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The Lead-up To Your Liaison.

Discussion in 'All About Swinging' started by Lips_Pearls, 19 May 2019.

  1. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    So... your (ugh..) 'meet' or as is preferred by moi; liaison is around the corner. This is it. You're ready, you've prepared, you've done what you feel needs to be done..
    But what is the leading week like for you?
    Are you excited, nervous, scared, prepared? Are you one to analyse and list things? Got what you need to get in to make it a good one?
    What about your messages to one-another, as in both/all parties? Are you now upping the ante and messaging more... or are you laying back a bit, maybe playing a little harder to get and see what the other person(s) are being like?

    What happens in your worlds, in the week lead-up to your liaison?
    You know you want to share ;) :D x
     
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  2. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Okay so for us, we literally start the pampering process about 4-5 days before hand. Hair cut, HRH pops to the salon.. nails polished and gets herself well and truly pampered with face masks and so on.
    A couple of days to a day before hand is making sure everything is ready, at hand and we’re well stocked with essentials such as scented oils, candles, massage oils.. plus we always buy a gift or special wines for said person.
    We do get nervous, and we do have the odd wobble about things but we try to not dwell on them.
    In our experience the messages generally start heating up, the week before hand. You can often pick up if something is not right based on this. So if someone goes quiet in that week leading up to the day, there’s a strong possibility something may be wrong.
    But mostly they heat up.
    Finally is the day and we set the scene. Get everything clean and tidy here, shower & shave then welcome our guest with open arms.
    The week leading up to it for us, is quite a ritual and good fun.
    The day’s afterwards are always a constant reminder that every bit of effort (which is always 100% no less) is well worth it. :) x
     
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  3. WolfieGray

    WolfieGray PV Sprtr

    Very organised/prepared, totally worth it as it seems that it really makes the whole meet/liaison go well. A good read too
    x
     
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  4. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Yes totally agree. I think with effort comes reward (when in this situation) and the more effort you give and put in, the more everyone gets out of it. Whether pruning or getting the home ready (if at home of course). x
     
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  5. Clover

    Clover Sprtr

    This varies so much for me, depending on who it's with, and whether they are a regular playmate or someone new.
    I am ALWAYS clean, shaved, groomed etc, but only certain people get the special undies and best perfume...
    Fewer still get to share my ice cream!
     
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  6. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Well yes! That is the ultimate sharing item only! ;) x
     
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  7. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Mmmmm what flavour ??
     
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  8. Clover

    Clover Sprtr

    Hazelnut with chocolate sauce.
     
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  9. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Oooooooooooooohhhhh

    And the scent ?
     
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  10. Clover

    Clover Sprtr

    Neroli Portofino Aqua, by Tom Ford.
     
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  11. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Eau de toilette or parfum ? X
     
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  12. Clover

    Clover Sprtr

    Parfum
     
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  13. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    A lady with good taste clearly x
     
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  14. Clover

    Clover Sprtr

    I like to think so... ;)
     
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