The Lead-up To Your Liaison.

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19 March 2015
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So... your (ugh..) 'meet' or as is preferred by moi; liaison is around the corner. This is it. You're ready, you've prepared, you've done what you feel needs to be done..
But what is the leading week like for you?
Are you excited, nervous, scared, prepared? Are you one to analyse and list things? Got what you need to get in to make it a good one?
What about your messages to one-another, as in both/all parties? Are you now upping the ante and messaging more... or are you laying back a bit, maybe playing a little harder to get and see what the other person(s) are being like?

What happens in your worlds, in the week lead-up to your liaison?
You know you want to share ;) :D x
 
19 March 2015
23,755
64,897
So... your (ugh..) 'meet' or as is preferred by moi; liaison is around the corner. This is it. You're ready, you've prepared, you've done what you feel needs to be done..
But what is the leading week like for you?
Are you excited, nervous, scared, prepared? Are you one to analyse and list things? Got what you need to get in to make it a good one?
What about your messages to one-another, as in both/all parties? Are you now upping the ante and messaging more... or are you laying back a bit, maybe playing a little harder to get and see what the other person(s) are being like?

What happens in your worlds, in the week lead-up to your liaison?
You know you want to share ;) :D x
Okay so for us, we literally start the pampering process about 4-5 days before hand. Hair cut, HRH pops to the salon.. nails polished and gets herself well and truly pampered with face masks and so on.
A couple of days to a day before hand is making sure everything is ready, at hand and we’re well stocked with essentials such as scented oils, candles, massage oils.. plus we always buy a gift or special wines for said person.
We do get nervous, and we do have the odd wobble about things but we try to not dwell on them.
In our experience the messages generally start heating up, the week before hand. You can often pick up if something is not right based on this. So if someone goes quiet in that week leading up to the day, there’s a strong possibility something may be wrong.
But mostly they heat up.
Finally is the day and we set the scene. Get everything clean and tidy here, shower & shave then welcome our guest with open arms.
The week leading up to it for us, is quite a ritual and good fun.
The day’s afterwards are always a constant reminder that every bit of effort (which is always 100% no less) is well worth it. :) x
 
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Very organised/prepared, totally worth it as it seems that it really makes the whole meet/liaison go well. A good read too
x
 
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19 March 2015
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Very organised/prepared, totally worth it as it seems that it really makes the whole meet/liaison go well. A good read too
x
Yes totally agree. I think with effort comes reward (when in this situation) and the more effort you give and put in, the more everyone gets out of it. Whether pruning or getting the home ready (if at home of course). x
 
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This varies so much for me, depending on who it's with, and whether they are a regular playmate or someone new.
I am ALWAYS clean, shaved, groomed etc, but only certain people get the special undies and best perfume...
Fewer still get to share my ice cream!
 
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This varies so much for me, depending on who it's with, and whether they are a regular playmate or someone new.
I am ALWAYS clean, shaved, groomed etc, but only certain people get the special undies and best perfume...
Fewer still get to share my ice cream!
Mmmmm what flavour ??
 
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