Do you have them for meets?
The reason I ask is, I met a couple once through friends socially for a few drinks, it was a lovely evening and they understood my boundaries and I them. We mutually agreed to meet again and before we could work around dates they handed me a brown envelope.. They asked I read it thoroughly before signing it..
It had 5 A4 pages of rules and conditions even down to dress code and colour of underwear.
Now in the BDSM scene contracts are used which I have used myself but that comes down to a whole new spectrum of things and in cases are invaluable.
So is this needed in the swinging scene?
Do you use them or have you been given one?
Just to clarify, I didn’t sign the contract on that occasion and never saw them again.
The reason I ask is, I met a couple once through friends socially for a few drinks, it was a lovely evening and they understood my boundaries and I them. We mutually agreed to meet again and before we could work around dates they handed me a brown envelope.. They asked I read it thoroughly before signing it..
It had 5 A4 pages of rules and conditions even down to dress code and colour of underwear.
Now in the BDSM scene contracts are used which I have used myself but that comes down to a whole new spectrum of things and in cases are invaluable.
So is this needed in the swinging scene?
Do you use them or have you been given one?
Just to clarify, I didn’t sign the contract on that occasion and never saw them again.