Quite simple; do you like to have new experiences with new people, or prefer the ‘recognition’ and familiarity with someone you liaise with on a more regular/often basis? X
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Something to be said for both. With new people there is the unknown waiting to be explored. With someone you already know then there is the option to try different things that you might not with new people but also there is the possibility of repeating the same things.
As Therlegs said, there is definitely a bonus to both 
I don’t think I can separate the two, or at least, I can’t say which I prefer.
I like both in very different ways. There’s the joy and fun of ‘discovery’ with someone new, and the delight and immediacy of familiarity. The former gives you the novelty of recognistion that you both like this and get turned on by that, but the latter means that you don’t have to tread carefully, you know what you both like, and know what each other’s eorgenous zones (actual or virtual) are.
So, both. x
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I guess I'm with most people on this and would say that both have their advantages and disadvantages.
I like both situations and find the prospect of meeting like-minded people very exciting whether they be new friends or old.
Antogs xx
I like both situations and find the prospect of meeting like-minded people very exciting whether they be new friends or old.
Antogs xx
MOTM
With the way things go .... repeats don’t always happen.... but when they have they tend to be better as the initial nerves are less obvious...
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I guess both have their own advantages, however i do prefer get togethers with people i regularly liase with (when everyday life dont throw spanners in the work)
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MOTM
Spanner in the worksI guess both have their own advantages, however i do prefer get togethers with people i regularly liase with (when everyday life dont throw spanners in the work)
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We simply love the familiarity but exploring new friendships is always fun too. ??
Well it's going to have to be new faces as everybody here is new to us.
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When we first started on this journey we said we would like to meet up with regular people so that each time you meet you get to know more and more what each other likes.. We did manage this for a while but then real life comes in with a sledgehammer and destroys what you have started.. Most of our regular meets have gone now because of personal family problems.. Then this virus put paid to everything so it looks like we're starting all over again.. Whenever that may be.. We're looking forward to the excitement of starting all over again with new people and hopefully who will go on to become regular meets... W.. 
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When I decided to start this lifestyle I was adamant I wanted to meet to a regular lady or couple. I'm not interested in playing with everyone just a close few. Ideal I would like to meet a single lady develope a friendship and hopefully start swinging as a couple. Might be wishful thinking on my part, but stranger things have happened lol. You are right about about one thing, due to the virus and changing times it will be like starting all over again for many people. But that will also bring new excitement and experiences??
I’d prefer a regular meet but there’s also nothing quite like the thrill of a new face
I suppose it also goes back to the discussion of swinging not dating!
If you’re coming into the lifestyle to find a life partner, then your barking up the wrong tree!
Yes, swinging in my opinion is about making connections & friendships, is it dating? No.
Tiger xx
I suppose it also goes back to the discussion of swinging not dating!
If you’re coming into the lifestyle to find a life partner, then your barking up the wrong tree!
Yes, swinging in my opinion is about making connections & friendships, is it dating? No.
Tiger xx
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Not looking to find a life partner not that naive. But maybe a lady in my situation who would like to swing as a couple. Has been known
But there must be the ability to talk, be friends without going into full on bunny boiler mode! ?