I don’t like them with three eyes unfortunately ???You clearly have the wrong mindset, get yourself down to wind street in Swansea on a Saturday night! I’m sure you’ll be spoilt for choice
Oh go on. I spent most of my 20's and early 30's shagging anyone that showed an interest and it was great fun. Some of the ones you set your high standards on are boring as fuck in the sack so in my informed opinion a decent person is the best to go for it has little to do with what they look like. ?
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These women literally haven’t washed their fannys for months they are brutal trust me
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I’m not going to wind st again ?
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For us it's about meeting people to have a social life with as well as the physical side.. It's more about getting to know people now not just jump into bed with anyone.. . Having a laugh and enjoying their company.. There has to be a connection there.. Being able to relax and have conversations with.. Don't get me wrong the physical side does play a part in it.. It always will but friendships definitely is a big part now.. We have only been in this lifestyle for nearly 3 years and have some great friendships through this site.. We have never entertained any other site because the social side here is fantastic.. Even though we don't want to jump into bed with everyone on here and I'm sure most feel the same about us.. The social side has been really amazing and I'm sure it's kept a lot of people from feeling so lonely especially with the last 12 months.. It's testament to this site that swinging is not just about wham bam thank you mam.. I personally think the days of keys in a bowl on a table are gone.. I'm sure there's some who still have parties like that.. I haven't found any yet.. ??.. W.. ??
And your the one that wants a social in Swansea ?
I’m definitely crossing it off the list now
Brilliant post W. ?
I feel exactly the same, all of my sexual activities through the years have been pulled off because I like to charm and make people laugh and not because I have a great body and good looks, far from it tbh. It is all about perception and respecting people whether it be online or IRL. It has been a very successful way for me and I have plenty of woohoo! times to remember ? (some half forgotten because we were all drunk ?)
The whole thing is more about being the best person you can be and then you might attract them for a good time if you are lucky ?
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There’s some good girls in wind st, it’s high st you wanna watch ?And your the one that wants a social in Swansea ?
I’m definitely crossing it off the list now
We have Highfields in Leicester. That is definitely a place where you need to keep your sock on and probably best to double bag! ??
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When I started swinging,the only idea I had about it was the “Keys in a bowl “ scenario , I’ve told the story many times why I started so I won’t bore you with that again … but swinging has given me a social life which I never had before and has also given me many sexual experiences that I wouldn’t have had …
Do I fully understand it probably not , there are many facets to swinging … some appeal some don’t …
Most people I’ve come across in this world have been fantastic obviously there are the “Uber’s” who think they are a cut above everyone ….
it’s given me confidence in how I look …
It’s made me try to interact with people on a social basis obviously you can’t appeal to or please everyone,that’s just normal in anything that you do ..
yes I’ve done many things on here that I would never have done off of here , I often go through the process of should I stay or should I go when things occur … did that recently but I get the odd word in my ear and things become clearer … Thats one of the good things from this site the support it gives you …
I’ve put a lot of time and effort into doing this over the years I’ve been here and the results speak for themselves you get out what you put in ….. join flop your cock out and expect everyone to drop at your feet isn’t going to cut it …
All I’ll say is the past few weeks have seen some downs but now it’s on the up again and the future is looking good ….
This may be the longest post you have ever done and I can see it also speaks from the heart. Love ya babe xxx
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Bit of febreze and I bet you would!
Interesting thread/questions; I’m sure the answers will be equally so.
Been a while since I’ve been anything other than peripherally ‘in’ the scene, but I’ll hold fire unless i see anything I hugely disagree with.
For us it's about having a laugh and lots of kinky, dirty sex 
Swinging has not really worked for me. Not because there is anything wrong with it but mostly because it takes time for people to get what I am about so we end up with single men that just want sex with V. We have enjoyed them when it's right and it has been a fantastic turn on for both of us but when I'm a third wheel over and over when what we both want is to be mutual it really does get old quickly. I was far more successful sexually as a single guy outside of the swinging scene than in it, to be honest. But as a married man, I got far less and it really isn't for want of trying. We really are only here for a giggle and some support when I can give it these days. ?
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I'm sad to hear that it hasn't worked out for you. What is it you're looking for? Maybe I'm not awake enough to be able to read between the lines in terms of yours and V's profile - sorry if that's the case!
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Errr,, Hello look over here.. We can help.. X??
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