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TherLegs

MOTM

11 December 2016
3,666
9,273
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
 
8 July 2018
5,053
13,024
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
Yes, I’ve been known to do a few of them :whistle:
:tiphat:
Tiger xx
 

Vanezza

Stud Muffin
11 May 2017
11,328
37,235
51
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
I'm 1 5 8 9 10
V Is 3 5 8 9 and wants to do 10 but every time we try it's pissing it down outside ?️ ?

N xxx
 
10 July 2018
1,289
3,775
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
Dunno if I’d call any of my enjoyment of any of them a fetish…

But yeah, 5 out of 10 are things I actively enjoy, a couple I don’t object to (for me + other, obviously; don’t object to anyone else doing them) and a couple, naah, very much not for me.

That leaves a single number where I go back and forth on it.

And that’s all yer getting. Heh.
 

Vanezza

Stud Muffin
11 May 2017
11,328
37,235
51
Dunno if I’d call any of my enjoyment of any of them a fetish…

But yeah, 5 out of 10 are things I actively enjoy, a couple I don’t object to (for me + other, obviously; don’t object to anyone else doing them) and a couple, naah, very much not for me.

That leaves a single number where I go back and forth on it.

And that’s all yer getting. Heh.
You are right of course. I don't think I have a fetish aside from my porn addiction. This might be viewed by some as a fetish but it is just something I picked up at a young age and the rest of the story should be told in private, nothing nasty, just me being a perv far too early ??

N xxx
 

mrclouse

I am Batman ?
28 March 2016
3,906
10,179
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
2,3,4,5,9 i would say 10 but not in this country >.>
 
13 August 2015
675
2,983
City
Liverpool
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
Ooh, it's an interesting one. BDSM and spanking are in my top 5 - but choking and hairpulling appears nowhere on that list. I'm shocked. XD
 
9 September 2019
46
398
City
Cardiff
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
I've done plenty of 1 - filming sex in the past but not much in recent years.....I'd rather be having fun than worrying about camera angles and tripods etc. Everything is fun until your partner gets the fear and wants it all deleted or worries that I might accidentally post everything on social media by pushing a wrong button. I've never been into BDSM but I've met and spent good times with people who are....the only pain I can handle is being Vanilla about it all ha ha. I've enjoyed a bit of 8 - Watersports on a few rare occassions, with the right partner and situation but probably my favourite is 10 - Outdoor Sex... weather permitting of course. I tend to shy away from exhibitionism unless whoever I'm with really wants to..but....I do love good outdoor sex....anywhere in the woods or fields or along the coast somewhere beautiful in the hot sun or at night if the evening air is warm. I'd rather be outside whenever possible. I've had some fantastic times over the years and I find it a real turn on. But you do need to be clever about it as there's always some walker that turns up at a critical moment.
 
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Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
Tried a couple of them. Watersports is definitely a big no. Never thought about cross dressing. I suppose if with the right person and situation I might be tempted. I would consider most of the others that I haven't tried.
 

Vanezza

Stud Muffin
11 May 2017
11,328
37,235
51
Have sex on a rainy summer's day outside. It won't be too cold that way, and that way it doesn't matter what the weather's doing :p
I once had sex on some steps next to a football field during a thunderstorm. I'm too old for that sort of thing now. V is too sensitive and I couldn't put up with the freezing wind and rain blowing up the crack of my arse! ??

N xxx
 
TherLegs

MOTM

11 December 2016
3,666
9,273
Dunno if I’d call any of my enjoyment of any of them a fetish…

I agree with this, one persons fetish is another persons normal. A fetish is simply one persons view of the world.

Ooh, it's an interesting one. BDSM and spanking are in my top 5 - but choking and hairpulling appears nowhere on that list. I'm shocked. XD
I thought edge play and voyeurism might have been included but the article I read didn't say how the list was compiled or the ratio of male/female input.
 
31 October 2020
637
1,746
I once had sex on some steps next to a football field during a thunderstorm. I'm too old for that sort of thing now. V is too sensitive and I couldn't put up with the freezing wind and rain blowing up the crack of my arse! ??

N xxx

It is ? but I'm getting too old for that sort of thing now, I prefer a nice warm house to shag in these days ?

N xxx
I would rather bang in a nice warm house too wouldn't catch me outside but it would be nice to have a cheeky shag outside for old times sake ??
 
10 July 2018
1,289
3,775
I agree with this, one persons fetish is another persons normal. A fetish is simply one persons view of the world.
Oh, I’m sure that if I thought about it, I’d find something that so turns me on, that is definitely something that I actively look for, that I desire… but nothing in that list springs to mind.

I mean, I intensely dislike the term sapiosexual but I kind of get what it implies. My fetish - if I have one - i suspect would be identified by others and wouldn’t surprise anyone who knows me in the scene: intelligence, humour and someone who loves words and imagination.

Again, hardly a shock to anyone who knows me
 
28 January 2021
26
124
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
7 xxx.
 
livvye123

MOTM

12 April 2021
269
1,446
City
Maidstone
I've done plenty of 1 - filming sex in the past but not much in recent years.....I'd rather be having fun than worrying about camera angles and tripods etc. Everything is fun until your partner gets the fear and wants it all deleted or worries that I might accidentally post everything on social media by pushing a wrong button. I've never been into BDSM but I've met and spent good times with people who are....the only pain I can handle is being Vanilla about it all ha ha. I've enjoyed a bit of 8 - Watersports on a few rare occassions, with the right partner and situation but probably my favourite is 10 - Outdoor Sex... weather permitting of course. I tend to shy away from exhibitionism unless whoever I'm with really wants to..but....I do love good outdoor sex....anywhere in the woods or fields or along the coast somewhere beautiful in the hot sun or at night if the evening air is warm. I'd rather be outside whenever possible. I've had some fantastic times over the years and I find it a real turn on. But you do need to be clever about it as there's always some walker that turns up at a critical moment.
I agree - Once I lose the shyness I am quite the exhibitionist so 1 and 10 for me! I agree outdoors is fabulous, and I am sure a walker can turn a blind eye.... 2 and 3 are also there although I am not into spanking. Haven't done 9 ... that's why I am here.... I wouldn't say any of these are fetishes though?
 

Vanezza

Stud Muffin
11 May 2017
11,328
37,235
51
I agree - Once I lose the shyness I am quite the exhibitionist so 1 and 10 for me! I agree outdoors is fabulous, and I am sure a walker can turn a blind eye.... 2 and 3 are also there although I am not into spanking. Haven't done 9 ... that's why I am here.... I wouldn't say any of these are fetishes though?
Fetish is defined as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc." so I agree with you Liv. None of these are strictly fetishes but on the other hand, we do understand what the term means to each of us. For instance, we like watersports but would never expect anyone else to play with us that way as it isn't a necessity to get us off and I'm a bisexual man but I would never try it on with another man unless he was interested. By the definition, they are not fetishes.

N xxx
 
TherLegs

MOTM

11 December 2016
3,666
9,273
Fetish is defined as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc." so I agree with you Liv. None of these are strictly fetishes but on the other hand, we do understand what the term means to each of us. For instance, we like watersports but would never expect anyone else to play with us that way as it isn't a necessity to get us off and I'm a bisexual man but I would never try it on with another man unless he was interested. By the definition, they are not fetishes.

N xxx
That's one definition however I think this one is more suited to you Vanezza


An activity or object that you are so interested in that you spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about it or doing it.