Secrets...

[Deleted member 120]

In this lifestyle, do you keep any/may.. Delete as applicable?

We don't mean from family, we mean from swinging friends etc. Do you hide many things? Some don't, some do.
What say ye? x

 

[Deleted member 6485]

...can't say here...it's a secret!
(But i'll whisper it in your box tomorrow)xx

 

[Deleted member 120]

...can't say here...it's a secret!
(But i'll whisper it in your box tomorrow)xx

Your inbox is always full, contradictory to popular belief.... x

Not sure there's that many, is there? x

 

[fincon]

In this lifestyle, do you keep any/may.. Delete as applicable?

We don't mean from family, we mean from swinging friends etc. Do you hide many things? Some don't, some do.
What say ye? x

Yes, no, sometimes.

Honestly, it’s yes/no/sometimes.

On a one-to-one basis, I’ll answer pretty much anything that anyone asks of me. I’m more reticent in public (where anyone and everyone could see.) Partly that’s because no matter how well I get on with folks in general, you don’t actually know me, and I don’t actually know any of you. And while I actively try not to mislead (even mislead by omission) there’s stuff I keep private, and don’t talk about.

I think everyone does; the only questions are what, and how much? And what’s important to one person is trivial to another, and vice versa. Everyone has the right to disclose - or not - subject to the caveat of actively misleading others. That’s just shitty.

 

[fincon]

Yes, no, sometimes.

Honestly, it’s yes/no/sometimes.

On a one-to-one basis, I’ll answer pretty much anything that anyone asks of me. I’m more reticent in public (where anyone and everyone could see.) Partly that’s because no matter how well I get on with folks in general, you don’t actually know me, and I don’t actually know any of you. And while I actively try not to mislead (even mislead by omission) there’s stuff I keep private, and don’t talk about.

I think everyone does; the only questions are what, and how much? And what’s important to one person is trivial to another, and vice versa. Everyone has the right to disclose - or not - subject to the caveat of actively misleading others. That’s just shitty.

Thinking further on this, I think there’s also a qualitative difference between responding accurately and honestly when asked, on the one hand, and volunteering information unasked, on the other.