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livvye123

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livvye123

12 April 2021
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Vanezza said:
Fetish is defined as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc." so I agree with you Liv. None of these are strictly fetishes but on the other hand, we do understand what the term means to each of us. For instance, we like watersports but would never expect anyone else to play with us that way as it isn't a necessity to get us off and I'm a bisexual man but I would never try it on with another man unless he was interested. By the definition, they are not fetishes.

N xxx
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I agree. I just think the word fetish often has negative connotations which really annoys me :)
 
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livvye123

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livvye123

12 April 2021
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Vanezza said:
Fetish is defined as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc." so I agree with you Liv. None of these are strictly fetishes but on the other hand, we do understand what the term means to each of us. For instance, we like watersports but would never expect anyone else to play with us that way as it isn't a necessity to get us off and I'm a bisexual man but I would never try it on with another man unless he was interested. By the definition, they are not fetishes.

N xxx
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I agree. I just think the word fetish often has negative connotations which really annoys me :)
 
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SteveandDebs

SteveandDebs

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I wouldn't say any are a fetish as such as we can have a good time without any of them but there are a couple we don't do:

Rubber, Debs is allergic to latex, leather on the other hand, phwoar!

Foot worship

Crossdressing, not for us but we quite like to see others. (not really sure if that means we are into it or not)

Other that those, Game On!
 
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Guru G

Guru G

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TherLegs said:
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
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Yes
 
Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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TherLegs said:
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
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1, Yes. Bloody hell got some crackers here!
2, 100%
3, Only her and any friends. Matching lingerie is always nice. One plays cook, the other bottle washer. Always interesting...
4, Leather. Not keen on latex, but yes to leather.
5, Mmmmm
6, I absolutely LOVE foot worship. I get too horny with that.. Unless she's got fluff in her toes ?
7, Nope. But no issue to those who do.
8, Nope. See above. Okay.. well... erm.... uhu.. Next
9, Of course.
10, Absolutely! Best time was having sex on the beach, in the dark, me on the seat of my bike and HRH sat on the tank - her back down on it.
The fishermen were watching us from the inshore. Wicked that was.

I think I'd like to extend more filming, but that would be heavily mood dependant.
Completely need more rope...

I think I personally would love to expand on Tantric sex.
I love it as you know, and I think it can be achieved to a higher state between 3 people too, just have to make sure that all 3 are on the same wavelength about it.

Good thread! ?
 
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TherLegs

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TherLegs

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Lips_Pearls said:
1, Yes. Bloody hell got some crackers here!
2, 100%
3, Only her and any friends. Matching lingerie is always nice. One plays cook, the other bottle washer. Always interesting...
4, Leather. Not keen on latex, but yes to leather.
5, Mmmmm
6, I absolutely LOVE foot worship. I get too horny with that.. Unless she's got fluff in her toes ?
7, Nope. But no issue to those who do.
8, Nope. See above. Okay.. well... erm.... uhu.. Next
9, Of course.
10, Absolutely! Best time was having sex on the beach, in the dark, me on the seat of my bike and HRH sat on the tank - her back down on it.
The fishermen were watching us from the inshore. Wicked that was.

I think I'd like to extend more filming, but that would be heavily mood dependant.
Completely need more rope...

I think I personally would love to expand on Tantric sex.
I love it as you know, and I think it can be achieved to a higher state between 3 people too, just have to make sure that all 3 are on the same wavelength about it.

Good thread! ?
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Ah yes, fluff or sticky labels :rofl:
 
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Tempted70

Tempted70

28 December 2021
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TherLegs said:
Just been reading that the following are the top 10 UK fetishes.

