Hi everyone,
I have a question that is directly related to swinging but feel that in order for anyone to answer specifically I have to paint a pretty sexually explicit picture so I apologise in advance for any offence caused and I advise anyone of a particularly sensitive nature to stop reading now,
So......
I was recently enjoying a fine time at a club and had already had some fun when I came across a gorgeous lady that I'd spotted (and admired) earlier in the bar.
We'd had a brief chat and had somehow got onto the subject of spanking/flogging and I'd casually mentioned that it so happened that I had my soft flogger with me. She gave me a sexy smile and said she might just come looking for me later. I was thrilled at the prospect but figured it probably wouldn't happen. I should mention at this point that she was accompanied by her husband who was a very nice chap if a little quiet,
Anyhow, as you will have guessed she did indeed approach me later and pretty much directed me to a room which contained a very nice padded spanking bench. Her husband followed and proceeded to sit on a small chair at the head of the bench.
After a spell of kissing and general feeling each other up she took off her dress, bra and panties and leaned over the bench wearing only her high heels.
It was truly a magnificent sight.
I proceeded to flog her, very gently at first, gradually building up the intensity until her skin was tingling (evidenced by goose pimples and dampness along with the slight reddening as her blood was being brought to the surface and the nerve endings were reacting to each stroke)
She was now moaning with pleasure and opened her legs wider as she asked me to gently use the flogger on her pussy.
Anyone who knows how to intensify the pleasure and build a connection whilst flogging knows that it's important to caress and reassure between a number of strokes which I did.
As the scene built her husband became involved as she sucked his cock.
By now my flogger strokes were becoming fewer and my caresses and "probings" were becoming more intense. I was spreading her cheeks, I was licking her asshole and pussy, I was fingering her and she was reacting, moaning wildly and thrusting herself onto my fingers and mouth.
Of course, by this time was cock was rock hard and all I wanted to do was put it inside her.
I felt 100% that she wanted me to do that too.
She was soaking wet and, as I've said, moaning loudly and pushing hard against me.
BUT.....and here it is folks...at last.....the question.....
Should I ask?
I didn't ask if I could finger her
I didn't ask if I could lick her ass
I didn't ask if I could lick her pussy
and yet when it came to fucking her I didn't know whether I would be taking liberties. And yet it didn't feel right to all of a sudden ask her, or her husband, or both whether it was acceptable for me to stick my cock inside her.
So I ended up not doing it and although a fabulous time was had by all I am left wondering what could have been. I've even wondered if she wondered why I didn't.
If someone asked me this question I would just say you have to judge each situation on its merit and you'll know at the time if it's right or not. But I'd be wrong as I know for sure it would have been right I simply didn't know the etiquette of the situation regarding whether there is a need to ask in these circumstances.
There's more to tell about that night's events but that's for another time
Antogs xx
I have a question that is directly related to swinging but feel that in order for anyone to answer specifically I have to paint a pretty sexually explicit picture so I apologise in advance for any offence caused and I advise anyone of a particularly sensitive nature to stop reading now,
So......
I was recently enjoying a fine time at a club and had already had some fun when I came across a gorgeous lady that I'd spotted (and admired) earlier in the bar.
We'd had a brief chat and had somehow got onto the subject of spanking/flogging and I'd casually mentioned that it so happened that I had my soft flogger with me. She gave me a sexy smile and said she might just come looking for me later. I was thrilled at the prospect but figured it probably wouldn't happen. I should mention at this point that she was accompanied by her husband who was a very nice chap if a little quiet,
Anyhow, as you will have guessed she did indeed approach me later and pretty much directed me to a room which contained a very nice padded spanking bench. Her husband followed and proceeded to sit on a small chair at the head of the bench.
After a spell of kissing and general feeling each other up she took off her dress, bra and panties and leaned over the bench wearing only her high heels.
It was truly a magnificent sight.
I proceeded to flog her, very gently at first, gradually building up the intensity until her skin was tingling (evidenced by goose pimples and dampness along with the slight reddening as her blood was being brought to the surface and the nerve endings were reacting to each stroke)
She was now moaning with pleasure and opened her legs wider as she asked me to gently use the flogger on her pussy.
Anyone who knows how to intensify the pleasure and build a connection whilst flogging knows that it's important to caress and reassure between a number of strokes which I did.
As the scene built her husband became involved as she sucked his cock.
By now my flogger strokes were becoming fewer and my caresses and "probings" were becoming more intense. I was spreading her cheeks, I was licking her asshole and pussy, I was fingering her and she was reacting, moaning wildly and thrusting herself onto my fingers and mouth.
Of course, by this time was cock was rock hard and all I wanted to do was put it inside her.
I felt 100% that she wanted me to do that too.
She was soaking wet and, as I've said, moaning loudly and pushing hard against me.
BUT.....and here it is folks...at last.....the question.....
Should I ask?
I didn't ask if I could finger her
I didn't ask if I could lick her ass
I didn't ask if I could lick her pussy
and yet when it came to fucking her I didn't know whether I would be taking liberties. And yet it didn't feel right to all of a sudden ask her, or her husband, or both whether it was acceptable for me to stick my cock inside her.
So I ended up not doing it and although a fabulous time was had by all I am left wondering what could have been. I've even wondered if she wondered why I didn't.
If someone asked me this question I would just say you have to judge each situation on its merit and you'll know at the time if it's right or not. But I'd be wrong as I know for sure it would have been right I simply didn't know the etiquette of the situation regarding whether there is a need to ask in these circumstances.
There's more to tell about that night's events but that's for another time
Antogs xx