The meaning of swinging

[Pearls]

Stupid question you ask but do you fully understand what swinging is about?
If not then here is the place to ask questions, discuss your views and maybe learn something you didn’t know.
Years ago it was very black and white and also very underground but with the joys of modern technology and new generations of people, is it still the fun with no ties or complications that it used to be?
What are your thoughts on what swinging is all about?

 

[NotSoFireproof]

Oooh, good question! Great thread Pearls!

For me, swinging is about being around like minded people and being welcomed - I don't think it's just about the sex anymore, how can it be, when a whole community has developed out of a desire to be open?

 

[Pearls]

Oooh, good question! Great thread Pearls!

For me, swinging is about being around like minded people and being welcomed - I don't think it's just about the sex anymore, how can it be, when a whole community has developed out of a desire to be open?

Thanks ?I thought with covid and being locked down for what seems eternity, people would be looking for new things, life is short and if something people have realised is grab every opportunity and if that means sexually then here’s the place to start and ask questions, google can’t help with everything. I’m sure there are many with questions ?

 

[NotSoFireproof]

What is swinging to you, Pearls?

 

[Pearls]

What is swinging to you, Pearls?

You don’t want my reply, it rude

 

[NotSoFireproof]

You don’t want my reply, it rude

Spill, spill! ?

 

[Pearls]

Spill, spill! ?

I’ll show you some time ? words just don’t explain it ?

 

[NotSoFireproof]

I’ll show you some time ? words just don’t explain it ?

Ooft, woman, don't tease me ??

 

[Pearls]

Ooft, woman, don't tease me ??

Would I. ??

 

[Pearls]

Ok I give, swinging means
First and most important, fun. You have to have laughs, a good time with a person and if it’s not fun then stop and move on.
Enjoying what ever scenario you are in and don’t take anything seriously.
Sex, this is about sex and nothing more so enjoy and have fun reliving the memories but always remember it is what it is.
Swinging isn’t dating, it isn’t a platform to look for anything more, yes it happens but don’t use it to look for something that isn’t there.
Fun, respect, safety is what I would sum it up.
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[Pearls]

This may be some useless help to newbies ??

Guidance

I get messages off new members on a daily basis asking for advice and tips on where to start, most because they are new to swinging and some just new to the site. So I thought I would put together a little guide which if anyone needs it you can...

socialswinging.com

 

[Skippy01]

Swinging 12 years ago: Meeting likeminded people for sexual exploration and building friendships.
Swinging now: Explaning to random "Trevors" 500 miles away ,that I can't suck his cock in his lunchbreak.No offence to any Trevors x

 

[Pearls]

Swinging 12 years ago: Meeting likeminded people for sexual exploration and building friendships.
Swinging now: Explaning to random "Trevors" 500 miles away ,that I can't suck his cock in his lunchbreak.No offence to any Trevors x

Not 5000 miles ?

 

[Skippy01]

Not 5000 miles ?

I was being generous.But I may be the only one who actually appreciates the Trevors.They help the decent people stand out more, and gives people a chance to shine x

 

[Pearls]

I was being generous.But I may be the only one who actually appreciates the Trevors.They help the decent people stand out more, and gives people a chance to shine x

Good point, but you do mean you shining

 

[Tiger]

For me it’s about the fun, the laughter, being open and honest with like minded people, the socials & of course the sex ?

The highs you get after a liaison are incredible & the flash backs, days, weeks, months later!

Tiger xx

 

[tricky-dicky]

Stupid question you ask but do you fully understand what swinging is about?
If not then here is the place to ask questions, discuss your views and maybe learn something you didn’t know.
Years ago it was very black and white and also very underground but with the joys of modern technology and new generations of people, is it still the fun with no ties or complications that it used to be?
What are your thoughts on what swinging is all about?

I used to

For me it’s about the fun, the laughter, being open and honest with like minded people, the socials & of course the sex ?

The highs you get after a liaison are incredible & the flash backs, days, weeks, months later!

Tiger xx

Same here, but the sex is off the menu these days for me.

 

[Guru G]

Why are all women who swing not an easy shag that’s why I started looking on this site ?

 

[Colin]

If you want an easy shag go to your local pub theres bound to be the local slapper in there lol

 

[Pearls]

If you want an easy shag go to your local pub theres bound to be the local slapper in there lol

Plenty of em here Col ?

 

[tricky-dicky]

Why are all women who swing not an easy shag that’s why I started looking on this site ?

You're on the wrong site for that, swinging has never been about easy shags, swinging requires effort and hard work!

 

[tricky-dicky]

If you want an easy shag go to your local pub theres bound to be the local slapper in there lol

Oh the good old Friday/Saturday night piss up when beer was cheap and the lays where easy I miss them days.

 

[Vanezza]

Oh the good old Friday/Saturday night piss up when beer was cheap and the lays where easy I miss them days.

I remember those days. Now I can feel my bones I would sooner have a laugh and wait to see if sex is on the cards later, I can't be arsed to actively go for it any more and just want it to happen naturally

N xxx

 

[Tiger]

Why are all women who swing not an easy shag that’s why I started looking on this site ?

You clearly have the wrong mindset, get yourself down to wind street in Swansea on a Saturday night! I’m sure you’ll be spoilt for choice

 

[Guru G]

You're on the wrong site for that, swinging has never been about easy shags, swinging requires effort and hard work!

Aye mate you’re right way too fussy on here