1. Filming sex
2. BDSM
3. Role Play
4. Rubber, Latex and Leather
5. Spanking
6. Foot Worship
7. Cross Dressing
8. Watersports
9. Swinging
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex

Do you actually do any of these, are there some you haven't done but would like to try?
We, as some of you know love BDSM, obviously we have done swinging. We also have plenty of outdoor photo's and a few videos and we have tried role play and spanking.
We wouldn't agree with the order of the list but all our favourite stuff is in the top 10.
Over to you ....
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Of all the things on the list the only 2 things I've not done are 4 and 7 (although I have played with a few). All the rest I enjoy when I can with someone which hasn't been very often over the past 6 years. The most conflicting one of these is 10 because I've become comfortable showing off my body and taking photos outdoors as well as indoors. However I'm shy around people at first which means I struggle to make the first move and know I've missed opportunities by not speaking up :(
 
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TherLegs

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TherLegs

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Tempted70 said:
Of all the things on the list the only 2 things I've not done are 4 and 7 (although I have played with a few). All the rest I enjoy when I can with someone which hasn't been very often over the past 6 years. The most conflicting one of these is 10 because I've become comfortable showing off my body and taking photos outdoors as well as indoors. However I'm shy around people at first which means I struggle to make the first move and know I've missed opportunities by not speaking up :(
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We enjoy our outdoor fun, I can often be found naked and hanging from tree branches and we have a few photo's and videos :D
Rubber and latex, although it can look fantastic isn't for me, I really don't like the feel of them.
 
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Tempted70

Tempted70

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TherLegs said:
We enjoy our outdoor fun, I can often be found naked and hanging from tree branches and we have a few photo's and videos :D
Rubber and latex, although it can look fantastic isn't for me, I really don't like the feel of them.
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I'll be adding photos that I've taken over the past 2 years as time goes on. I've found a few areas I can get some good pics but never anyone with me to make them more interesting :(
I've nothing against rubber and latex although I'm not sure how I'd look in them and never actually had the opportunity to go anywhere they might be suitable.
 
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TherLegs

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Tempted70 said:
I'll be adding photos that I've taken over the past 2 years as time goes on. I've found a few areas I can get some good pics but never anyone with me to make them more interesting :(
I've nothing against rubber and latex although I'm not sure how I'd look in them and never actually had the opportunity to go anywhere they might be suitable.
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Finding somewhere outdoors can be difficult but around here there are plenty of forests and moors that the tourists don't often visit but we still travel around looking for new areas. As for finding someone to make things more interesting it may take time but keep chatting in the forums and you may have a happy 2022.
 
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Antogs

Antogs

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Ok, here we go...

1. Filming sex - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
2. BDSM - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
3. Role Play - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
4. Rubber, Latex, and Leather - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
5. Spanking - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
6. Foot Worship - Not for me but would be happy to participate if that's what would turn the woman on
7. Cross Dressing - Not for me but would be happy to participate if that's what would turn the woman on
8. Watersports - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
9. Swinging - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!
10. Exhibitionist/Outdoor sex - ABSOLUTELY YES !!!

A pretty good list :sneaky:

Basically, I'll do anything to give my partner pleasure.
Nothing turns me on more than my partner(s) being turned on (y)
 
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Ymichael14

Ymichael14

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1. Yes. Didn't realize it was a fetish. Thought it was normal.
2. Never really tried it. If i ever find a woman that is into it, i would try it.
3. Not into it.
4. Not into it.
5.yes.
6.not into it.
7. Not into it.
8. Never tried it, but would like to.
9. Never tried it, but would like to. I have gotten close. But i dont think it counts. I knew two women, dated both casually. Neither one cared if i slept with anyone else so they let me have sex with one, then go over to the other one's place and have sex with her. One didn't want to be second and the other wanted to be second so it worked out perfect.
10. Again, not sure if it counts but i have had sex outdoors and didn't care if anybody saw us,but i dont think anybody did.
 
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Vanezza

Vanezza

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I'm pretty certain I replied to this thread before but personally, I have no 'fetish' I just love all of sex.
If a partner likes being tied up and spanked I will do that for them. It has a little thrill for me too it but not as much as just the sex itself.

I do have a thing for pee games but that needs to be with the right partner or partners that also enjoy it, it isn't something I want or need all the time.

Really, my only 'fetish' is to enjoy other people enjoying sex. That is probably why I'm addicted to old porn 😂

N xxx
 
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