certain things, about what turned us on...and eventually we talked about, and then tried, various things, fantasies etc.
Eventually, we started fantasising about other people, and this became a big part of sex for us. We found that we didn't get jealous talking about other people, and it got us seriously turned on.
So....the next step...yup, going from talking about it in bed, to talking about it in the cold light of day. We discussed it...…..a lot...…...no, you aint getting it...……..I mean A LOT, months went by, and we chatted about different scenarios, what was hot, and what wasn't... and mostly we talked about us, how we felt about it.
The biggest turn-on was Jayne with another woman, it sent her wild when we talked about it...and I was pretty keen too lol!
Then the day came, when we just said, "lets do it".
We hit the t'interwebby, and eventually found a site, and registered.
We chatted for a while, and then eventually bit the bullet and accepted an invite from a couple to meet.
We booked a hotel, travelled over, and then hit the pub where we were to meet, to say we were nervous is probably the understatement of the decade, but it was an excited kind of nervous.
We knew from camming with them that they were genuine, and we knew what they looked like.
They arrived, and after a couple of drinks, we all seemed to be getting along well. Jayne and I had developed a code to let each other know if we wanted to go further, and it was all systems go.
I asked if they wanted to go to our hotel.
What followed was an entire night of fun of all kinds, we even stopped, got dressed, went for food, came back and got stuck in again lol.
It was a great intro into swinging, and if anything made us want more.... and more!
Since then, (10 years ago) we have tried another 2 sites, and had all sorts of fun, from parties, socials, clubs, events and meets, and have done things that some wait an entire swinging... career(?) to experience. Jayne was a confirmed Bi-bunny from that first kiss she shared with the other lady on our first meet, and is never happier than when she is wrapped around a lady, getting hot and steamy, and me, well, so long as she's happy, I'm happy, we play as a couple, in 3sums, 4sums and moresums, so there's plenty of fun for everyone!